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Heart Broken by Obingene: 11:48pm On Jul 08
Finding love hasn't been easy. Everytime, when it seems to be going good I get heart Broken.

Recently, fell in love with this young girl only to find out that she is a single mum, I didn't complain and decided to give the friendship a go.

All of a sudden, I've fallen in love with her at a point where she is beginning to display withdrawal symptoms.

I'm almost running mad here, I tried not to confront her because we ain't in any relationship but I feel.used, probably she has reunited with her baby dad.

Damn!! God please, I need my own Eve.

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Re: Heart Broken by InfernoNig(m): 11:52pm On Jul 08
I understand how you feel. And I wish I can pacify you in a better way other than to say I am really sorry. Please just nurse the hurt and move on with time you will heal and things will be better again. You will definitely find true love. Peace

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Re: Heart Broken by Oluromantic: 11:55pm On Jul 08
Wanna hear the bitter truth? You didn't handle her manly enough. You need to learn to separate emotions from friendship. Inability to distinguish between the two is women's weakness. You as a man are to use your brain for friendship and use emotions only when you're sure she would make a good wife.

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Re: Heart Broken by OneMillionBTC: 12:03am On Jul 09
Hmm.
Re: Heart Broken by Obingene: 12:31am On Jul 09
Oluromantic:
Wanna hear the bitter truth? You didn't handle her manly enough. You need to learn to separate emotions from friendship. Inability to distinguish between the two is women's weakness. You as a man are to use your brain for friendship and use emotions only when you're sure she would make a good wife.

Please elucidate sir.
Re: Heart Broken by SweetCunt97(f): 12:35am On Jul 09
Oluromantic:
Wanna hear the bitter truth? You didn't handle her manly enough. You need to learn to separate emotions from friendship. Inability to distinguish between the two is women's weakness. You as a man are to use your brain for friendship and use emotions only when you're sure she would make a good wife.
Baba if no coin or sense of responsibility, once d lady spots that, she'll withdraw. Unless the guy has so much to offer
Re: Heart Broken by Sundrus: 12:58am On Jul 09
Oga stop to dey find love...once u stop, love go surely find u. I just hope say u go get the wisdom to identify am when the love eventually come.

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Re: Heart Broken by Obingene: 1:05am On Jul 09
SweetCunt97:
Baba if no coin or sense of responsibility, once d lady spots that, she'll withdraw. Unless the guy has so much to offer

True, I just lost my job.

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Re: Heart Broken by UndauntedYOCA(f): 1:05am On Jul 09
Nawao brother. Don't worry, you'll be fine, I hear people say love will find one when one stops looking, I don't know how true that is but I hope it finds you sha.
Re: Heart Broken by SweetCunt97(f): 1:29am On Jul 09
Obingene:


True, I just lost my job.
Sorry
Re: Heart Broken by Oluromantic: 8:09am On Jul 09
SweetCunt97:
Baba if no coin or sense of responsibility, once d lady spots that, she'll withdraw. Unless the guy has so much to offer
It's same thing we're saying. The lady having seen he's not ready for marriage still chose him as a friend. He shd have maintained that friendship level instead of getting emotional. Being emotional when there are no signs of readiness for marriage especially for an after-one lady doesn't make sense. If he maintained the friendship with brain, the girl will still give him lots of sex..that's probably what she wanted at first sef but he fuccked up
Re: Heart Broken by iTearHerToto: 10:25am On Jul 09
SweetCunt97:
Baba if no coin or sense of responsibility, once d lady spots that, she'll withdraw. Unless the guy has so much to offer
And you hoes claim your love isn't conditional.





Pukes angry

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Re: Heart Broken by Obingene: 10:50am On Jul 09
Oluromantic:

It's same thing we're saying. The lady having seen he's not ready for marriage still chose him as a friend. He shd have maintained that friendship level instead of getting emotional. Being emotional when there are no signs of readiness for marriage especially for an after-one lady doesn't make sense. If he maintained the friendship with brain, the girl will still give him lots of sex..that's probably what she wanted at first sef but he fuccked up

It's an online stuff, we haven't met yet. She's more like locked in at home with her baby as she's still young and had to drop out of school.
Re: Heart Broken by SweetCunt97(f): 11:35am On Jul 09
iTearHerToto:
And you hoes claim your love isn't conditional.





Pukes angry
Smiles. Practicality has nothing to do with love. Stay there and b deceiving yourself. To truly love someone, you have to know that person deep. We can't start a relationship this month and the next you already dishing out excuses and "I lost my job" story and expect the person to stick. There has to b a depth which time spent creates.

Love needs to blossom without complaints, excuses, whinings.
Re: Heart Broken by SweetCunt97(f): 11:36am On Jul 09
Obingene:


It's an online stuff, we haven't met yet. She's more like locked in at home with her baby as she's still young and had to drop out of school.
You are even funny. Work on yourself first.
Re: Heart Broken by SweetCunt97(f): 11:38am On Jul 09
Oluromantic:

It's same thing we're saying. The lady having seen he's not ready for marriage still chose him as a friend. He shd have maintained that friendship level instead of getting emotional. Being emotional when there are no signs of readiness for marriage especially for an after-one lady doesn't make sense. If he maintained the friendship with brain, the girl will still give him lots of sex..that's probably what she wanted at first sef but he fuccked up
I don't know about giving him sex when he has nothing to offer her though.
Re: Heart Broken by francesco01(m): 1:10pm On Jul 09
next time, you see a girl you like, you become friends with her firstly, don't try to rush, even if she likes you, it will freaks her out. don't be too needy. naso naija girls be o. no serious too much as soon as una meet.
Re: Heart Broken by Oluromantic: 4:56pm On Jul 09
SweetCunt97:
I don't know about giving him sex when he has nothing to offer her though.
There are different kind of ladies. Some will give u sex and spend on you even
Re: Heart Broken by BigJoe19: 4:57pm On Jul 09
SweetCunt97:
I don't know about giving him sex when he has nothing to offer her though.
So when a man and a woman have sex so it's the woman giving sex, what a wonderful world we live in shocked shocked
Re: Heart Broken by SweetCunt97(f): 5:29pm On Jul 09
Oluromantic:

There are different kind of ladies. Some will give u sex and spend on you even
Probably a rich single mom. Definitely not a dropout single mom. Keep up with d narrative ok
Re: Heart Broken by Oluromantic: 6:02pm On Jul 09
SweetCunt97:
Probably a rich single mom. Definitely not a dropout single mom. Keep up with d narrative ok
It's not narrative. I've dated one before. Ok. Every occurrence doesn't have to be centered around your view
Re: Heart Broken by SweetCunt97(f): 6:05pm On Jul 09
Oluromantic:

It's not narrative. I've dated one before. Ok
Bro I meant the Op's narrative. Surely there are ladies who will give guys money. There are alpha ladies like that. Might not necessarily translate to love. Funny how you men always match love and money.
Re: Heart Broken by Zabiboy: 6:14pm On Jul 09

OP @ obingene
Keep loving ok...
One day, your Eve would meet you ok...
Just keep searching ok
Keep being yourself..
NONSENSE AND BLADDERDASH angry undecided ....

The problem with most guy's in this century is that despite the fact that there are so many platforms for them to learn from other people's mistake and experience, they still end up making the same mistakes....

BE WISE MAN.....BE WISE...
LEARN FROM OTHER'S MISTAKES AND EXPERIENCE.....
YOU CANT DO THE SAME THING TWICE AND EXPECT A DIFFERENT OUTCOME...

Anyways, what's my business grin
Re: Heart Broken by Omar09(m): 6:17pm On Jul 09
Zabiboy:

OP @ obingene
Keep loving ok...
One day, your Eve would meet you ok...
Just keep searching ok
Keep being yourself..
NONSENSE AND BLADDERDASH angry undecided ....

The problem with most guy's in this century is that despite the fact that there are so many platforms for them to learn from other people's mistake and experience, they still end up making the same mistakes....

BE WISE MAN.....BE WISE...
LEARN FROM OTHER'S MISTAKES AND EXPERIENCE.....
YOU CANT DO THE SAME THING TWICE AND EXPECT A DIFFERENT OUTCOME...


Anyways, what's my business grin


The definition of an Ediot. Quite frankly, a lot of men are just that definition. The keep jumping into mud and still want to come out clean.

Thanks to Martinez39s and Ubunja weh wash my eye.

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Re: Heart Broken by Omar09(m): 6:18pm On Jul 09
Obingene:
Finding love hasn't been easy. Everytime, when it seems to be going good I get heart Broken.

Recently, fell in love with this young girl only to find out that she is a single mum, I didn't complain and decided to give the friendship a go.

All of a sudden, I've fallen in love with her at a point where she is beginning to display withdrawal symptoms.

I'm almost running mad here, I tried not to confront her because we ain't in any relationship but I feel.used, probably she has reunited with her baby dad.

Damn!! God please, I need my own Eve.

Eve ruined the life Adam, my boy. You do not want an Eve around you or any one answering that name literally.
Re: Heart Broken by Zabiboy: 6:22pm On Jul 09
Omar09:


The definition of an Ediot. Quite frankly, a lot of men are just that definition. They keep jumping into mud and still want to come out clean.

Thanks to Martinez.....39s and Ubun....ja weh wash my eye.

As in ehnn....
They think because they are "nice", females should see them as special beings grin grin
The excuse those days was the lack of info and medium by which men can share experiences But now, internet has made everything easy YET some people wont still Learn angry ....
Re: Heart Broken by Zabiboy: 6:25pm On Jul 09
Omar09:


Eve ruined the life Adam , my boy. You do not want an Eve around you or any one answering that name literally.

@ bolded
I dont think the OP cares....
He jzts needs a pvssy grin grin ....
Just the Cap grin

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Re: Heart Broken by Herbephe1(m): 6:26pm On Jul 09
Zabiboy:

OP @ obingene
Keep loving ok...
One day, your Eve would meet you ok...
Just keep searching ok
Keep being yourself..
NONSENSE AND BLADDERDASH angry undecided ....

The problem with most guy's in this century is that despite the fact that there are so many platforms for them to learn from other people's mistake and experience, they still end up making the same mistakes....

BE WISE MAN.....BE WISE...
LEARN FROM OTHER'S MISTAKES AND EXPERIENCE.....
YOU CANT DO THE SAME THING TWICE AND EXPECT A DIFFERENT OUTCOME...

Anyways, what's my business grin



stupendous comment!!
Which experience have you, I mean yourself shared??
Re: Heart Broken by Spysees: 6:57pm On Jul 09
Sorry homie, I'm no stranger to heartbreak; I've broken alotta hearts, but never had mine broken; y'know? It isn't my fault, nigga don't know how to love! Got me hook on bitches for life!
Re: Heart Broken by Omar09(m): 7:49pm On Jul 09
Zabiboy:


As in ehnn....
They think because they are "nice", females should see them as special beings grin grin
The excuse those days was the lack of info and medium by which men can share experiences But now, internet has made everything easy YET some people wont still Learn angry ....

Them no want learn. Even those days sef our men were very masculine if not one can not marry two wives and still coordinate them. Today's men eh! It's as if the internet made them more effeminate.

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Re: Heart Broken by HomerTimpson: 7:55pm On Jul 09
Obingene:
Finding love hasn't been easy. Everytime, when it seems to be going good I get heart Broken.

Recently, fell in love with this young girl only to find out that she is a single mum, I didn't complain and decided to give the friendship a go.

All of a sudden, I've fallen in love with her at a point where she is beginning to display withdrawal symptoms.

I'm almost running mad here, I tried not to confront her because we ain't in any relationship but I feel.used, probably she has reunited with her baby dad.

Damn!! God please, I need my own Eve.
DUDE,leave GOD out of this,he's too busy for all this stuff,if you need your own EVE,goan buy is just #20,and by the way YOU ARE WELCOME
Re: Heart Broken by HomerTimpson: 8:03pm On Jul 09
Obingene:


True, I just lost my job.
WOW! Bro,according to female dictionary you are not allow to have feelings for them at this unfortunate state of yours, just blend in and fall inlove with money while you build your world

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