Ybaby:

He is the slow type.

Like u & ur honey'm wit una imaginary companies bah?

ImaIma1:

[s]Thanks for the heads up.

Though I figured it out when he concluded that I am the same person as tosinhtml[/s]

Mrs women dont marry down because women care abt not hurting a man's ego. tell dat 2 the chickens on animal farm

saucecode:

See this beautiful scripted nonsense,u think is only infants dat full nairaland bah. She says women dont marry down because they dont want to bruise guys ego, whu are you kidding wit this rubbish talk? . Women dont marry down simply because of self interest nd greed and wanting a better life than the one you were living as a single girl, simple and short!!!!!

Just look at how u re trying to paint one angelic model of women as people who are considering the ego of a man before dating him, well except you mean ego as in chuba ego billi billi

sisisioge:


A friend broke up with a modaforkar some few weeks back because the azzzhole told her she was down the ladder just because her job, which was virtual, was paying less than a 100k and he was earning 250k. The babe just got another job last week paying 245k and still retained her other job paying less than 100k. Mama got shot up the ladder above baba in less than 2months!

Moral, don't look at your ladder like that...you never know how much reshuffling can happen within the shortest timelines. So long as you found her good enough to date, ladders no longer count.

By the way, girls are still allowed to stay off broke azzzz boys o

How i wish you can tell that to your fellow ladies avoiding their level or going below.
@Op abeg marry your class, don't let anybody guilty trip you.

Mariangeles:


I feel sorry for people with vain mindsets like yours.
It is easier for them to make costly mistakes in life.
The quality of a human being is not determined by the amount of things they possess, social class, outward look, level of education...
The quality of a human is determined by how rich and generous their soul is.

What impact has this person made in your life is what you should consider the most?
Go read the book of ecclesiastes, it might change your perception of life.

Lol, i believe this advice should be given mostly to ladies.
Who are more likely to drop their current spouse for abroad people? Ladies.
Who abandons their relationship or divorce incase of job loss to a spouse? Ladies
Who won't marry down most time? Ladies
Etc
I can go on more and more but won't

crackhaus:

Lol, and this is why there will always be gender inequality in some form, whether people like to admit it or not - that fight was lost way before it even began.

Just imagine if it was a woman up/man down situation on this thread, some of the preaching going on up there won't be happening.

sisisioge:


A friend broke up with a modaforkar some few weeks back because the azzzhole told her she was down the ladder just because her job, which was virtual, was paying less than a 100k and he was earning 250k. The babe just got another job last week paying 245k and still retained her other job paying less than 100k. Mama got shot up the ladder above baba in less than 2months!

Moral, don't look at your ladder like that...you never know how much reshuffling can happen within the shortest timelines. So long as you found her good enough to date, ladders no longer count.

By the way, girls are still allowed to stay off broke azzzz o

Saintmary:

If you're concerned about social ladders, you are not in love, so, stop deceiving yourself and keep to that line, find a person that best suits your goals and leave that girl for her type joor.

And how come most women miraculously LOVE who are either their level or above and not below?

emmaodet:

My chief, I greet you

oweniwe:


Where is ladies dey see all those useless guys sef?

There are many humble, nice and hardworking guys out there... Why is it only egoistic, womanising, gold diggers una dey see?

Abi ooooo, my broda u sef see am

Belafonte:

Oba o!

emmaodet:


How i wish you can tell that to your fellow ladies avoiding their level or going below.
@Op abeg marry your class, don't let anybody guilty trip you.

Actually, we are somehow saying the same thing in different ways o.

1. If you find her attract enough to date regardless of her class, then marry her without asking about her position on the social ladder.

2. If a guy comes to you and you do not find him financially attractive enough to marry, biko dont date.

You see now? We are on the sane page fa

crackhaus:

My chief, I greet you

Heeyyyy broo, long time.
Wht happened?
Can we talk offline? I have something to ask

sisisioge:


Actually, we are somehow saying the same thing in different ways o.

1. If you find her attract enough to date regardless of her class, then marry her without asking about her position on the social ladder.

2. If a guy comes to you and you do not find him financially attractive enough to marry, biko dont date.

You see now? We are on the sane page fa

Well, i think so but sometimes, we date just for fun or sexx etc and not for marriage.
It is when such a relationship leads to marriage that we start asking questions.

sisisioge:


Oba o!

Eku 100 days o.

Udontmean it. The hustle is real....

ImaIma1:


He did have issues. And he actually ended up secretely marrying a mentally challenged colleague from a very wealthy family.

emmaodet:


Well, i think so but sometimes, we date just for fun or sexx etc and not for marriage.
It is when such a relationship leads to marriage that we start asking questions.

Well, that's why we should always put the cards on the table. Start with, aunty, I just wan use you rub ni o...FYI. That way,

emmaodet:


Heeyyyy broo, long time.
Wht happened?
Can we talk offline? I have something to ask

Sure, I just sent you a PM

kukusdot:

No, I don't feel I'm better than her. Some of your questions are not even questions because they have no real answers. "What is [my] substance?" That's not a question. You are just getting philosophical. What's your own substance, if I may ask?

It is a question that needs no answer but a reflection from you.

emmaodet:


Lol, i believe this advice should be given mostly to ladies.
Who are more likely to drop their current spouse for abroad people? Ladies.
Who abandons their relationship or divorce incase of job loss to a spouse? Ladies
Who won't marry down most time? Ladies
Etc
I can go on more and more but won't

It should be for everyone. It is not applicable only to people of a certain gender as proven by the op

Just saying.

If two guys now have refused entering your car. Maybe. Just maybe the problem is you.
Just saying tho.

saucecode:

See this beautiful scripted nonsense,u think is only infants dat full nairaland bah. She says women dont marry down because they dont want to bruise guys ego, whu are you kidding wit this rubbish talk? . Women dont marry down simply because of self interest nd greed and wanting a better life than the one you were living as a single girl, simple and short!!!!!

Just look at how u re trying to paint one angelic model of women as people who are considering the ego of a man before dating him, well except you mean ego as in chuba ego billi billi

Women have an outstanding ability of lying to themselves and actually believing these lies. Unreal ability to do that, I tell you. Probably why they sound/look convincing when lying because they really really do believe those lies.

Mariangeles:


It should be for everyone. It is not applicable only to people of a certain gender as proven by the op

babbbyyyy
I've missed you and at the sight of you my nkpulu amu is getting so excited

sisisioge:


Well, that's why we should always put the cards on the table. Start with, aunty, I just wan use you rub ni o...FYI. That way,

Most ladies won't agree if we open up to them.
Most ladies like guys lying/deceiving them.

crackhaus:

Sure, I just sent you a PM

Ok bro, will check and revert back

Mariangeles:


It should be for everyone. It is not applicable only to people of a certain gender as proven by the op

Ok oo

UyaiIncomparabl:


He is a real mordafucka, in fact!

I just hope she doesn't make the mistake of going back to him.

Ctrl + P!

Las las na Men V Women battle go happen for here.

Let me pitch my tent.

Raalsalghul:


Ctrl + P!

emmaodet:


And how come most women miraculously LOVE who are either their level or above and not below?

I'm not a researcher bros, please consult a sociologist.

saucecode:

Like u & ur honey'm wit una imaginary companies bah?

No jor !
It is you, your mummy and your daddy and all your uncles and aunties and the king of your village are slow

ImaIma1:


Thanks for the heads up.

Though I figured it out when he concluded that I am the same person as tosinhtml

My pleasure