Righteousness89:
Personally, it may be Difficult but if she Genuinely repents, I have no Choice than to take Here back!





I don't see myself having that anyway! I have got a Heavenly Virtuous Wife...

I am so Privileged to have such a woman..

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

GboyegaD:
I don't pray it happens but I will if and only I can reason genuinely why it is my fault.

Norano:
In reality lots of men take back cheating wives, I have seen it happen lots of time. On the internet they will send a cheating wife packing immediately.
So...

postmann:


The simple answer is no. Because men are not wired to accept that. Once there is coital violation on the part of the woman, then the mariage is mentally, psychologically and romantically over. I deliberately left out the spiritual part in order to stay aligned within the scope of this section.

The woman's sexual organ is sacred and should never be violated by another man in marriage. It is taboo.

Norano:
In reality lots of men take back cheating wives, I have seen it happen lots of time. On the internet they will send a cheating wife packing immediately.
So...

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

emkz:


Sister, please read carefully. I don't buy the gender equality crap when it comes to sexual immorality. If a man sleeps around, he is not looked down upon as a woman would. Women fail to understand one basic thing. They are actually created to be stronger than men emotionally, spiritually and psychically. So when a woman starts comparing herself with a man, she's reducing herself and it would affect her respect. Men are generally more animalistic and are wired to prey while women are finer and more subtle. In the Bible, it was common for men to have concubines, e.g., Oga Solo and King David. But the women that had several husbands were not so valued. The Son of God had to ask the one who was brought to Him for stoning approval to go and sin no more. There is no where in the Bible the women are told to put away their husbands if they stray. So I will explain to you from experience and observations.

But before I say anything, a woman who cheats on her husband debases herself, devalues herself and makes herself irritating to her husband. A cheating wife is worse than cancer and destroys the self-esteem of her husband. A lot of men divorce their wives for infidelity but are quiet about it because they don't want to lose the respect of their peers. If you as a woman cannot put up with a cheating husband, it is not a sin if you ask him for a divorce but it is a sin if you don't and you hate each other in the union.

A friend of mine had a spouse and they had challenges in their union. She left to take a break from the union for them to get their acts together. She rebuffed advances from men and focused on her career. When she got back after a year, she discovered baba was bonking another babe. They tried to fix it, but the babe felt she had rights and started disrespecting madam. Oga failed to do anything about it because he was still bonking her and madam took her daughter to her parents and left him.

Sometimes, the best gift you can give to certain people in life is to forgive them and leave them. I won't cheat on my wife, but I have told her the day I cheat on her, if she doesn't divorce me, I would divorce her because she is telling me it is okay for me to disrespect her.

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

Munzy14:

No.

Even in relationship it is a deal breaker in addition to stealing for me. If you are my woman, and u do this two, or even one, Game over..

Reasons;
1. If she cheat, I am no longer enough for her. In fact if the new man is hitting her on center of gravity where e deh sweet her pass, I av automatically become an Impedance for her.

2. Due to me becoming an impedance, she can eliminate me easily,because she cooks my family meal.

3. I am likely going to commit murder, I knw what i can do. I really don't want anyone to awake the demon in me..

4. A lot of beauty and cool headed with brain ladies out there, so I really don't need to keep a time bomb(cheating wife) under my roof..

5. She will corrupt my kids, especially the females. Because mother goat weh deh chop yam, the pikin go copy am.

6. Its difficult for a woman to cheat, but ones she does, she has crossed..

Lastly, there are tendencies of a woman to bleep easily for material things, Just like we have the tendencies of a man to bleep just to release konji wit no strings attached.

And cheating is a choice.

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

postmann:


The simple answer is no. Because men are not wired to accept that. Once there is coital violation on the part of the woman, then the mariage is mentally, psychologically and romantically over. I deliberately left out the spiritual part in order to stay aligned within the scope of this section.

The woman's sexual organ is sacred and should never be violated by another man in marriage. It is taboo.

SweetCunt97:
Whatever. Anything to make the man superior to the woman.

SweetCunt97:
Whatever. Anything to make the man superior to the woman.

Norano:
In reality lots of men take back cheating wives, I have seen it happen lots of time. On the internet they will send a cheating wife packing immediately.
So...

eduj:



you caught her ,she didn't confess -thats the salient point -she didn't confess!!!
ponder this questions ;
how long would she have carried on if you never caught her ?

why did she cheat in the first instance ?

Are you the type of man that cheats ? if so and you truly love your wife this can be a time of healing and rebuilding.

is your wife sorry that she cheated or that you caught her ?

is she afraid of loosing your affection and trust or just the security marriage brings?

Now the hardest question is if you can truly forgive and forget? can you trust her ever again ? can you look at your kids and not wonder if they are truly yours ? can you see her with men and not wonder if they are her lovers past or present ? can you see neighbours/friends laughing or hailing you as you walk past and not wonder if they making fun of you ? can you not wonder where she is carrying on if she doesn't come home on time ?

Eventually it boils down to you,what you can live with and endure .It boils down to how much you want her and she you (don't underestimate that point). Infidelity demolishes trust and unlike love,the absence of trust totally destroys a relationship.Also know that a cheating is like an addiction ,it doesn't just vanish -Goidluck to you

Missyajoke:


Men has 100% tendency to cheat but as a man you should have self control if he doesn't want to wreck his home. As a man you'll meet different ladies everyday but drawing a line between if show if you love your wife or not.

stanliwise:
I am asking this time in response to your answer to the original question.

SuperStriker:


This is a weighty issue, don't trivialise it

banio:


A woman cheats, You now want it to be your fault. It's well