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A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by Nairalandhero: 10:46am On Jun 11, 2020
DEAR WIFE,

5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND SUCCEED;

1) PRAY WITH/FOR HIM: One of the things every real wife does for her husband is to pray for and with him, Pray for him to Succeed in the office, Pray for him not to fall into Temptation, Pray for his safety, Pray for his Ministry, Pray for his Health.

God honors the Prayer of a Wife over her Husband. Don't allow him pray alone, Don't allow him carry the fire alone, BURN WITH HIM. Hello, Dear Wifey, Is not only to get pregnant and produce children that made him marry you. You can see vision for your husband, You can give him prophecies,
Don't allow Dstv or Zee World kidnap you! Don't allow Facebook, WhatsApp and Instagram destroy your homes!
Don't be spiritually complacent and leave the praying and fasting only for your husband, As he's speaking in tongues, be replying in tongues, let the whole house be on fire..God punish the Devil. Let him see in you a spiritual companion. And see how that improves your home and his spiritual life.

2) BLESS HIM: Proverbs 18:21 "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. "This is almost a similar as praying for him, but still different.

Instead of laying curses on him, Instead of abusing him, Heap blessings upon his head daily, Draw him close to your bosom and bless him as a Parent blesses the Child.Kiss his forehead and decree over him "because you Married Me, you will not fail, you will talk where your mates are talking, our children will be great Men and Women"

3) ENCOURAGE HIM: When things are rough, a Wife should never be amongst those to crucify, lambast or talk discouragingly to her Husband. Even if he messed up.

Remember what Lot told his wife "has thou become like the foolish Women" Don't be like the foolish Woman, Give your Husband words of encouragement daily Even if he's not meeting up, believe me, he's making effort, he knows he's falling short, he feels the pain, he may not talk, please encourage him. Tell him you see his sacrifices daily,Tell him you appreciate his efforts towards you and the kids.

4) MOTIVATE HIM: Be his cheer leader, Cheer him to success, Tell him you believe in him,Tell him he can do it, even if you don't believe, never break his will to try, Tell him he will make it in life, Tell him he will be a great Man,Tell him you saw the great potentials, that's why you married him. If he secures a major achievement, And he seems to be relaxing, Fire him Up once more, Do not allow your husband become complacent, Tell him, "honey you can do even better" Be his hunger to do more. Let him take one look at you and receive motivation to go out there and conquer the World. Let him leave the house feeling like nothing is impossible for him.

5) RUN WITH HIS VISION: A HELP MEET must understand that her duty involves helping her MATE actualize his vision. You are there in his life to help him succeed, to work and walk with him, Just as he is in yours to do same for you. Don't become his competition, Don't become his contender, A lot of women today are fighting their husbands, fighting their husbands dreams.

When he says let's do THIS, you say let's do THAT When he says YES, you say NO. When you keep opposing him because you think he is dumb, or he offended you, or whatever, ur hindering the family's success by so doing! Are you his HELP MATE or HELL MATE? Don't be used by the devil to bring down your Husband's Vision.

Some Women have pulled their husbands down from GRACE to GRASS, Some Women have destroyed their husbands Ministry, chased his business friends away, even gone to His office to fight and make problem, Some Men have lost their Jobs and helpers because of the Woman they married. Don't be that Wife" When he brings ideas, when he brings plans, support him. Even if it will inconvenience you temporarily even if it means you don't get the iPhone you asked for. Support Him.

Many Women agreed to plans that discomforted them, plans they didn't like, made sacrifices to make their Husbands who they are today.

AND DON'T FORGET TO CHASE YOUR DREAMS TOO. Your Individual Success is also a part of the equation. Some Women pull DOWN their Husbands, Some push theirs UP "Besides Every successful Man, is a Woman who contributed Immensely.

"Start Contributing to making your Man Great today. DONT BE A WOE-MAN TO HIM, ATTRACTING WOES TO HIS LIFE RATHER BE A WOO-MAN WHO WOOS HIM 24/7, WHO WOOS PROGRESS AND SUCCESS INTO HIS LIFE! LET LOVE LEAD.

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Re: A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by thesicilian: 10:50am On Jun 11, 2020
And vice versa.
Re: A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by Nairalandhero: 10:56am On Jun 11, 2020
thesicilian:
And vice versa.
Yeah, it's applicable to both Men and Women.

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Re: A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by Jennyoral: 11:04am On Jun 11, 2020
Men should stop cheating and pamper their wives for once

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Re: A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by ettaetta(m): 11:28am On Jun 11, 2020
you are right
Re: A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by RiyadhGoddess(f): 11:30am On Jun 11, 2020
Very true and the man should do the same...

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Re: A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by Bola146(f): 11:31am On Jun 11, 2020
Nothing but the truth
Re: A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jun 11, 2020
A woman this, a woman that. Abeg.
You MEN should dictate your own lives.
Re: A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by paulolee(m): 12:40pm On Jun 11, 2020
fact n same for both
Re: A Woman Should Be A Source Of Motivation To Her Husband, And Not A Heap Of Fire by Gentle0wavez: 12:53pm On Jun 11, 2020
Just continue your dating life even after marriage

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