The worst thing is that I don't really know the reason behind such anger and hatred towards me . Most of the time, he accuses me of conniving or conspiring with others to spy on him, and to make his life miserable (truth be told,I don't know what he's talking about), and which is not true,I can't do that as his only sister and only sibling.

I don't really understand this brother of mine! He's an introvert,he doesn't say his mind.You know must of them keeps to themselves. They hardly open up. When he accuses me of that, I try to prove him wrong.

We're both adults. Long time we've had a good conversation. Always avoiding each other despite living together as siblings. I have told my parents about his recent hot temper,my parents adviced him,warn him severally not to destroy things whenever he's angry, but yet! ... God!


I have told my parent I can't endure it any longer, I don't want anything to distract me from my studies, I want to be separated from him. I can't stay with him again. But My parent always give me this excuse, "we don't have money to rent another room for you endure"


But my heart is paining me, I'm now having chest pain because of his wickedness towards me,as the only sister. What crime have I committed that made him to show such wickednss to me? Tell me what's my fault, He will just bounce the door and leave, at least tell me so that I can apologize, noooo

Even though I try to make peace,he won't cooperate. I am fed up with him!
I think he's possess! I need to pack out, some one should help me. I need money to pack out please. I can no longer stay with him. He has disobeyed my parents, right now my mom is depressed cuz of what he did today. This is not the first time of him doing this. He has destroyed plates,
My phone... now my bag.

Please help me with money to pack please because that's the only option right now. Have tried other ways, I try to be quiet, I mind the way I talk to him for peace to rain but what he just did confuses me me. What should I do now Please I'm in pain. This phone is no longer working, it's gone! Help me!

S

My phone

Where is your location

I don't understand how exactly packing out is going to solve anything, your brother can easily locate you wherever you move to and hurt you there. If you can't afford to move out on your own, you do you intend to cope living on your own? Your mum needs to call an intervention with elders he won't be able to disrespect and settle your issues.

“Help you with money to pack”

You must be joking

In fact you just spoilt a beautiful story.

Is your brother also a student?

He's an aggressive paranoia with trust issues who pose as a danger to those around him

How old is he?
What about your dad?

waitin 4 d elders, cos dis 1 strong o

[quote author=Mariangeles post=91203090]He's an aggressive paranoia with trust issues who pose as a danger to those around him

How old is he?
What about your dad?[/quote
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Mindlog:
Is your brother also a student?

Yes

Carchoice:


“Help you with money to pack”

You must be joking

In fact you just spoilt a beautiful story.

How
I'm just frustrated �

Sorry dear,your parents need to work hard on him. I actually enjoyed being an only girl in the midst of four brothers,i was and still a pin in their asses but non ever layed a finger on me, a therapist might help.Sorry

Carchoice:


“Help you with money to pack”

You must be joking

In fact you just spoilt a beautiful story.

I don't know how to help myself, I don't want to do

Wait, are you indirectly begging for money or you're begging for money

Fountainofyouth:
Wait, are you indirectly begging for money or you're begging for money

No I'm not just confused

[quote author=Sususy post=91203190][/quote]

He cannot be allowed to bully others.

Any time he gets aggressive towards you or your parents, threaten to report him to the police. Drastic times always call for drastic measures.
He can move out if he feels out of place. He's old enough to fend for himself.

Sususy:

Yes

I am picking up persecutory delusions from your narration......he needs psychological help, get your parents involved as this is not a case of phone calls.

Sususy:


No I'm not just confused

Okay.

chai dis one won take style beg money
if I may ask
which phone u use snap ur phone wey don spoil come post am for NL?

Imiete:

chai dis one won take style beg money

if I may ask

which phone u use snap ur phone wey don spoil come post am for NL?

You people should not misinterpret me

Imiete:

chai dis one won take style beg money

if I may ask

which phone u use snap ur phone wey don spoil come post am for NL?

I was writing in pains

And I didn't drop my account details

Sususy:


You people should not misinterpret me

if u won beg go straight to d point instead of cooking up stupid stories, d phone I see there even looks like a toy

It means I wasn't interested in the money buh what should I do

Imiete:
if u won beg go straight to d point instead of cooking up stupid stories, d phone I see there even looks like a toy

Okay! I don't need your own advice since you think I'm lying

Sususy:

Okay! I don't need your own advice since you think I'm lying

lol, I pity ur senior brother wey dey house dey relax,u come NL dey lie say him destroy ur phone just because u won beg money.

If true, a family meeting and intervention is critical.

Hi Sususy,

Sorry for what you're going through but can you clarify a few things?

. He suspects you're talking about him to.other people.Is it just you? Does he think neighbors/other people are talking about him too? Why does he think so?

. Is he reading too much meaning into ordinary things and making connections that don't seem to make sense to you?

.Does he think people are out to get him and do him harm?

Who else does he think is spying on him and how has he come to this conclusion?

Does he think people are hearing the thoughts in his head or trying to extract information from his head?

Have you seen him talking to himself or to people who you cannot see?

How about pointing out things that you can't see?

Does he seem scared and afraid ?

Does his speech make sense to you or does he seem to be rambling on about stuff,talking too many things at the same time?

How is his hygiene? Has he stopped caring for himself or his surroundings?

You can get this information from him and try to be understanding and not confrontational just to have an idea about what he's experiencing

Most importantly,when did you notice any changes or has he always been this way?

You may have to consider that your brother sounds like he is unwell not possessed and is starting to be more paranoid? Your answers may guide us all a bit better to help see what the best solution is from here?

I had a Takotsubo case about 5 days ago and I thought of you

Takotsubo:
Hi Sususy,

Sorry for what you're going through but can you clarify a few things?

. He suspects you're talking about him to.other people.Is it just you? Does he think neighbors/other people are talking about him too? Why does he think so?

. Is he reading too much meaning into ordinary things and making connections that don't seem to make sense to you?

.Does he think people are out to get him and do him harm?

Who else does he think is spying on him and how has he come to this conclusion?

Does he think people are hearing the thoughts in his head or trying to extract information from his head?

Have you seen him talking to himself or to people who you cannot see?

How about pointing out things that you can't see?

Does he seem scared and afraid ?

Does his speech make sense to you or does he seem to be rambling on about stuff,talking too many things at the same time?

How is his hygiene? Has he stopped caring for himself or his surroundings?

You can get this information from him and try to be understanding and not confrontational just to have an idea about what he's experiencing

Most importantly,when did you notice any changes or has he always been this way?

You may have to consider that your brother sounds like he is unwell not possessed and is starting to be more paranoid? Your answers may guide us all a bit better to help see what the best solution is from here?