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Sex In Dreams And There Sources! by 777isaac: 7:31am On Aug 13, 2020
*Sex Dreams and there Sources*

13th August, 2020

*INTRODUCTION* :

Anonymous believer who has been bone again for a decade plus, sent me a message about his frequent sex in dreams. He wrote:
"Pastor I appreciate all your prayers and messages, may God increase your grace...,but my major concern today is the frequent sex I use to have in my dreams when I sleep either at night or during the day. I have been born again for over a decade plus ago, and am married with kids, but I continue to see myself having sex in dreams. Please sir what is the cause, because this is becoming so embarrassing. This past months it has been so frequent that I have to open up " he said. "And please sir any help from you will be greatly appreciated".

Two things that gave me great concern in his message, was the fact that he has been a believer for a decade plus now, and secondly he is married.

Let me approach his question by using the Bible as a guide, with the hope that Mr anonymous and people like him, can get answers to their long standing questions of frequent sex in their dreams.

*Know the truth and you will be free of worries;*

It is important to note that decoding the meaning behind sex in dreams is not a one size fits all process, because the sources of any dream can either be physiological or psychological and it can be Spiritual also, like that of Jacobs' mentioned in Genesis 28:12-14.

The physiological or psychological source of sex dreams may occur as a result of the biological state of our body, i.e the natural state where individuals can have an erotic dream usually at night accompanied by (nocturnal) emission of semen. Although this is may not be common to everyone.

The Spiritual source of sex dreams can be from spirit wife or husband possessing someone, marine forces, or witchcraft as the case may be.

Having side that, as a believer the source is not so important, but what should concern you more is whom you are in Christ Jesus. He that is in you is greater than he that is in the world. 1 John 4:4. The idea that you are possessed by spirit wife or husband can't be true. Because as a believer that is married you are joined to your spouse, and Christ is the head of your union. 1 Corinthians 11: 3. Therefore you can't be re-possessed by another evil spirit, light and darkness can't dwell in the same body. Read (Luke 11:34-36; Matt. 19:4-6)

What is responsible for your sex dream now, if not physiological or psychological factors may be a simple act of witchcraft. Forces that don't want your glory to be seen. Or it may just be warning from from God to you about what may happen to you when you are awake.

Hence, according to Pastor John Piper "...God speaks to us by sending us frightening dreams to warn us away from certain behaviour we might commit when we are awake. He quoted Job 33:14&15 which reads in part "....for God speaks once, yea twice, yet man perceived it not. In dreams,...when deep sleep falleth upon men, in slumbering upon the bed". Will the dream have its God-appointed effect of humbling us , frightening us about our own bent to sinning? asked Piper, and will we lay hold on him for purity in waking life? You have to prayerfully take charge of your sexual life as their may be impending danger God is warning against.

Secondly in Isaiah 29:8, the Bible described an experience you may be familiar with, i.e dreaming about something we desire in real life. The passage describes hungry and thirsty people who are dreaming about eating and drinking but in real life still hungry and thirsty. "It shall even be as when an hungry man dreameth, and behold, he eathet, but he awaketh, and his soul is empty, or as when a thirsty man dreameth, and behold, he drinketh, but he awaketh and he is faint..." This can also happen to your sexual life said Piper, therefore if you have been craving for sex in your awakening life, or you use to indulge in any sexual manipulative acts, it may likely re-surface in your dream life. If this is the case, then you would need to speak with your spouse and most importantly trust more in the power of God to help you break away from sexual manipulative activities.

Finally, you should understand that some dreams are not real, therefore they may be false. "The idols speak deceitfully, diviners see visions that lie, they tell dreams that are false, they give comfort in vain, therefore the people wonder like sheep oppressed for lack of a shepherd." Zechariah 10:2.
This situation painted above in that scenario points to the fact that dreams can be deceptive and manipulated by diviners and witchcraft. This can be true even in our sexual life. However you should tell yourself the truth, by speaking clearly about those dreams sex, that it is not you, and they are false. And because you are a believer, a new creature made new in Christ, those dreams are lie. 2 Corinthians 5:17. You should also know that you have power over witchcraft and all forces of darkness in spiritual places, command those forces programmed from the air to make you sorrowful and dirty out of your way, by the name of Jesus. You can read powerful Psalms like Psalms 27, 91, henceforth before bedtime and that will be the end to sex in your dreams.

I hope answer has been provided to your questions. If there is any area you find difficult to understand, please let your questions come. God will provide you with answers because He is the revealer of secrets in dreams. To those of you who also may want to ask questions regarding any personal or general issues, you can send us your questions to efiaisaacoyemikeevangelisticas@gmail.com.

You are lifted!

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Re: Sex In Dreams And There Sources! by Kobojunkie: 3:18pm On Aug 13, 2020
Peter, the apostle, warned people about ALL MOGs & WOGs (False Prophets and Teachers), from about 2000 years ago.

2 Peter 2 vs 1-7 (ERV)
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1. In the past there were false prophets among God’s people. It is the same now. You will have some false teachers in your group. They will teach things that are wrong—ideas that will cause people to be lost. And they will teach in a way that will be hard for you to see that they are wrong. They will even refuse to follow the Master who bought their freedom. And so they will quickly destroy themselves.
2. Many people will follow them in the morally wrong things they do. And because of them, others will say bad things about the way of truth we follow.
3. These false teachers only want your money. So they will use you by telling you things that are not true. But the judgment against these false teachers has been ready for a long time. And they will not escape God who will destroy them.

4. When angels sinned, God did not let them go free without punishment. He sent them to hell. He put those angels in caves of darkness, where they are being held until the time when God will judge them.

5. And God punished the evil people who lived long ago. He brought a flood to the world that was full of people who were against God. But he saved Noah and seven other people with him. Noah was a man who told people about living right.

6. God also punished the evil cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. He burned them until there was nothing left but ashes. He used those cities as an example of what will happen to people who are against God.
7. But he saved Lot, a good man who lived there. Lot was greatly troubled by the morally bad lives of those evil people. 8 This good man lived with those evil people every day, and his good heart was hurt by the evil things he saw and heard.
What peter said is indeed what we see happening here and now. Because of the AntiChrists also called MOGs, the world does not view Jesus Christ in a good light at all. You simply mention that you believe in the God of the Bible, and almost immediately you see the detest in their looks... nothing to do with persecution at all. No, they have become wary of those who claim to be Christians. The world is tired of the lies and deceit of MOGs - the hypocrisy that is claimed and justified in the name of God.

These MOGs are the Antichrists as they have set themselves up as Masters over Jesus Christ's flock, pretending to be Teachers in His place.

Their doctrines and traditions are twisted representations of the teachings of Jesus Christ, and in many cases many are deceived and led away from the Truth of Jesus Christ as a result.

They sit themselves in the place of God in the minds of His own sheep and they steal, kill and destroy, for their own pleasure and kingdoms, that which God has planned for those who are His. And they do all of this in the name of God.
MOGs are the false prophets that Jesus Christ warned His followers to beware of. These are the antichrists that the apostles spoke of even during their days.
Re: Sex In Dreams And There Sources! by sunshineV(f): 3:51pm On Aug 13, 2020
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Re: Sex In Dreams And There Sources! by 777isaac: 6:28pm On Aug 13, 2020
Hallelujah. Our God is always faithful
He knows his sheep and his sheep knows him.
Re: Sex In Dreams And There Sources! by 777isaac: 3:24am On Aug 14, 2020
Our Source is from Above!

14th August, 2020.

Key verse: And the word of the Lord came unto him saying, get thee hence, and turn thee eastward, and hide thyself by the brook cherish, that is before Jordan...and I have commanded the ravens to feed thee there. 1 King 17:2-4.

INTRODUCTION:

Trusting God for provisions can be rewarding, and since human resources are limited, it will be advisable that our absolute trust should be on God who is never limited in resources. The Bible says the cattle upon a thousand hills, the silver and gold... belongs to Him. Psalms 50:10.

*THE ALL DEPENDABLE GOD.*

When it comes to your sales, purchases and finances, you must see God as your dependable partner.

No one can succeed on his own without the help of God.(Psalms 121:1-2) And in Psalms 127:1&2 also, Bible declare that except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that builds it, except the Lord keep the city the Watchman walketh but in vain. It is vain for you to rise up early to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrow, for so he giveth his beloved sleep.

How can we ever think of succeeding in this world without the help of God. We can be so gifted, intelligent, educated, connected, and even financially capable, but success can still be far from us if we fail to use all we possess in a way that promotes God's interest, salvation and common good of others.

In our opening text, God told Elijah that He has commanded the ravens to feed him, because he Elijah had borne the burden of God, the Lord is now interested to take care of him. As a matter of fact, to show how God load us with his benefits, in verse 9 of that same 1kings 17, when the brook cherish dried up, God commanded a widow to sustain Elijah.

We can't be stranded with the kind of God we worship. He is too big to fail. No one walks with God and not enter into the promise. You should be heaven conscious of your supply, not man, not your employer, not Nigeria nor Europe or America, it's then that your supply will be non-stop.

I have seen several people who became disappointed and frustrated because they where trusting and waiting on their fellow man. The scriptures says caused be the man that trusted in man, maketh flesh his arm, ...and shall not see when good cometh... Jeremiah 17: 5-6. Man that you see today can't help themselves, we all depend on God therefore it will be completely foolish to put our trust in our jobs, financies, intelligence, or our business. These things are good but you must understand that they are only channels to make you succeed in life. And it is the value we attach to them in relation to how we use them to promote God's interest that shows we actually depend on God for our next supply.

I pray for you, that this week, may God's blessings locate you, may the Lord send you buyers and those interested in your business today, your source shall never run dry because heaven will continue to back you up. And most importantly may that new thing that has been pending spring forth. Amen.
You are lifted.
Re: Sex In Dreams And There Sources! by Kobojunkie: 6:39am On Aug 14, 2020
Peter, the apostle, warned people about ALL MOGs (False Prophets and Teachers), from about 2000 years ago.

2 Peter 2 vs 1-7 (ERV)
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
1. In the past there were false prophets among God’s people. It is the same now. You will have some false teachers in your group. They will teach things that are wrong—ideas that will cause people to be lost. And they will teach in a way that will be hard for you to see that they are wrong. They will even refuse to follow the Master who bought their freedom. And so they will quickly destroy themselves.
2. Many people will follow them in the morally wrong things they do. And because of them, others will say bad things about the way of truth we follow.
3. These false teachers only want your money. So they will use you by telling you things that are not true. But the judgment against these false teachers has been ready for a long time. And they will not escape God who will destroy them.

4. When angels sinned, God did not let them go free without punishment. He sent them to hell. He put those angels in caves of darkness, where they are being held until the time when God will judge them.

5. And God punished the evil people who lived long ago. He brought a flood to the world that was full of people who were against God. But he saved Noah and seven other people with him. Noah was a man who told people about living right.

6. God also punished the evil cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. He burned them until there was nothing left but ashes. He used those cities as an example of what will happen to people who are against God.
7. But he saved Lot, a good man who lived there. Lot was greatly troubled by the morally bad lives of those evil people. 8 This good man lived with those evil people every day, and his good heart was hurt by the evil things he saw and heard.
What peter said is indeed what we see happening here and now. Because of the AntiChrists also called MOGs, the world does not view Jesus Christ in a good light at all. You simply mention that you believe in the God of the Bible, and almost immediately you see the detest in their looks... nothing to do with persecution at all. No, they have become wary of those who claim to be Christians. The world is tired of the lies and deceit of MOGs - the hypocrisy that is claimed and justified in the name of God.

These MOGs are the Antichrists as they have set themselves up as Masters over Jesus Christ's flock, pretending to be Teachers in His place.

Their doctrines and traditions are twisted representations of the teachings of Jesus Christ, and in many cases many are deceived and led away from the Truth of Jesus Christ as a result.

They sit themselves in the place of God in the minds of His own sheep and they steal, kill and destroy, for their own pleasure and kingdoms, that which God has planned for those who are His. And they do all of this in the name of God.
MOGs are the false prophets that Jesus Christ warned His followers to beware of. These are the antichrists that the apostles spoke of even during their days.
Re: Sex In Dreams And There Sources! by pritijain(f): 7:45am On Aug 14, 2020
Making love in a dream shows that the dreamer’s mind is totally free in his dream to the point of designing scenarios that satisfy his secret urges and hidden sexual needs. In this kind of dream, all repression is set aside and much dammed energy is released, as there is no room for blockages.

The question, the suggestion, and the tip that remains is: What part of your life is lacking in romanticism, love, and ecstasy? Remember that it may be in the affective area, but not only. A dream of this sort suggests the lack and need to be fulfilled, it is up to you, if you do not already know it, to do a self-search and to go to creative ways where you can meet your own happiness. The release of energy has already happened in your dream, the tension has been leaked and it is now immensely easier to catch this wave. Enjoy the let your brain offered you and be happy.
If you find it difficult to make room in your life and happen, if any, ask for therapeutic help to unravel your ways of expression allying with your existing forces. One possibility is EMDR therapy where you reproduce the REM phase of sleep, which is when people dream. You can redo your dream by associating with your consciousness all the meanings and possibilities and truly making it happen. You deserve.

Let’s see some interpretations that we are sure will interest you.

Dreaming that you have sex in public

You are a person who has a tendency to risk . You are not afraid to develop in public because you are very sure of yourself. You may be excited by scenes where you are on the edge of adrenaline.

Dreaming of sex on the sly

You like mysteries and feel that you are undercover. The excitement produced by not being seen is intense and you get it on many occasions. This type of act for you, like other matters in your life, you do behind the back of others. Deception is in your life.

Dreaming about sex with people of the same gender

It is possible that in you there is a real inclination towards the same sex . In this case there is no problem or anything to worry about, as you are having sex with the person you want. But if you are a heterosexual man and you see yourself in dreams having sex with another man, for example, then if you must check thoroughly and with total sincerity, it happens very deep in your being.

Sometimes some people are averse to homosexuality and it is simply because they fear their own tendency. If this is your case, it is recommended that you show yourself without any shame and assume your sexuality openly. Don’t suffer to hide something that is so natural in human beings.

Dream that you have sex with your boyfriend or husband

This dream is pleasant and revealing of an excellent love relationship . It is wonderful that you consolidate your closeness with your partner. Dreaming about your boyfriend or husband is even romantic and erotic at the same time. Enjoy your potential next to the person you love.

If you have time without having sexual contact with your partner it is also frequent that you dream of having sex with her. This need is legitimate and you must externalize and materialize it. Search for your partner and find yourself intimately with her . Your subconscious screams for you to do it.
Re: Sex In Dreams And There Sources! by 777isaac: 8:59am On Aug 14, 2020
Sure having sex in dream with your partner can be pleasant. But that is if you both have been long apart. If not physical would be more real and better. Anyway your point is clear. Thanks.

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