Let’s get one thing straight: having any sort of sex routine isn’t a bad thing. In fact, some relationship experts say scheduling sex can help maintain a healthy, long-term relationship. But it’s also nice to mix things up every once in awhile because, just like anything else in life, trying new things helps you explore uncharted territory to figure out what you like (and don’t). Play these fun, expert-endorsed sex games for couples, that will hopefully result in sensational discoveries and maybe even unlock some new sexual fantasies. So, light a romantic candle, cue up your sultriest playlist, and settle in.

1. Domination

What you need: Handcuffs or something to tie your wrists (bandana, silk scarf, tie, etc)



How to play: Tie your partner’s wrists to the headboard, pin them to the mattress, and go a little more wild than usual—you can even sprinkle in hints of gentle aggression. Don’t be afraid to talk rough, stating exactly what you’re going to do to your partner sexually. Switch roles if you prefer to be the submissive.

Why it’s fun: This is a form of role play that encourages your partner to speak freely without worrying about holding back, says Fran Walfish, Psy.D., a family and relationship psychotherapist in Beverly Hills. “When you step into another role or personality, it can make exploring different likes and dislikes more approachable,” she explains. “It’s also an exciting way to capitalize on one’s fantasy of being overtaken by their partner.”

2. Play Up Your Personality
What you need: This list of sexual personality types

How to play: Read over the 11 sexual personality types separately, and pick your absolute favorite based on what you think is the most important aspect of sex. (It’s OK if you identify with a bunch, but make sure there's a top choice.) Then, make two different sex dates. On the first, you’ll have the kind of sex that emphasizes your sexual personality, and on the second you'll cater to your partner. Example: If you’re The Explorer, you can try a bunch of different sex positions, or mix things up by only using your hands with each other—no mouths allowed.

Don’t want to wait for two separate dates? Hop to it and get intimate right then and there, spending 10 to 30 minutes on your favorite type before switching to your partner’s.



Why it’s fun: “Your sexual personality type is like your love language for sex,” says Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex therapist based in Los Angeles. And while a lot of us want to experience different things, most couples don’t ever talk about it—leading to a sack session that doesn’t feel particularly satisfying for one or both parties involved. “But once you understand your sexual personality and your partner’s, you can work together to make sure you have both kinds of sex, and can enjoy each other’s favorite versions that much more.”

3. Aural Sex
What you need: Two erotic stories (each partner should choose one). This can be an explicit scene from a book you like, or something you found online.

How to play: Have your erotic stories handy. If it’s on your phone, turn off notifications so you don’t get distracted. Read one story aloud or silently together. (Note: reading it aloud can enhance the experience.)

Explain why you chose the story—what you liked about it, how it affected you, what you’d like to try from it—and then ask for their reactions. If you’re both comfortable, act out the scene.

Why it’s fun: “Reading or discussing an erotic story aloud stimulates both the oral and auditory senses,” says Candice Smith, co-founder of the KinkKit. Think of it as a fun way to add extra spice to pre-intimacy, without having to come up with what to say yourself.

4. Sexy Scrabble
What you need: Scrabble.



How to play: Dressed in seductive attire (or none at all), set the mood with music, candles, and cocktails, grab the game and clear a comfortable space on the floor. The first rule is this: Players are only allowed to call upon words plucked from their most erotic vocabularies. Second, if you spell out a body part, your partner gets to lean into you and plant a lustful, wet kiss there (and vice versa).

Why it’s fun: Not only is it intellectually stimulating, but it allows the arousal–and physical interaction–to build gradually.

Explain why you chose the story—what you liked about it, how it affected you, what you’d like to try from it—and then ask for their reactions. If you’re both comfortable, act out the scene.

Why it’s fun: “Reading or discussing an erotic story aloud stimulates both the oral and auditory senses,” says Candice Smith, co-founder of the KinkKit. Think of it as a fun way to add extra spice to pre-intimacy, without having to come up with what to say yourself.

5. Look But You Can’t Touch
What you need: Yourselves, a timer



How to play: For 30 whole minutes, touching is dangerously forbidden. One partner examines every inch of the other’s naked body—exploring it at leisure and drifting their hands across its edges—without ever actually touching their flesh.

Why it’s fun: It’s the epitome of a tantalizing encounter. Each will revel in the excitement of exchanging energy and body heat, without so much as a stroke. And, when you finally do touch, it will likely be gratifying for both of you.



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Its all good but i just invented some few recently but will share just one..Zurcher Play She has to be really flexible and creative while u need to be able to hold on cos it will def get bumpy

Its quite simple but fun. During sex u hit fifty thrusts and she changes position after every 50 thrust. You can also position her if she isn't that creative. The goal is not to cum quickly and hit every spot from all angles from unexpected n unexplained positions . If u can do 10- 15 known and unknown positions (500-750 thrusts) then u can increase the pace from 50-100 thrusts. If u get this right ur sex life with ur partner/ wife will be fired up

U can start 5-10 unexpected positions and make it fun by not being hard on urselves... Try it today