bukatyne:


Men can have sex without emotions doesn't mean all sex would be without emotions.

And the more the sex partners, the more the ability to have sex without emotions or bond.

The OP has slept with two women if his story captures all his sexual history:, if he married the first woman, his marital/sexual life would have been almost perfect.

As it stands, it almost seems the OP is cheating on his side woman with his wife.

LuvB:


Nah. My wife is far from suffering . We're happy . This is just a dark side of me I can't speak about .

eazzzy1:


When you get caught, the feelings will vanish. When her husband kicks her out you won’t find her attractive anymore. There’s that subconscious feeling that you are better than her husband. Sleeping with someone’s gf or wife can be exciting but it always end in shame for one or both parties

.

LuvB:


Let me be honest. I've slept with sssooooo maaaaany ladies ,so many ,just to break my feelings for her ,but it never worked . This was before I settled down . The emotions never went away . its crazy

eazzzy1:
When you get caught, the feelings will vanish. When her husband kicks her out you won’t find her attractive anymore. There’s that subconscious feeling that you are better than her husband. Sleeping with someone’s gf or wife can be exciting but it always end in shame for one or both parties.

If you want to be with her, break her home and divorce your wife. Make a secret video or audio recording and send it to her husband. I’m sure if you end up together you won’t trust her.

If you are serious about leaving her, next time when you kiss her, just remember she sucked her hubby’s dick the night before, so basically you are sucking dick.

Another method is to think/know that if she’s nacking you she may be nacking someone else too, so you aren’t special she just belongs to the street.

LuvB:


You just nailed it. I really would have married her if I had the means back then.
Thanks a lot . I appreciate. I'll keep working on ending this . I pray I succeed

bukatyne:


Your village people mean business with you.

Imagine you developed another soultie with one of your numerous escapades.

bukatyne:

LuvB:


Nah. My wife is far from suffering . We're happy . This is just a dark side of me I can't speak about .

eazzzy1:


Lol abi sis, na to scatter everything since the love Dey shack am. I don’t think it’s a soul tie, I think it’s adults acting like children.

Unfortunately their selfishness is going to destroy two families, turn the kids to children from broken homes and their respective partners to divorcees, something non of them bargained for.

Calling it a soul tie kind of takes the responsibility out of their hands making seem like they have no control over their actions.

I wish their partners find out and decide to date themselves too, so basically family swap. I no holy pass but to fall in love outside your marriage and even worse to a fellow married person. No judgement here sha. Let them keep chopping life .

eazzzy1:


Lol abi sis, na to scatter everything since the love Dey shack am. I don’t think it’s a soul tie, I think it’s adults acting like children.

Unfortunately their selfishness is going to destroy two families, turn the kids to children from broken homes and their respective partners to divorcees, something non of them bargained for.

Calling it a soul tie kind of takes the responsibility out of their hands making seem like they have no control over their actions.

I wish their partners find out and decide to date themselves too, so basically family swap. I no holy pass but to fall in love outside your marriage and even worse to a fellow married person. No judgement here sha. Let them keep chopping life .

Takotsubo:
@LuvB,
You should understand that you're a side dyck.
Your function to her is sexual gratification.I don't know why you're allowing your emotions to control you .

She has made it clear (according to you)that she has no plans to leave her husband/ family or mess with things in her home.

For reasons best known to her,she chooses to have sex outside her husband and you voluntarily chose to supply the d yck.

Nothing like soul tie here because it would imply that she's emotionally invested when you say she's not,unless soul tie is one sided.

You should know your role .Either you accept it ,do your job well and stop crying or you move on and face your family which is better .

I'm pretty sure you know that if push comes to shove,she would choose her family a thousand times over you.

Sorry .

Thanks... I've drawn strength from mature comments here

eazzzy1:
When you get caught, the feelings will vanish. When her husband kicks her out you won’t find her attractive anymore. There’s that subconscious feeling that you are better than her husband. Sleeping with someone’s gf or wife can be exciting but it always end in shame for one or both parties.

If you want to be with her, break her home and divorce your wife. Make a secret video or audio recording and send it to her husband. I’m sure if you end up together you won’t trust her.

If you are serious about leaving her, next time when you kiss her, just remember she sucked her hubby’s dick the night before, so basically you are sucking dick.

Another method is to think/know that if she’s nacking you she may be nacking someone else too, so you aren’t special she just belongs to the street.

culf:
Tell her how you feel, tell her about your anger and your love.

Afterwards discuss with her best way to end it which will be very difficulty. Best option is to move to a new location, do away with all her contacts.

It won't be easy

NoToPile:


Thank you, somebody has finally said it.

Premium tears loading, do you want to lose all?

The devil is drumming for you and you are dancing, I pity you OP.

You will have to tell your wife if you want to be totally free you better go and pray if you are a Christian and you confess to your wife only there in will you be free. Saying it out is the very first step to being free oo.

LuvB:


Somethings are better left as secrets

LuvB:


Thanks

LuvB:

Thanks

bukatyne:


Men can have sex without emotions doesn't mean all sex would be without emotions.

And the more the sex partners, the more the ability to have sex without emotions or bond.

The OP has slept with two women if his story captures all his sexual history:, if he married the first woman, his marital/sexual life would have been almost perfect.

As it stands, it almost seems the OP is cheating on his side woman with his wife.

lilyheaven:
It’s called soul tie, quit your job, look for another job , delete her number and contacts in all your social media accounts.
Re-date your wife.
Time heals all pain

NoToPile:


Then it has more power as long as its still a secret, once you confess the chain is broken and anytime you want to be controlled by your kini you might at least think about hurting your wife all over again , this your case is not looking ordinary anymore, Too much sex has caused something else.

You need to break free and it starts with confessing to your wife.


I wish you Good luck if you eventually decide to tell her, she will most likely forgive you anyway as long as you don't do it again.

LuvB:
Good evening all. I decided to write my story here as a last resort . I'm in pain . And I sincerely hope I can get good advice here .
My story dates back to 2004 when I met this gorgeous lady in my 200level. Though we were in same class ,i never realy took note of her till 2nd year . I just walked up to her one afternoon and we started talking ,went home together and we became really close friends. Shortly after ,my gf broke up with me ..not that we had a problem but she was graduating and felt she couldn't continue with me as I was way younger . I cried .went to my friends house and she consoled me . one thing led to another and we had sex . This was my first sex and wasn't so great . But that marked the beginning of a series of heart breaks . We started having sex regularly and I soon became very good at it . To the extent we couldnt get enough of each other . We had sex at every given opportunity. Several times a week . This is despite her being in a relationship. I on the other hand took her as my gf . Loved her so much . We were inseperable .Went everywhere together Fast forward to 2009 she got married and told me we couldn't continue our illicit affair.. I've cried many tears for this lady cause I truly truly love her ..I became a playboy but nothing could fill the void she left .I tried to forget her . I also got married . Somehow we got employed in the same place of recent .We got talking again. We are so so close . Next thing we started an affair . Just like old times . This lady has kids and I do too but somehow we CNT help it .The attraction is so much . My problem is that I feel used . I know I can't have this lady for keeps cause she belongs to another but I keep thinking about her . She on the other hand seems to forget about me once we are done having sex . Though she says shes just trying not to jeopardise her marriage ,hence the occasional "radio silence" I don't know how to keep her out of my mind . I love her so much but for the sake of my sanity I need to let her go .She claims she feels something for me but I really don't know what .Sometimes I just feel used . I really love this lady though . I can't lie.
Please I would really love to break the chains .
I need advice not insults . I know I've sinned but I'm human .
Someone please help me . Its been 2weeks without her touch and I feel like a fish without water . The truth is if she calls me up now,I would still rush to her . I feel complete when we're together . its insane

LuvB:





Its close to 5weeks and I'm yet to have intimate contact with my illicit partner. Thanks for the support . I hope never to go back

Mariangeles:


Has she tried to contact you?

Mariangeles:


Has she tried to contact you?