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Nyascobar1414:
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So, this week I entered a bank to pay for something,I walked in, and the cashier in there didn't give a fvck,even after greeting her😹.
Woow,I just noticed that a female walked in and she was validated and complimented by the same cashier,there and then I noticed that males are not welcomed..
It's all good though,cos that's what I also do..
I do t notice females,no attention, validation etc..
Cos I've seen the pains my fellow males have been through,so an eye for an eye is what I do..

Fr man,I wonder what will ever make me not to be ruthless to the other g3nder,even to fellow males..
Cos I've seen that a man will hardly help a fellow man. So everyone for themselves..
This is an animal kingdom, I swear 😹

Martinez39s:
In as much as female nature is invariably universal, some women are more calculative and smarter than others. Some won't easily fall for certain things that others will fall for (though they have the same objectives, some will be shrewd to thoroughly clear doubts and ensure safety before jumping ship). For example, some women will fall for strange numbers asking them out while others will be careful and suspect if their boyfriend is orchestrating it all to test them. This can be due to experience or common sense.

Your girlfriend, if she goes on to date someone else, will more careful given the experience she just had with you. Her future boyfriend will see it as a win? Lol. Maybe she was too careful in your tests because she was caught blatantly in the past. Many of these updates (e.g. boyfriend testing you, etc) have already been dicussed in many female whatsapp groups. Some even go as far a having a secret phone that their husbands and boyfriends don't know about and will likely never find.

Some have some experiences that others don't have. Sometimes, a woman's response to accounts online will depend on circumstances and factors. For example, what is your status and the perceived status of the guy asking her if she has a boyfriend? It is easy for a woman to reject a guy who has a lower status for relationship. Would that be the pass you were looking for? If it were a much richer guy whose identity she had verified and was sure to bag, would she have rejected?

You just need to accept that no woman is beyond hypergamy. Your mother, sisters, girlfriend and all the woman alive, dead and yet to be born will jump ship for the better deal. No woman is different. If you are looking for a relationship, you must have this in mind and proceed wisely: in how you trust, in how you invest in her, in how you lead, in how you prepare for a possible rainy day and disappointment from your spouse, etc. Stop looking for a different woman who only exists in lala land. If your girlfriend had an option better than you, she would leave you.

Life is just what it is. Hypergamy is not going anywhere. Hypergamy is not good or bad (personally, I think it is good), it is an unchangeable part of human life. Make peace with it.

Badmashii:
Hypergamic attitude applies to men as well.

See the way old men are defecting from pdp to apc or how employees are dumping their jobs to a rival company that was once a competitor. We can't really hold it against the ladies.

-- If she suddenly stops wanting your attention, she’s getting attention of equal or greater value elsewhere.

Solofresh2:
What can a red pill do about this

dontai:
we can and we should, you can hold many people responsible at the same Damn time, it depends on the circumstances. We aren't talking politics here, you can discuss that with hellinus".

emmaodet:
A man can die of hunger and food would still be served at his funeral