My brother met his girlfriend sometime last year, and they have been dating for like 7 months. He loves this girl with all his heart according to him despite this girl being a serial cheat and manipulator, he still let go of all these and plan to marry her. The worst thing with this girl is that she is not working and heavily dependent on my brother for her endless needs, cos of this my bro decided to enrol her in a hair dressing school in which he paid huge amount for the em. The main issue is that my brother caught her in an hotel with a married man since then my bro has not been the same again and depressed. His only regret is spending such amounts of money sending her to the hair dressing school. Thus, he has broken up with her but seeing her go to the hair school he paid for is making him aggressive and even more depressed. He is contemplating of stopping her from going to the hair school despite no refund of money after payment. Please what do you advise me to tell him.

If he can stop her, let him go ahead abeg! Who needs the refund? No one! He shouldn't be paying any dime for a cheating ass.

Forget the people that will tell you it is childish!!!

Let him stop her, he would feel better!

And how exactly can he stop her??
Your brother should take his L and move on.

.. He should simply let her b and fa
Ce his other problems. We are Nigerians we all hv one big problem or the other around the corner....... Stop her will bring more drama

I think Contentment is one of the key ingredients to staying faithful.

Anyways, tell ur brother to heal, fighting won't heal his broken heart

At this point there's absolutely nothing He can do. He should try even though it's not easy, to move on with His life.
There's no much to say in this kind of matter.

He should look away, find something else to put his mind in,you as a brother you no try at all, carry your bro out go flex, the depression go reduce.


Remember'' most things that are done can never be undone.

Was the hair learning registration in your brother's name? If yes, he should meet with hair dressers, make them a deal to have him bring in another lady to take his ex' place and thereafter, prevent her from coming there.

But your brother is a weak man. He previously knew she was a serial cheat but still intended to marry her? Anyways, you should not wife a hoe, neither should you hoe a wife.

He should just terminate her enrolment in the hair saloon and let go of whatever he has spent on her.

Lastly, if the girl eventually come for forgiveness or so which is common to serial cheats, and he accept her back, that means he has signed his death warrant.

Seeking a refund?
Tell him to forget about it
And get a good video game to be played PUBG preferably.

I just hope the story isn't about you directly

CokeBar:
If he can stop her, let him go ahead abeg! Who needs the refund? No one! He shouldn't be paying any dime for a cheating ass.

Forget the people that will tell you it is childish!!!

Let him stop her, he would feel better!

Thanks

OrestesDante:


Seeking a refund?
Tell him to forget about it
And get a good video game to be played.

I just hope the story isn't about you directly

No not me

In omoshola’s voice “Warri street street street

SirMichael1:
Was the hair learning registration in your brother's name? If yes, he should meet with hair dressers, make them a deal to have him bring in another lady to take his ex' place and thereafter, prevent her from.

But your brother is a weak man. He previously knew she was a serial cheat but still intended to marry her? Anyways, you should not wife a hoe, neither should you hoe a wife.

ok

You are your brother's girlfriend and your brother is your boyfriend..

You think you doing me, you are doing yourself

Those guys that love without using their head, what's their purpose in this life sef? Na now ihm brain come dey work abi? TELL HIM TO LOOK AWAY JOR Ooin!!

HE'S A SIMP

Did she force your brother to enrol her into an hair dressing school?

how on earth with a man whose complete sense is working will want to settle down with a woman who has nothing to offer apart from punna and a pretty face?

tell yr brother to move on and be happy he never ended up marrying that lady If not na for hotel them go do him pikin naming ceremony

jakD:
This story is so irritating.
He knew she was a serial cheater and manipulator and still went ahead to enroll her and plan marriage with her?
Catching her with a married man in the hotel shouldn't be new to him then.
My advice is, either he forgives her and continue the relationship or he forgets her totally and forget the thought of going to stop her from going to where she was enrolled. Besides, he cannot stop her.
But wait, if you are not directly involved in the story, why are you depressed then? Obviously, you're the guy but posing like a lady.

No mind ham . The op is d guy and I no wan give han lashing so that tomorrow morning I wont wake up seeing " Depressed guy committed suicide "

SirMichael1:
Was the hair learning registration in your brother's name? If yes, he should meet with hair dressers, make them a deal to have him bring in another lady to take his ex' place and thereafter, prevent her from.

But your brother is a weak man. He previously knew she was a serial cheat but still intended to marry her? Anyways, you should not wife a hoe, neither should you hoe a wife.

My thought exactly, he should look for someone else to replace the girl even if he has no one he should tell them to pause the lesson till he sees someone worthy. I believe if he explains to them how things unfold they will definitely help him

jakD:
This story is so irritating.
He knew she was a serial cheater and manipulator and still went ahead to enroll her and plan marriage with her?
Catching her with a married man in the hotel shouldn't be new to him then.
My advice is, either he forgives her and continue the relationship or he forgets her totally and forget the thought of going to stop her from going to where she was enrolled. Besides, he cannot stop her.
But wait, if you are not directly involved in the story, why are you depressed then? Obviously, you're the guy but posing like a lady.

So if my brother is depressed I should be dancing?

dottozil:


My thought exactly, he should look for someone else to replace the girl even if he has no one he should tell them to pause the lesson till he sees someone worthy. I believe if he explains to them how things unfold they will definitely help him

It doesn't even have to be someone worthy, anyone would do, preferebly anyone seemingly beneath the ex' just to spite her.

sweetyme001:
So if my brother is depressed I should be dancing?

Stupid line of thought!

So if your brother is mad, should you also tow his path? Should you also be mad?

sweetyme001:
My brother met his girlfriend sometime last year, and they have been dating for like 7 months. He loves this girl with all his heart according to him despite this girl being a serial cheat and manipulator, he still let go of all these and plan to marry her. The worst thing with this girl is that she is not working and heavily dependent on my brother for her endless needs, cos of this my bro decided to enrol her in a hair dressing school in which he paid huge amount for the em. The main issue is that my brother caught her in an hotel with a married man since then my bro has not been the same again and depressed. His only regret is spending such amounts of money sending her to the hair dressing school. Thus, he has broken up with her but seeing her go to the hair school he paid for is making him aggressive and even more depressed. He is contemplating of stopping her from going to the hair school despite no refund of money after payment. Please what do you advise me to tell him.

he needs closure. So that he can move on

Imagine!, some guys ehn na low self esteem go kiiiiii some people, why will u still be with a serial glancing cheat?? and be stupid enough to still be spending lavishly on him/her??

Nah free pussy/dick go bankrupt some people

My advice: Stop her from that fvcking school and look for some fvcking innocent lady interested to fvcking replace her!
You know what? FVCK THE GUY, FVCK THAT BEITCH! FVCK THE SCHOOL!!

HAIR DRESSER....................................ETC.

Run for ya life

SirMichael1:
It doesn't even have to be someone worthy, anyone would do, preferebly anyone seemingly beneath the ex' just to spite her.

Well said

sweetyme001:
My brother met his girlfriend sometime last year, and they have been dating for like 7 months. He loves this girl with all his heart according to him despite this girl being a serial cheat and manipulator, he still let go of all these and plan to marry her. The worst thing with this girl is that she is not working and heavily dependent on my brother for her endless needs, cos of this my bro decided to enrol her in a hair dressing school in which he paid huge amount for the em. The main issue is that my brother caught her in an hotel with a married man since then my bro has not been the same again and depressed. His only regret is spending such amounts of money sending her to the hair dressing school. Thus, he has broken up with her but seeing her go to the hair school he paid for is making him aggressive and even more depressed. He is contemplating of stopping her from going to the hair school despite no refund of money after payment. Please what do you advise me to tell him.

let him get drunk for one week den he will stop depressed