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hi op. hope u re fine
I think u ve said it all. ur friend should learn to patch things up with his wife. Im single but dont ever pray to have marriage crises that will lead to having 2 wives. From experience it makes no sense. Thats how the devil works. Crises at home then pushes the man to another lady and before we say jack the new lady is 8wks pregnant. Wahala go come start. Tell ur paddy to cool down and settle with his wife. This one na temptation, infatuation, returning to confusion. He should think of 'for better for worse' and their kid. kindly convey my message to him. BTW, what if this new lady turned out worse than his wife? could she not be pretending about her true xter? I beg tell ur guy to use his head to think before acting

*singing with tremble treble*
lil' Johnny finally went to the other side
  not a lil'shock he got,
 cos the grass that looked erstwhile green
  alas twas a chameleon grass,turned to blue black,red and dark
Your friend suddenly have an ugly,un-cooperative wife cos he meet this damsel and the compare and contrast game started.
That cute girl now,after dropping 2 babies wud not remain the trophy babe that she is now . . .bre, asts must obey gravity,nyash must obey friction + wear and tear/tire,infact her body go tell am!
Narrow path ko,yeye path ni.

Poster, your friend is certainly heading for trouble. Because he has misunderstanding with his wife, who has kids for him, he has to go to another woman. How well does he know this woman? What is the guarantee that she will behave better than his wife, or that she will even be able to bear him kids? The devil you know is better than the one you dont know. Tell your friend not to make a mistake he may regret. There is no marriage that is 100 per cent problem-free. So he should go back to his family & forget the other woman for good.

@poster
what other problem is there in this union apart from wifey not willing to learn how to drive?!

everything is wrong in this picture.
whatever the problems are, cheating is DEFINITELY NOT the way to solve anything. he should also be honest with this new lady who should know who she is dating and decide if she wants to keep on going about this charade.

as we all know that there is NO PLAUSIBLE EXCUSE for cheating, the question you asked is pointless.

Oh lawd. So his wife cannot drive a car so he decided to go ride another woman. Oy. Tell your friend that nothing good can come out of this. NOTHING. This is temporary insanity and if he does not get out now he will regret it. If his wife loses that respect for him his worries will be more than the fact that his wife cannot drive. She will learn to ride him like a hired bicycle. He also has two daughters that are watching daddy everyday. He is a walking example everyday to those girls. I am sure he does not want them to grow up and think that his behavior should be what they should expect from their husbands. Since we do not know the whole story like for example are they in Nigeria. I know the driving issue is not the only thing. I am sure there are other things that he feels his wife can try to be more forward thinking about but I am also guessing that he married her for those reasons and now all of a sudden all those reasons seem to be an inconvenience for him.

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ifyalways:

*singing with tremble treble*
lil' Johnny finally went to the other side
  not a lil'shock he got,
 cos the grass that looked erstwhile green
  alas twas a chameleon grass,turned to blue black,red and dark
Your friend suddenly have an ugly,un-cooperative wife cos he meet this damsel and the compare and contrast game started.
That cute girl now,after dropping 2 babies wud not remain the trophy babe that she is now . . .bre, asts must obey gravity,nyash must obey friction + wear and tear/tire,infact her body go tell am!
Narrow path ko,yeye path ni.

LMAO This girl you no go kill me!

skyone:

Hello NL,

I have a friend who is going through a serious relationship dilemma, his nick name is Jay, cool, calm and collective and in his marriage he always strife to put things. His married with two daughters but often clashes with his wife over certain issues; one of which is wife not particular about learning to drive and its giving my friend a hard time.

Last month Jay met an acquaintance at a Nigerian party, they both share constructive and contemporary thought with each other and they ended up exchanging numbers. Jason fell into temptations by taking her out several times, lo and behold Jason discovered a lot his wife his lacking in her and before the blink of an eye he's already in love (he said he's not infatuated). To cut the long story short he is now in a very narrow path as he has raised the hope and emotion of his jolly acquaintance.

Question

What do you think he should do, tell the truth that he's married and continue to live with what he has bargain for already (his wife)? or keep up the James Bond game and see if he can gain the acquaintance then loose his wife

My thought his he can always improve on his wife at home but that's if she's willing though

Guys and their small brains!

ifyalways:

*singing with tremble treble*
lil' Johnny finally went to the other side
  not a lil'shock he got,
 cos the grass that looked erstwhile green
  alas twas a chameleon grass,turned to blue black,red and dark
Your friend suddenly have an ugly,un-cooperative wife cos he meet this damsel and the compare and contrast game started.
That cute girl now,after dropping 2 babies wud not remain the trophy babe that she is now . . .bre, asts must obey gravity,nyash must obey friction + wear and tear/tire,infact her body go tell am!
Narrow path ko,yeye path ni.

*FAINTS* www.nairaland.com/attachments/378345_LMSAO_gifcc08743add65da1a3fab01ae874d7bfa

your friend is a selfish mutherfucker who only cares about himself alone. do you know how many times he would have to lie to woman whom he claims he loves just to keep his marital status secret. not even minding his two children he already has.
i wonder why some men are so pathetic.

@OP Try front abeg!

like that guy laughing.This things always happen.narrow path.
@poster you are the gamer and the answer is right in front of you so you do not need our advice for the narrow path.

tell your friend hes trending on a very dangerous path that can lead to destruction

Hmmm. . . . you guys must be talking about another type of "driving", cos I dont see the logic in the post.

The guy don chop finish and no wan do again, he is only using driving as an excuse. Wetin dey dre wey he no fit get patience for the babe.

Jason is walking through the shadow of doom.

Your friend is into adulatory, he should deceit from it or face the rout of GOD

"narrow path" and "driving" well, all i know be say if you drive through narrow path, you will need to concentrate,more intresting and sensitive which is key to driving. but the hand hand you will be relaxed,wont even notice you r through because its easyy

thats abt the lamest excuse 4 cheating!, lmao.

ol boy talk true wetin dey worry u,

STOLEN WATER IS ALWAYS SWEET!!,
who wudnt prfer the freshness of a single babe to the ol married woman wey don drop 2 kids, wey gravity don deal with squarely?!

The grass is always greener on the other side. Jay needs to grow up. Jeez, where do they get these type of men from? 2 kids and fighting over driving? WTH?

tell ur friend or is it you, to go ans seat down somewhere! by the time he gets what he wants from his new "catch" he go realize how unreasonable hes been.

Tell him to go watch the movie - why did I get married 1 & 2 by Tyler Perry. Tell him to particularly pay attention to the 80-20 rule.

All that said, Mr Skyone, stay married faithful! What do you think will happen when you discover your new catch (after divorce and remarriage, or second wife) has some missing qualities too? Marry a third one ( or divorce divorce marry)?

shileowo:

"narrow path" and "driving" well, all i know be say if you drive through narrow path, you will need to concentrate,more intresting and sensitive which is key to driving. but the hand hand you will be relaxed,wont even notice you r through because its easyy

abeg help me tell the guy

@ Poster,
Your friend wants to leave his wife because she does not want to learn to drive? I sometimes wonder exactly where the brains of some men are located. Imagine if the wives decide to leave their husbands because of some stupid and insignificant reason which are abound in our men. I want to believe there is more to the story than you are telling us.

Marriage is not child's play. Your wife has her faults just as you have yours. It's about compromises and sacrifices. If you have to go falling in love with every female 'acquantant'.then you should't have gotten married in the first place.

I have always said it,more than half of the married men are no better than teenage undergraduates when it comes to self control.
Love ko,hate ni!!

There is no debate here AT ALL!!! Tell your friend to grow up!

@ ifyalways, Nice piece there I score that one 100%

That guy is just being childish, selfish, not thinking of the future pain that this narrow (difficult) path will lead. To make a home work, patience is very vital.

I also want to divorce my wife because she doesnt have a facebook account

^^^ Good excuse. I plan doing so too. But my reasons are plenty.
1. she has male friends on facebook including her brother.
2. She doesn't do 3soms like my gf.
3. She doesn't kneel down in the morning to greet me
4. she works one night a wknd thereby starving me of sex one night a wk.
5 ( biggest reason) she has refused to put on the exact makeup my gf uses. I love the makeup so much that I ordered it for my wife.

^^^^ Funny stuff

@Poster you friend should take it easy. I can understand that it can be a bit frustrating sometimes to drive his wife all around the place but there are more serious issues to consider i.e. the children.

Tell you friend to think twice.