Flexherbal:


God bless you, my friend.

bukatyne:


Most people mistake Christianity as a religion, it is not.

It is not bound by rules, it is expression of liberty within the Word and will of God.

CAPSLOCKED:


THE WORD AND THE WILL OF THE CHRISTIAN GOD IS NOT WHAT THE ENTIRE WORLD POPULATION SHOULD LIVE BY.

JUST LIKE ARSENAL, MANCHESTER UNITED, CHELSEA AND THE REST, THAT IS HOW CHRISTIANITY AND THE OTHERS ARE. OPTIONS.

enthronedbyGod1:
All scriptures are from KJV.

Sexual related sins ( fornication, masturbation, anal sex, MouthAction, pornography, e.t.c) is one of the major sins the devil is using as a weapon against our youths.

There is the spiritual side to this, which has to do with demonic manipulation (demonic influence, demonic oppression or demonic possession) and there's the physical aspect which is through the weakness of the flesh, however I'll focus mostly on dealing with it when it's as a result of the weakness of the flesh.

The first step in overcoming the weakness of the flesh is by cutting off ties with anyone who encourages us to engage in such acts, no matter who the person is even if he's a Christian brother, sister, boyfriend, girlfriend, best friend, mentor, e.t.c.

1st Corinthians 5: 9 I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:

10 - Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world. 

11 - But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.

1st Corinthians 15: 33 - Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.

34 - Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.

Matthew 5 : 29 - 30.

Remember the kingdom of God suffers violence and only the violence can take it by force (determination)

fairfora:
I totally agree. As a Christian, you must live to love others as yourself. That's the greatest of all laws as said by Jesus Christ. If you love others as yourself( regardless of their religions or status).......

You wouldn't go about sleeping with someone else's wife

You would give to those who are hungry, offer scholarships to children from other parents and wouldn't wish only your children prosper( which is the habit of most people nowadays...me and my family mentality)

You wouldn't steal what doesn't belong to you or corrupt your mind with other's property or money

You'd not maltreat your house help. During an outing, it's always easy to spot a housemaid amongst your children by the clothe and shoe she wears. She's always on slippers while your children are wearing good shoes. This is always evident during Sunday services. When your children step out of the car they can easily distinguish between them and the maid, forgetting that she's also a human being like your kids. If she wants to go to school or learn trading, send her. My uncle( a first generation chartered accountant in Nigeria from ekiti, now late had a maid whom she always treated well against the wife's wish) that woman took care of all their children up to university level overseas. Each time my uncle bought her clothes, she'd say but she's a maid naw. She doesn't deserve it. This man took care of them equally. The wife got struck by a terminal ailment and later died. The man was encouraged to remarry by the children, the idea which he rejected. After much persuasions by the children to consider the maid, he now married her. All the man's children were female and the maid had 2 males for him, who are now in their late 30s and well to do. She's the one taking care of the man's property and business now that he's no more. The woman is in her 60s now. All the children are achievers in their chosen endeavours so, they're not even looking at inheritance.

Many Christians don't commit sexual sin but don't love their neighbours. If you're a Muslim, you've become their enemy because you don't practice same religion. Some derive pleasure in seeing their enemies die when christ said we should pray for them ( so they can repent because God doesn't derive pressure in the death of a sinner). Hebrews 12:14 says we should live peaceably with all men and be holy, without which we shall see God. If you like, decide not to have sex or remain single. if you don't love others like yourself, you're going nowhere. Happy Sunday to you all.

bukatyne:


Wrong question:

The right question is did the Bible prescribe any sex position?

The answer is No.

JahBwoy:


'Wow!!! nice one!!

bukatyne:

Nobody is forcing Christianity on you abi?

CAPSLOCKED:


REPENT, BELIEVE, OR GO TO HELL IS WHAT?
YOU CAN ONLY CONTINUE TO WALLOW IN SELF DECEIT.

bukatyne:




You better go and marry first.

JahBwoy:


Put me in your prayers

bukatyne:


God will direct you to the wife you deserve.

Amen.

paulolee:
too hard....haved tried countless time to stop it but its just too hard..
have read bible verses, fasted and prayed, attended night vigil and serminals but still find myself doing dt particular sexual immorality maybe because my flesh is weak or am not dt spiritually charged...
have talked to pastors and went for delivery and counseling session bt just cant say no to katie whenever she called or text dt she's coming over to spend d weekend because she do come for business and we always endup having sweet sex..
maybe i would try change location, delete her number from ma fone, but she's closer to me because of more of business than sex...am jus confused...

psalmuelwater:

Thank you. We Christians treat a sin greater than one. We all lie, it's a sin too. We are beginning to define sex related sin as the greatest sin. That's unbiblical

paulolee:
too hard....haved tried countless time to stop it but its just too hard..
have read bible verses, fasted and prayed, attended night vigil and serminals but still find myself doing dt particular sexual immorality maybe because my flesh is weak or am not dt spiritually charged...
have talked to pastors and went for delivery and counseling session bt just cant say no to katie whenever she called or text dt she's coming over to spend d weekend because she do come for business and we always endup having sweet sex..
maybe i would try change location, delete her number from ma fone, but she's closer to me because of more of business than sex...am jus confused...

Finallydead:

You see what you're now asking for is the whole essence of the gospel. It is for you to be crucified with Him so that He may be risen in you. The old man with all his lusts giving way to the new creation. You cant kill the flesh by power and might but by His life swallowing up death in you.

God is not asking you to prove yourself to Him, He just wants you to practise self-denial and subjugation of the flesh everyday as long as you're still breathing, with all that you can muster, mechanically till you reach a certain point where His life takes over completely from your effort. You can never be machine perfect at this before this point, else you wouldn't be needing Christ's life rising inside you.
Remember, this is not about performance. God is not scoring your failures or success. This is about engaging a spiritual law that persistence will connect you to the spiritual life inside you. So if you quit at any point, you miss out on experiencing the spiritual life and power that God has put inside you to deliver you.
But as you keep at attempting to deny the flesh each new opportunity despite countless failures, perseveringly, at a certain point, the mystery of resurrection life will be activated in you like Jesus after which you will experience His life rising in you liberating you from the flesh.
So from today, start denying the flesh every opportunity you can and decide to keep at it until you reach this certain point.
Determine not to look at ladies lustfully and continue no matter your failures, keep trying to stay away from stimulants, friends or movies, also not to speak what does not glorify God, to always put God's cause before your self interests, to put the needs of others above yours, to pray even when you don't feel like so, fast a lot even when you don't feel like, keep denying yourself in all such exercises until you experience Christ's manifested life in you.
Do not be deterred by your many failed attempts but just keep doing it and in due time, you will see victory when His life manifests to swallows up death in you. You find this principle in Col3:4- 8.
Of course doing all this without expecting the life of Christ to manifest in you ends up in religious/ ceremonial works

paulolee:
too hard....haved tried countless time to stop it but its just too hard..
have read bible verses, fasted and prayed, attended night vigil and serminals but still find myself doing dt particular sexual immorality maybe because my flesh is weak or am not dt spiritually charged...
have talked to pastors and went for delivery and counseling session bt just cant say no to katie whenever she called or text dt she's coming over to spend d weekend because she do come for business and we always endup having sweet sex..
maybe i would try change location, delete her number from ma fone, but she's closer to me because of more of business than sex...am jus confused...

paulolee:
too hard....haved tried countless time to stop it but its just too hard..
have read bible verses, fasted and prayed, attended night vigil and serminals but still find myself doing dt particular sexual immorality maybe because my flesh is weak or am not dt spiritually charged...
have talked to pastors and went for delivery and counseling session bt just cant say no to katie whenever she called or text dt she's coming over to spend d weekend because she do come for business and we always endup having sweet sex..
maybe i would try change location, delete her number from ma fone, but she's closer to me because of more of business than sex...am jus confused...

bigname23:
but u are addicted to Christianity and u don't believe in Jesus. .u go just dey monitor Christian threads for nairaland dey waka..dey look for argument

AntiChristian:
With all this tight fitted dresses, thigh and areolar exposures around how do we want the men to be sane?

The music/videos are wayward!
We celebrate waywardness!

Well, men, lower your gaze!

nemynely:


I empathize with you. I can appreciate the efforts you have made to please God with your body.
The only truth I am sure of is "if the Son of God sets you free, then you are free indeed"

Please Google and download books by Jean Nicolas Grou. The central theme in his books is on how to train the inner man.

Let me share one of his quotes that reinforced my belief that Victoria acerta.

"The really devout man does not overwhelm himself with vocal prayers and religious exercises which leave him no breathing space. He aims at constant freedom of heart. He is neither scrupulous or over anxious but moves on his daily road in simplicity and confidence.
He is firmly set to refuse nothing God asks of him, to yield in No way to self love, neither to be guilty of any deliberate fault, but at the same time does not torments and worry himself with petty vexations.
If he falls into some error he does not fret over it, but rising up with a humble spirit, he goes on his way a new rejoicing. He is never surprised at his own weakness and imperfection, neither is he discouraged by them - knowing that of himself he can do nothing, through God's help, everything.
He does not trust in his own good intentions and resolutions, but solely in God's grace and goodness. Were he to fall a 100 times in the day, he would not despair - he would rather cry out lovingly to God, appealing to his tender pity."

So my dear, YOU CAN AND YOU WILL! ARISE IN JESUS NAME!

Finallydead:

You can also consider this excerpt from a previous post of mine and ask for clarifications. It's fail-safe but requires patience.

Dee60:


Find grace at the feet of the cross. Lay it down there. Every man must start from there. No amount of self-will can prevent falling but grace certainly can. make an attempt to repeatedly look for the grace. Cry out for it till you lay hands upon it. Grace is the weapon you receive from God to overcome the evils of this world. Grace says, because my Saviour paid the price, that precious price will not go in vain. Try to focus on the solution and not the problem.

When Christ has released you from the prison dont walk in there with your own legs again. Your actions will feed your feelings.

Remember also there is power in what you say. Speak to the object of temptation and sin, that you are no longer interested.

Flee.

UndauntedYOCA:

Lol, but your moniker say 'AntiChristian'

Angy55:
You guys keep hammering only on sexual sin as if it is the only sin that would take someone to hell...

Not until you all deal with all aspect of sin.. according to the Bible I won't take you people here serious.

Before you people quote me.. I'm a christian to the core.