2buff:

Wasn't there already a "Why are girls jealous of themselves" thread around here?

Guys deal with this with a lot more maturity and understanding.
It's like girls don't really know how to [b]accept [/b]that "ok this chick is finer than me".

Is "beauty" all you strive to offer? How about you quit trying to 1-up your friend in the beauty department (because she obviously wins on that one) and [b]train [/b]other attractive social skills. Like a great light-up-the-room smile, or being funny (which I find not a lot of girls are).

I swear some women just feel all they have to do in this life is wear the most layers of make-up and feel this should be all that is socially required of them to know how to do.

bala3:

i have a close friend and we go to places together. however what i noticed is that whenever we go to places, people always compliment her beauty and never mine. i know that i am not ugly. i am quite beautiful but its like shes more beautiful than me. shes light skinned and i am dark skinned. does it mean that light skinned girls are more beautiful than dark skinned girls because i dont understand why she always gets all the attention when we are together. when i am alone, people compliment my looks. should i continue going out with her? it is affecting my self esteem. and are light skinned girls more beautiful than dark skinned girls?

Sweery u have nothin to worry about. 190 iz ugly but he never complains!

googles:

jolosy jolosy. . . .I hope you wont sprinkle acid on your fwend's face when it gets to a point sef

just love and accept yourself as you are, no point fighting or struggling for compliments {to think the boys are only deceiving your friend sef }

and if going out with your friend shatters your already shattered self-esteem, den hang around an uglier girl or walk alone for pete sakes

one last thing. . . errrm seek less attention trust me, it pays

mutter:

There where times when I was younger I really wished myself to be really ugly. At a very young age men were already making advances. m
I just wanted people to see me for what I am and not my body or my looks.

andromida:

I have a friend who feels exactly like you. She is petite,light skinned and shapely.She also has an ok face in my personal opinion she has a lot going for her. Enters her colleague who is tall,extremely lightskinned and thick hips ok face too.
she complains constantly that when they go out together that people only see her friend, she gets no attention whatever when her friend is around. One day they are both dolled up going for a dinner party and i noticed her confidence shrinks around her friend she just disappears and its all cos she lacks confidence.

Confidence is very attractive.I"ll advise you to cultivate it and before you know it you are blooming and can hold your own anywhere.