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Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by WesleyanA(f): 3:56am On Jun 22, 2007 |
the private eye idea is a good one. does he deny having an affair? what problems exactly do they have in the marriage that they have to literally live separate lives? |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by spoilt(f): 4:06am On Jun 22, 2007 |
what good will having a p.i follow him do? sometimes you dont need an oracle to tell you what you already know. even if she finds out he's cheating she'll still have the same crazy optimism that nigerian women have to try and make it work against all odds. i tire. |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by doncartel: 11:51am On Jun 22, 2007 |
Your friend has to be very careful,as you said aids is real.For me there is nothing like love when it comes to aids.Have life before you talk of love.Think of the millions of good,lovable,innocent people who have died by loving such evil partners If i were your friend's shoes,i would quietly start searching for a more serious person and meanwhile try to avoid the sex |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by anabell(f): 2:30pm On Jun 22, 2007 |
@poster, i really feel deeply 4 ur friend, i f i were her i would have left along time ago cos i cant stand been hurt all the time, but i will not advice her to do that cos she is not me.my advice to ur friend, is to move out of that house at list 4 a while .there is a saying that heaven help those who help themselves,she has to pray and take that drastic step of movin out of that house so that her heartless husband will no that she will nolonger take the bullshit anymore, while she is on her own, she should beg GOD 4 his will to be done in her life it might be that, her husband its not the man GOD want 4 her u nava no maybe when she gives that man{husband} a good deal of space he might wake up and smell the coffee and repent of his sin and beg GOD his wife and kids 4 forgiveness or during that time she might even meet her real husband someone GOD has ordained 4 her, someone who will love respect and cherish herself and her kids 4 the rest of her life.The first step 4 her is to move out of that house give her husband space and pray that GOd will be done.Tell ur friend, that i will be praying 4 her |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by vigasimple(m): 3:54pm On Jun 22, 2007 |
Hello everyone, you have all spoken well. The lady in question sholud pray very well and seek the guidance of men/women of God for God to reveal his will for her. Let me tell you if God say she should remain in the house as a wife so be it, if God tell her to move on. case is close. All other if's and but's, me no go accept nonesense, too much ill treatment are just human views and opinion. The ultimate decision will come from God who shall speak to the lady and I can assure you she will never regret whatever decision she made once spoken to by God. God doesn't lie or take bribe from anybody. Prayers, prayers,prayers for the will of God to be know and done. This to me if the lady follows that will be an happy ending story. In the meantime, let us all pray and interceed on behalf of this family, Father in the name of our Lord jesus Christ we ask you to come into the home of our sister on the behalf of which her friend is seeking advice, please Lord jesus let there be loving reconcillation and healing of heart. Let the unfailing love of God rule in this family. Let there be an everlasting testimony in Jesus name our Lord we have prayed. Amen What form you can pray for them do so, as you do it God almighty will heal allyour own wounds in Jesus name. |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by spoilt(f): 4:55am On Jun 23, 2007 |
vigasimple: prayer!prayer! and yet more prayer! in as much as i believe in prayer, i dont think you should sit there while a goat begins to eat the palm fronds on your chieftaincy cap while you do nothing. sometimes you have to take drastic action. eg when Jesus went into the tabernace and saw those folks buying and selling,he knew he had a situation. he didnt fall to his knees and start speaking in tongues to make them leave.he didnt embark on another 40 day fast. he drove them out himself! |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by la1(m): 7:34pm On Jun 23, 2007 |
its obvious from the lady's refusal to move out or seek divorce inspite of her experiences,that she actually still has some faith in the marriage and probably BELIEVES things will turn out right,, i sense she's still got LOVE for her husband, i predict that it is this same LOVE that will turn things around, yes i BELIEVE. |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by Nobody: 6:24pm On Jun 25, 2007 |
spoilt: this girl,you sabi crack jokes o. |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by MILITIA(f): 8:47pm On Jun 25, 2007 |
spoilt: LOL! Marriage na wah oh! The goat is not only eating the palm fronds on this woman's chieftaincy cap, but the goat has also finished eating her arse! Why are some women so desperate that they will put up with any "crap"! If na me, even with my three kids--I don waka go tey tey! In this short life? Then with AIDS around the corner too? @Babyosis Keep praying oh! There is nothing our God cannot do sha! Please do not interfere oh! Listen to your husband oh! The next thing the woman will accuse you of wanting to wreck her home while you keep yours! She married the man abi? Only the parties involved can sort out this mess! Sad as it may be! |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jun 28, 2007 |
I spoke with my friend the other day,she's still hanging in there and I'm praying along. militia,I did heed my husband's advice,I am not giving any advice,I'm just praying along that God should set this man free from the demon of wife hatred and return him to his wife and kids. |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by moondust(m): 6:13pm On Jun 28, 2007 |
If she dont want 2 dump d guy then she can pray harder |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by tpia5: 5:53pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
batu: do you mind babyosisi the wandering witch? |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by seyibrown(f): 11:30am On Mar 09, 2013 |
babyosisi: Imani you sound exactly like me when I had this discussion with my husband early yesterday morning. Terrible. She needs to have a frank talk with him about what they should do about their situation. Why is he staying with her if he is intent on living a totally separate life? A born-again xtian should not do this to their wife. Is he fooling God or man by staying in the 'marriage'? |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by DukeNija(m): 8:02pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
batu: @babyosisi, Fantastic Post! God bless your marriage Sir! |
Re: My Good Friend Is In Trouble. by Nobody: 7:47pm On May 11, 2013 |
Wow,this thread from 6 years ago lol. Update The divorce has been final for years now and they are now living separate lives in separate towns. |
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