There is a part of life that is not clear to a lot of young people.It is saddening that a lot of youths only get wise when they begin to grow grey hair.But the truth about our existence is that ,what we do in our childhood reflects in our youth,and what we do in our youth reflects at old age.if you do not know these secrets,you might suffer out of ignorance.now,note these points:

1. Do not hate people; no matter what anybody has done,pls forgive them and move on in life.

2.Reduce the number of people you are not in good terms with;please,if u want to live long, make sure u reduce those you are having lot with to the lowest minimum.I understand that you can't be cool with everybody ,cus some people will just want to fight you.but please make sure you try to make peace and don't fight back.

3.Pls, always be the mumu in your dealings with people; if a guy wants 2 fight u because of a girl, let him have her.if u borrow som1 money and he does not want 2 give it back.let it go.if someone cheats you ,don't fight him. if someone insults u,let it go.people will think you are a mumu.but the truth is that you are the "WISE" one.

4.You must understand that people are wicked;pls understand,some people are gullible. And dey lik 2 bliv wat dey hear people say,in fact a lot of people will tell u d opposite of what is on their mind.people are wicked oh.,pls try as much as possible not to trust anybody. 5.let your words and actions be heavily calculated.
6.dont marry because of beauty,handsomness,money,fine shape nd sex.if you do,that beauty might b a beast. The waist she is shaking can be wasted. the handsomeness may demand a Ransom from you later.
7.know that there is something called fate;there are some things you don't deserve but will come to you,there are some things you didn't pray about but heaven will give to you,there are people you don't know but will favour you.that is fate in action .
8 There aat people who love you; there are girls you didn't toast that will just like you. some people will just like you.

9.keep your record short with people. Don't let Just anybody know your secrets,don't discuss personal issues in public or in the bus.

10.let your friends talk a lot and you listen a lot.

11.Be bold inside,don't let people know.because people may just want to push you in trouble because they know you are bold.let it be in you and prove it when it is necessary. Cus some fools might want to use your boldness as an escape route and endanger you.

12.help people a lot. Pls if you have the money, sponsor people,buy food and cloth for people who truly need it. your unborn children will never get to struggle for anything in life.As a student,help and teach your course mate

13.Please try less not to offend a woman. Women hardly forgive,once they hate you.
They can do anything to get at you, but if a woman loves you, she can kill for you.

14.As a woman, Learn how to win a man/boy's attention. woman, don't always claim you know too much.trying to impose you know more around any man.No man would like you for that. men like to always be above, we were meant to be so.if u want to enjoy men's care in school or your dads care at home don't ever be arrogant around men.be confident and be natural,and also be careering.a lot of guys will like you for that, then you will b like a queen.

15 know how to control the power of attraction. There is something in men that attracts them to women.there is something in women that attracts men to them.how u manage this thing will determine how u will manage your life.

16.Be a very good reader.read any good book