I don't know why for close to three years now,I am always the one to initiate love making with my wife.She can stay for weeks,no attempt.Unlike before,such moves do come from any of us. The attitude makes me not only feel unwanted but I assume may be she don't have my feeling anymore. The irony of it all is that during the process,she will be the one that enjoys it most,moan to the highest with different kinds of display as if she was deprived sex for long.What should I do.

You want your Landlord to be the one to initiate it ?

That she moans does not mean she is enjoying it in anyway. She might even be faking it so u don't feel bad with crushed Ego.

She can stay for weeks ? Will you rather she ask for it every day so when u are travelling u still get scared of what might happen ?

You should understand that women's head correct pass men. A guy can be having several challenges and he sees a naked woman and d1ck stand Attention !!! .

Women are wired differently. Credit alert makes them wet and h0rny not one naked picture.

Have u asked her what the problem was ? She might even be confused and scared about this COVID world and how our lives have changed while you dey reason with d1ck and still complaining of initiating it.

Bros don't stress that woman. If u want ask , since she is giving u and even 'enjoying it more than u', case dismissed.

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Righteousness89:
Brother Stop all these Unnecessary stuff

Sorry I did not see it as unnecessary. Love making is more enjoyable especially when the partner is showing interest. It can even make the man perform more. But when it's you all the time, it reduces the urge as you may feel you are always disturbing your partner for what she don't want. Most times I may decide to stay on my own since she seems not to need it but when it takes long and she don't even care to feel it, I will still go back and initiate when the konji is much on me. Such act doesn't give me joy and a sense of belonging

Oga,
I don't think that you have a problem in your marriage.
Keep on because no marriage is without an issue to be tolerated and yours seems like a micro issue, never make it macro

Na WA for prick and to.to

Welcome to married life.

Bro, Nigerian women like to pretend

And its we men that cause it, if she show herself too much, we tag her an harlot or ashewo or loose..


We need to change that mentality.

Tbh, I like girls that say their mind, turns me on like a light bulb. I dislike pretense, it ls deflating.

Timpson was here

If she's not refusing you, then you have no problem YET... Keep initiating it

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zaza999:
I don't know why for close to three years now,I am always the one to initiate love making with my wife.She can stay for weeks,no attempt.Unlike before,such moves do come from any of us. The attitude makes me not only feel unwanted but I assume may be she don't have my feeling anymore. The irony of it all is that during the process,she will be the one that enjoys it most,moan to the highest with different kinds of display as if she was deprived sex for long.What should I do.

its a very simple issue

1 talk to your wife, tell her that it would be nice and sexy for her to also make the 1st moves

2 Tell her that it would make you more Hot if the starts the game and it would also make you feel wanted

3 Tell her that her initiating is also her own way of showing she feelings for you

4 She shouldnt feel shy to show her sexual feelings to her man, explain to her that you are not old skol that judge women based on the fact that a woman who initiate sex have loose morals

5 You are now married there is no holding back if now feels to have it go for it

Make the moves when you want it provided she isn't denying you. She could have hinted you a few times and you turned her down.

zaza999:
I don't know why for close to three years now,I am always the one to initiate love making with my wife.She can stay for weeks,no attempt.Unlike before,such moves do come from any of us. The attitude makes me not only feel unwanted but I assume may be she don't have my feeling anymore. The irony of it all is that during the process,she will be the one that enjoys it most,moan to the highest with different kinds of display as if she was deprived sex for long.What should I do.

Get used to it already. It's not as if you're newly married.

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ogunboy:


I hope u are not the other mumu user mariahangel

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You better be warned and keep your foolishness away from me!
Are you insane?
You keep roaming all over nairaland like an evil spirit, stalking people and their comments. Is that your purpose in life?
Could you be any more miserable?

You see dis monicker and the one wey you mention, if dem born you well, type rubbish on top dem again! You wan die? I choro I nwu?

E be like say bomb dey your head.
Only you, you know each monicker and the alternate. Mumu!
Oponu ode oshi!

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ogunboy:


Maria my love. Why are u so pained like this. I do not stalk I only troll trollers and stupid people like you and your cunt lover logobenz

Are u not supposed to be a married woman sef? U dey die for small boy like dat idiot

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Don't act like you know me. You know nothing about me!
You're just a wandering stalker, looking for attention.
Go get yourself treated, your mental health is getting out of control.
You are going crazy for real!

zaza999:
I don't know why for close to three years now,I am always the one to initiate love making with my wife.She can stay for weeks,no attempt.Unlike before,such moves do come from any of us. The attitude makes me not only feel unwanted but I assume may be she don't have my feeling anymore. The irony of it all is that during the process,she will be the one that enjoys it most,moan to the highest with different kinds of display as if she was deprived sex for long.What should I do.

Women love acts goes with their emotions, the emotions and state of mind determines their mood in every thing they do especially sex and romance

If you really love her seat her down and discuss with her, don't be surprise, you must have hurt her and feel unconcerned. She may be going through a psychological situation

Worst case she must have lost interest in you and the marriage

But only her knows exactly what is wrong with her

You said she enjoys sex more. Yes women do, especially if you can be patient to help her get to orgasm by knowing the buttons to press

You initiate, she does not refuse, you do, she enjoys it. Bros what is the problem now? You enjoy she enjoys, everybody is happy shikena. She just might not be wired to demand for it, or have a lower sex drive than you are, but the fact that she doesn't deny you is great. What if she begins to sleep with jean shorts every night . Try and exercise more and get ripped, maybe when you take off your shirts and she see triceps and arms with all the drip, her engine will start firing

zaza999:


Sorry I did not see it as unnecessary. Love making is more enjoyable especially when the partner is showing interest. It can even make the man perform more. But when it's you all the time, it reduces the urge as you may feel you are always disturbing your partner for what she don't want. Most times I may decide to stay on my own since she seems not to need it but when it takes long and she don't even care to feel it, I will still go back and initiate when the konji is much on me. Such act doesn't give me joy and a sense of belonging

When you brought this matter here, you should have known there are so many kids on nairaland, try and ignore some qoutes.

Men nag sha, you are getting sex with no hassle, but your problem is who initiates first or more, you guys can whine for Africa, lol.

frozen70:


Women love acts goes with their emotions, the emotions and state of mind determines their mood in every thing they do especially sex and romance

If you really love her seat her down and discuss with her, don't be surprise, you must have hurt her and feel unconcerned. She may be going through a psychological situation

Worst case she must have lost interest in you and the marriage

But only her knows exactly what is wrong with her

You said she enjoys sex more. Yes women do, especially if you can be patient to help her get to orgasm by knowing the buttons to press

I have sat her down and talk over it but she did not give an reason for that.I want to know if is is common among couples or anybody has witnessed such and way out.

That your wife initiates sex as well can make a man feel hot and feeling of being belonged and loved,but for me when I am the one that does it often,I personally feel as if I am forcing it on her for what she don't want and it can phycologically affect your performance in bed.And like I said once the game start ,honestly speaking she enjoys it more than me that I will be telling him so she has been feeling this and living in silent. Honestly I don't understand this act.

zaza999:


I have sat her down and talk over it but she did not give an reason for that.I want to know if is is common among couples or anybody has witnessed such and way out.

That your wife initiates sex as well can make a man feel hot and feeling of being belonged and loved,but for me when I am the one that does it often,I personally feel as if I am forcing it on her for what she don't want and it can phycologically affect your performance in bed.And like I said once the game start ,honestly speaking she enjoys it more than me that I will be telling him so she has been feeling this and living in silent. Honestly I don't understand this act.

Anyway keep making the request when you need it

Do you guys have a friendly relationship or you live as flat mates. Because couples who plays together gets turn in easily

You can still give her time to readjust

So far she is responding to your demands, take it calm

Though we have cases where women gets turned of totally but tgat has to do with her emotions or being tired of the marriage