Hello Nairalanders

So, there was this lady I dated for like 8 months before we broke up. I honestly didn't want to waste her time as our genotypes were not going go well if we were to have children.

I still think about her sometimes tho. The last time we spoke was in January. Her birthday is coming up very soon and I'm just thinking about it. Like should I send her a Birthday wish?

Please advise me.
(Matured answers people)

Just" Happy Birthday " msg with less than N5 sms charges you dey write this epistle?

You've been thinking about how to wish an ex vagina person happy birthday
Frankly, something is wrong with your thinking faculty.

Hey, I didn't insult you.

It's you that has a very BIG thinking faculty problem. Just ignore next time rather that saying shit.

Kriss216:
You've been thinking about how to wish an ex vagina person happy birthday
Frankly, something is wrong with your thinking faculty.

I know already, like we haven't spoken in a very long time. I kinda find it weird.

helinues:
Just" Happy Birthday " msg with less than N5 sms charges you dey write this epistle?

Jermaineayo:
Hey, I didn't insult you.

It's you that has a very BIG thinking faculty problem. Just ignore next time rather that saying shit.

I didn't insult you also.

I rather stay mute...brother u dnt need long epistole..."happy birthday -her name-" shikena...maybe u want to go back to the hoe

Thanks...Nahh ain't going back.

Ugaboy:
I rather stay mute...brother u dnt need long epistole..."happy birthday -her name-" shikena...maybe u want to go back to the hoe

If the relationship ended well on a mutual ground you can wish her a happy birthday but if it's the other way round, abeg just ignore, no need of faking happiness with someone u ain't happy with.

it depends bro...jus type happy birthday and thats it, no need for using more sweet words to avoid feelings..
you guys should stop making that word "ex" seems like its a bad tin, some people do breakup on a good note..for example my ex simply told me that she gat a suitor and wants to marry d gee because she cnt wait for me n dts it bcox i cnt force her to wait for a broke gee in this hard country, she do call, text, visit and we even forget shaa

Thank you! I sincerely appreciate.

doris4u:
If the relationship ended well on a mutual ground you can wish her a happy birthday but if it's the other way round, abeg just ignore, no need of faking happiness with someone u ain't happy with.

Well said man.

I really don't like to use the word "ex" too but I don't think I have another option.

paulolee:
it depends bro...jus type happy birthday and thats it, no need for using more sweet words to avoid feelings..
you guys should stop making that word "ex" seems like its a bad tin, some people do breakup on a good note..for example my ex simply told me that she gat a suitor and wants to marry d gee because she cnt wait for me n dts it bcox i cnt force her to wait for a broke gee in this hard country, she do call, text, visit and we even forget shaa