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|Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Britishcoins(m): 10:48pm On Aug 02, 2020|
Please my fellow nairaland, I have been in pain for a while now, I lost my my Mom in the year 2019, but her death was so sudden just few weeks sickness and she died after spending a lot of money at ESUT parklane Enugu..
Now exactly a year later, my dad very healthy and vibrant went to farm and collapsed with half of his body totally paralyzed, he later died the following day....
Now this is my fear. One Pastor called and told us that they have buried charm in my family home and that the same unknown evil men are planning for my younger brother who is presently at village. I asked what could be the solution, he told me to bring 120k to buy whatever materials he needed to do family prayer (he even mentioned white ram).
Although the manner at which I lost my parents made me afraid but without much thinking I have not considered the man to be true man of God.
The said money is not much the problem but, how can I get a genuine solution to prevent further death which by God's grace will never be my family portion again....
I have already made plans to bring my younger brother to the city... ( reason to learn business and mostly to know God more)
Pls how can I fight this battle because we are surrounded by the enemies...
They are envy maybe because my mom was hard working. The problem started immediately she finished the new building, unfortunately she was buried inside that house.
Pls help me, I am even afraid to visit home. I am the first son 26 years and glory be to God my business is moving fine.
Pls help me.. What should I do?
Cc mynd44 lalastclala
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by sexylassie2(f): 10:53pm On Aug 02, 2020|
The cause of death in your family is simple.... You guys don't do regular check up.
No charm was buried...the pastor scammed you.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Aug 02, 2020|
A man' s enemy are usually members of his house hold ...Spiritual battles are battled spiritually. Wake up and pray to God especially mid-night prayers extend same to your brother and live a quite life.In Africa people are always envious after everything we would still all go to the grave empty.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by thorpido(m): 10:58pm On Aug 02, 2020|
What do you know about your parents' health status?
Was your father hypertensive or did he have a heart disease?
I do not think there is anything strange about your parents' death.
Don't let any prophet scam you.
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|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Ningen(m): 11:02pm On Aug 02, 2020|
I'm sorry for your lost man. Be strong.
Not trying to be insensitive but I don't think you should entertain diabolical thoughts concerning your parents death. Sudden deaths are mostly due to an underlying disease so don't be afraid.
The best way to fight your enemies is by going for regular medical check ups & living a healthy life. Don't pay any money to any pastor.
God's protection doesn't cost a dime. It is FREE.
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|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Britishcoins(m): 11:06pm On Aug 02, 2020|
sexylassie2:My mom was diagnosed with lung cancer, the most painful thing I have ever witnessed, watching her dying slowly and my dad never complained of any sickness but he was a long time smooker and drinks a lot too...
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Britishcoins(m): 11:07pm On Aug 02, 2020|
Ningen:Thanks bro, God bless.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by merieam16(f): 11:12pm On Aug 02, 2020|
Enemies or village people like been called exists, and d only solution is knowing nd moving closer to God to help fight ur battles
Dont give anybody anythin o cos it wont just end der, they will keep coming back 4 more
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by XXXXTENTACION: 11:13pm On Aug 02, 2020|
Britishcoins:Take heart bro
death is a normal thing we are all going to die someday. They is nothing wrong with your family. even the pastor you are running to will still die someday . Just move on and make sure your family goes for regular health check-up.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by BEANSndPLANTAIN(m): 11:17pm On Aug 02, 2020|
British coins I remember from the 2018 FRSC thread
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Shellsploit: 11:17pm On Aug 02, 2020|
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Mancala: 11:19pm On Aug 02, 2020|
My sincere condolences to the OP. I feel for you as I know how it feels to lose a loved one. I would advice you to do an autopsy to determine the cause of death of your father. The symptoms are somewhat similar to a stroke. If this is the case, you need to know if there are any hereditary risks involved and if you and your siblings should be taking any precautions. Be strong. This pain too shall pass.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by TourismMan(m): 11:32pm On Aug 02, 2020|
Sleep no gree me read am. Till tomorrow abeg.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by nams77: 11:36pm On Aug 02, 2020|
Britishcoins:Avoid that crook of a pastor. U and ur family draw near to God.
Approach mountain of fire and pray.
Good luck. Remove fear from ur mind. It kills faster
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 1:01am On Aug 03, 2020|
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by MMotimo: 3:50am On Aug 03, 2020|
There’s no mystery to their deaths. How can you say a cancer patient’s death was “sudden” when you already said she had lung cancer and spent weeks in the hospital ? She probably had late stage cancer that was terminal. As for your dad, you can’t say it’s “sudden” if you do not have up to date medical records on the state of his health. He might have had a heart attack or even had liver damage from excessive drinking. There are a lot of possibilities that could have contributed to his demise. Some things are simply science. Don’t let anyone capitalize on your ignorance to extort you.
Use that #120k to get a comprehensive physical checkup for you and your sibling(s) at a teaching hospital. This is one of the tangible ways you can avert certain things - prevention is better than cure. Go and know your full health status so that you can take care of yourselves. Even for diseases like cancer, if the diagnosis is done early enough, a lot of people can survive most cancers so educate yourself and stop listening to charlatans.
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|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 4:16am On Aug 03, 2020|
Britishcoins:just coincidence. lung cancer can happen to anyone. while for your dad the smoke and drinking contributed to it. the pastor lied
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by cococandy(f): 4:17am On Aug 03, 2020|
Your dad sounds like he had a massive stroke.
May he Rest In Peace.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 4:29am On Aug 03, 2020|
The thing with most cancers is that they are not discovered till it is already late especially in our environment where we dont have the best facilities or use them regularly. Besides drugs used in treating cancers are themselves quite toxic to our body.
There is always that warning that cigarette smokers are liable to die young, the funny thing is passive smokers stand a greater risk.
Your dad most likely had hypertension caused by his lifestyle and ended up with a stroke. There is nothing spiritual about it. Its the normal trend all over the world with smokers and alcoholics. Forget about the scammer asking you for 120k to help you. He is only a hungry lazy thief.
You all need regular check ups and watch what you take into your body. Sorry for your loss.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by jidamsel43(m): 5:40am On Aug 03, 2020|
Don't ascribe the death to any thing. Their times to use on earth were over and they have gone.
God is responsible for their death
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Phut(f): 5:42am On Aug 03, 2020|
Read up on second hand smoke. It’s very lethal. That’s probably how your Mom got lung cancer. Smoking and drinking astronomically raises a persons chance of being hypertensive/having a stroke. Sorry for your loss and may your parents souls R.I.P.
Having said that, do not vilify “village people”. It’s an ignorant mindset to speed up our own cultural genocide.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Coded2(m): 5:59am On Aug 03, 2020|
My advice for the op is to leave the family house and not go back there secondly he should avoid any thing about home and dedicate his time to prayer and fasting this will protect you against any evil any man of God that requested money from you is a fraud don't go near them they are wolf in sheep's clothing.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 6:05am On Aug 03, 2020|
If I tell you the route I went with the so called village evil men, you may not have the required resources(not just money) and guts to follow it so I suggest you consider a spiritualist, not necessarily a pastor.
Today, a high rank evil man in my village is the one making sure that no nonsense charm is seen in or around my village home. He knows what will happen to him and his entire household if not him oo but any other evil man plant charm six footsteps near the home.
When I did what I did that humbled them, I was around 28 and even after more than five years, nothing funny has ever been noticed in my village home where they were having a field day with their so called charm (mostly faeces in nylon bags thrown over the fence even dumped at the gate).
If you can't pray or challenge them spiritually like I couldn't, then you may need to go my route if you can.
Good luck and be safe.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by elektra(f): 6:10am On Aug 03, 2020|
I’m sorry for your loss.
The reality is that death is EVERYBODY’s portion. There is no amount of money and prayer that can make death not be your portion.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by bjprodint(f): 6:54am On Aug 03, 2020|
Mancala:pls is stroke hereditary cos my mum died of stroke after battling with it for 5 years.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 7:25am On Aug 03, 2020|
Oga it is natural to die.....
There's no charm....
Why will a man of God require 120k....oga you're falling for a big scam .....
We must die.....don't go and paying that scammer ....if you want to pray, pray by yourself
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 7:30am On Aug 03, 2020|
Autopsy should be done......
Not any shit like charms have been buried....
That's why I keep bashing Christians.....why will he need 120k to deliver his family when God commanded him to pray himself out.....even Jesus refused his apostles to carry bags so as to prevent them from being tempted to demand a pay......
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 7:30am On Aug 03, 2020|
There's nothing wrong with his house
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 7:34am On Aug 03, 2020|
There are chances of it being hereditary .....
Read it up on Google.....you'll understand better..
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by Nobody: 7:38am On Aug 03, 2020|
Two persons are not enough to draw a pattern.
You should wait for at least five deaths.
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by frozen70(f): 8:32am On Aug 03, 2020|
Best option for now is to lock that house and move every of your siblings away from that village
You must be far from your enemies so that they can't detect or predict what the future have for you
Assuming you are in lagos, bring them down to Lagos, give your father's family a long break they will be the one to look for you guys
What ever they are doing in the village and invite you, promise them that you are coming but don't show up
Use your break period with them to search for the mystery of all this death
If your late father has a land in tussle, don't bring it up again let it go
Even if they bring it up, tell umunna to handle it the best way they can
You have to keep away any information you know about your life and your siblings away from them
But keep in touch with just one or two of your uncles whom you feel is not the actual person monitoring your family, even at that be careful
Tell your siblings if anyone ask them anything, they should refer that person to you so that your family details will only be gotten from you and just you alone
If you want to erect any structure, do it in the city and away from the eyes of your family
Lastly, move closer to God, he will reveal a lot to you
|Re: Help: What Could Be The Cause Of Death In My Family? by mariahAngel: 9:37am On Aug 03, 2020|
You're telling him to runaway from his land when nobody is chasing him. He'll keep running for the rest of his life.
The deaths are just coincidence.
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