Issues Resolved.. Thanks All...

Ask her, definitely she know the story behind the supply, so she would know you need the money to settle your supplier. My condolences to her. BTW did you tell your supplier what happened?

InfernoNig:
Ask her, definitely she know the story behind the supply, so she would know you need the money to settle your supplier. My condolences to her. BTW did you tell your supplier what happened?

I did, she doesn't want to hear anything. She said she also need to pay people.. I had initially promised to pay her on Saturday (yesterday) hoping that before then i i would have been able to sell my phone. But no success yet. I went to her yesterday and the shouting was too much, i could not even utter a word, she promised hell if she doesn't get her money on monday..

sociologymajor:

I did, she doesn't want to hear anything. She said she also need to pay people.. I had initially promised to pay her on Saturday (yesterday) hoping that before then i i would have been able to sell my phone. But no success yet. I went to her yesterday and the shouting was too much, i could not even utter a word, she promised hell if she doesn't get her money on monday..

OK. Tell iya then, but mind you this is a sign , so be careful with your supplier, better still go pitch your tent elsewhere once you settle this with her

Madam, what's your location?

boldx:
Madam, what's your location?

I am a guy.. i am based in ibadan

Hmmm

Iya A go pour her frustration on you in an emotional blackmail manner, trust me. But you are left with no option, ask in the most polite way possible.

Ask Iya A but do it in a polite way.
Sorry,for her loss but business has to continue.

Ask her. Business must continue.

I went, but the condition i met her is too pitful. she has lost a lot of weight, her eyes are all swollen, looks like she haven't had a bathe in days. It seems she have not been eating because they are "talking" to her to eat small...
i could not muster up the courage to talk about money in such a dreadful situation.

i am left with no choice than to source for money in any way possible. I have a 22inch tv, a gotv decoder, a gionee psw, all for 20k loan.

sociologymajor:
What happened was that,



I had made an unusually huge supply to my very good customer (Iya A), anticipating large sales during the festive period. On a norms, i don't do more than 20crates of egg at a time but with the festive season, i i had expected increased demand, so i took 55crates, Iya A been my good client took 30 leaving 25 for me to sell. Even the 25, i have only been able to sell 13 pre and Post Ileya.



The problem now is that iya A lost her husband a day after ileya, this has left me completely devastated as she have not paid for d eggs she took. I have been to her house to commiserate with her but i don't know how to ask for the money. My Supplier does not want to hear anything, she has been calling, sending messages and now gave me a deadline of Monday evening.


I don't know if it is proper to go ask her for money now, its just a week since the ugly incident happened to her, i feel somehow..

N.B
Iya A also does supply, she takes from me on credit, den pay back in 2/3days time.. she has never defaulted any payment before this sad event..

Quite an unfortunate incident for her that has affected you

Still bring it to her notice and since she is a supplier, it's possible the people he supplied to are yet to pay her

Get the contacts of those people from her and hunt for your money

Simple fix:

Go back to Iya A and offer to sell her crates of eggs (even though you are having a difficult time selling yours). If she asks why, then tell her all that your supplier has told you.

Do not go to Iya A with the mindset of collecting money in cash. Offering to help her with sales will give her a positive impression about you. If she declines the offer, it simply means she has sold all, then you can reasonably ask for money.

It's a simple mind game and a win-win for you all.

If the above fails amidst further threats from your supplier, use your phone as collateral.

Acidosis:
Simple fix:

Go back to Iya A and offer to sell her crates of eggs (even though you are having a difficult time selling yours). If she asks why, then tell her all that your supplier has told you.

Do not go to Iya A with the mindset of collecting money in cash. Offering to help her with sales will give her a positive impression about you. If she declines the offer, it simply means she has sold all, then you can reasonably ask for money.

It's a simple mind game and a win-win for you all.

If the above fails amidst further threats from your supplier, use your phone as collateral.

please follow this advice...

Acidosis:
Simple fix:

Go back to Iya A and offer to sell her crates of eggs (even though you are having a difficult time selling yours). If she asks why, then tell her all that your supplier has told you.

Do not go to Iya A with the mindset of collecting money in cash. Offering to help her with sales will give her a positive impression about you. If she declines the offer, it simply means she has sold all, then you can reasonably ask for money.

It's a simple mind game and a win-win for you all.

If the above fails amidst further threats from your supplier, use your phone as collateral.

That's why I love Nairaland, we have intelligent ones who can help lessen worries with what they share here. Love this piece of advice.

sociologymajor:
I went, but the condition i met her is too pitful. she has lost a lot of weight, her eyes are all swollen, looks like she haven't had a bathe in days. It seems she have not been eating because they are "talking" to her to eat small...
i could not muster up the courage to talk about money in such a dreadful situation.

Guy, this is business.
Like someone said up there business and emotions don't work together.

Going with the woman's emotional trauma right now approaching the woman for the money now is not proper no matter the style, is better you look for alternative else where, let be sincere to ourselves how can you meet the woman in such condition and still have the courage to be asking for money, the sympathizers self will be looking at you as a very wicked person, in business two or more people are involved once one person has problem the other person must be affected

pls leave that woman alone for now if you don't want to be painted black.

try fix it and hope she recovers soon

Would be right back

All issues Completely Resolved..
I have paid my supplier, i did not bother Iya A anymore. I got help from here.. Not Loan but Gift.. I say a very big thank You to Mr anonymous.. Thank you so much. God bless and reward you bountifully..

sociologymajor:
All issues Completely Resolved..
I have paid my supplier, i did not bother Iya A anymore. I got help from here.. Not Loan but Gift.. I say a very big thank You to Mr anonymous.. Thank you so much. God bless and reward you bountifully..

Ohhhh....waoo!!!

Thank you Mr Anonymous, may your pocket never run empty.

this is not the right time to ask her please.

That is the soul essence of existence. Lifting those who are down. Glad you were able to resolve the issue. May God continue to bless your hustles.

frozen70:


Quite an unfortunate incident for her that has affected you

Still bring it to her notice and since she is a supplier, it's possible the people he supplied to are yet to pay her

Get the contacts of those people from her and hunt for your money

Thank you for quoting the initial post. I nearly dyed of curiosity

mariahAngel:


Thank you for quoting the initial post. I nearly dyed of curiosity

Lol