Good day everyone, sorry for bothering you but I need your opinions on this please.
Bear with me, I don't know how tell stories.

A friend of mine (female) who I met sometimes last year. We've become close friends but never had anything intimate and I'm not thinking it. I believe she has a boyfriend or in an intimate relationship though she has never mentioned it and I have never asked her just to stair clear from those unnecessary conversations.
She has told me about all the guys that have asked her out ranging from young to old sugar daddies. Most times when she came up with those stories I do find a way to escape from the topic untill one day she came out plain to seek my advice about someone that was asking her for marriage. She was confused because according to her, the man was pressurising her and the is about 20years older than her. I just told to follow passion.
To cut the story shot, she sent me a message some days ago telling me that she is in urgent need of four hundred naira, it was unusual to me because she never asks me for money. Before I could reply she sent a follow-up message that it's for an urgent need that was your she was specific with the exact amount that she wants to buy "Always" (sanitary pad) I didn't hesitate to ask her how I can get the money across to her and she replied "come out of your Estate, I'll also come out, while coming help me buy it, I need the blue colour" I knew that I was never going to do that but I don't object, I just told her that I was at work and can't meet that urgent request of hers. She then said that I should buy it while coming back from work. I said ok just to end it because I wasn't going to buy anything. While coming back from work I called her to come out and I gave her money to go buy it herself.
She looked disappointed and she said "this small girlfriend message that sent you, you cannot go" I didn't reply her. Just told her that I was tired and needed to rest.
I left but I kept wandering what all these could mean. Is it over familiarity? Was she trying to pull a stunt? What does she take me for.
Please what do you think about this behavior?
I need your answers please.
Thank you

SIMPleton.

Free Ray Hushpuppi!!!

She confided in you because she trusts you. She sees you probably more than a friend but won't mind being your girlfriend someday should you muster up the courage to ask her out.

That being said, any lady asking a man to buy her sanitary pads is very brave and open. Such man should count himself lucky. Some wives cannot ask their husbands such. So loosen up a bit and cut her some slack!

OP, This story is incomplete.



But Sha, I feel she's crushing on you and you give her more attention and proffer solutions to most of her problems and she's also a kid and not mature enough to snub you yet....

By the time she begin to roll with hot guys in your street and wears more sexy clothes with classical makeups.....


You will create another threat to wail....


Just the Jonz yourself the go.....

SIMPleton.

That is not a nice word. Learn civilized way of communication.

Most of the guys asking her out backed out recently


You're the next IDIOT if you don't cut her off now

Whatever she said doesn't matter

The question here is , what exactly are you doing with her? Stop fooling yourself and bounce now

lilmax:
Most of the guys asking her out backed out recently


You're the next IDIOT if you don't cut her off now

Whatever she said doesn't matter

The question here is , what exactly are you doing with her? Stop fooling yourself and bounce now

I haven't taught of dating her before and I have never given her any reason to think that I'm interested in having any form of intimate relationship. I can't dump friends just because I don't want an intimate relationship with them.
I am highly disciplined and be with any girl without thinking of anything but I hate being taken for granted.

yanabasee1:
OP, This story is incomplete.



But Sha, I feel she's crushing on you and you give her more attention and proffer solutions to most of her problems and she's also a kid and not mature enough to snub you yet....

By the time she begin to roll with hot guys in your street and wears more sexy clothes with classical makeups.....


You will create another threat to wail....


Just the Jonz yourself the go.....

She's about 25yrs and not a kid.
Asking her out is not my problem but it's not in my agenda.
I'll be happier if she becomes a better person and finds someone to love her.

Pls eradicate the thought of dating her.
She's your friend bro

BucciJP:


She's about 25yrs and not a kid.
Asking her out is not my problem but it's not in my agenda.
I'll be happier if she becomes a better person and finds someone to love her.

Wish you two good luck!!

BucciJP:


I haven't taught of dating her before and I have never given her any reason to think that I'm interested in having any form of intimate relationship. I can't dump friends just because I don't want an intimate relationship with them.
I am highly disciplined and be with any girl without thinking of anything but I hate being taken for granted.

oh I see

Alright, see you next two months here