₦airaland Forum

MrBrownJay1:
I am a man, both my parents were born in Nigeria, I wasn't born nor raised in Ngeria, I wasn't educated in Nigeria, I have traveled the world over and over and lived in different environments and culture for the past 20+ yrs, so I would say that I do have a "broader" mindset and/or way of understanding of world issues, which may not be the same as a person born/raised/educated in Nigeria.

Have you lived in Nigeria?

Ayt27:
This is one of the things I don't get, she gave him 14 years of her life, that's really in all sincerity great.

She gave him companionship, that's another really selfless act on her part.

The 14years of her life she gave the man, who do you think the man give his own 14 years too?
Who did the man give his own companionship too? The possible sex she had with the man, with whom do you think the man have sex with?

And while you ponder on these questions, make sure you note that the man paid her mortgage, tantamount to buying a house for her, took her on vacation trips and gave her a monthly allowance.

If they were married this wouldn't be an issue, but the law royally bleeped the man.

It's all part of the not so subtle gender war thing.

I STRONGLY BELIEVE one fundamental flaw in the world is that any form of sex had, is usually seen as a favor to the male and that's why

1. Male molestation or rape will be laughed or scoffed at
2. Male pornstars will always earn less
3. Gigolos will never earn as much as escorts

and that's okay because men, I guess, have accepted it so.

Know the law of your land.

Ladycewhy:
Nigerian men are not responsible by natural instincts hence they have to go through a major mental shift when they go to sane countries. . Things Nigerian women put up with and let them get away with ,they can never try it elsewhere.

Rubbish, Naija men are getting away with it big time if you arrange yourself well!

Ladycewhy:
lol , of course ,who espects it to, a fourth world country that is still battling with female inheritance in 2020 hiding behind tradition

Go and find work, Lazy bone!

Stop looking for a man to ruin with your sense of entitlement.

Ladycewhy:
errm ,nah. I would rather be a baby mama to a white man than marry a Nigerian man.

Which foolish whiteman will make babies with you?

ibedun:
Rubbish, Naija men are getting away with it big time if you arrange yourself well!

you sound ignorant. All this half intelligent boys sef.spits

sokkatua:
This na why i never bring my wife to Canada, no come put sand for my garri

This is your post of 2020.... Yet in your new story, you said you brought her to Canada in 2019.

Which kain confusion be this na?

ENG0701:
Very annoying. Paying someone you were never married to and never lived with such an amount monthly is complete bs

That was because she was his only or permanent girl friend, assuming the guy had 3 and more girl friends I don't think that would have been possible

MrBrownJay1:
Exactly!!!! Any person with some little wealth and common sense (whether in love or not), must think of when that love/Union will be over, in order to protect their wealth (because we all know that one day or another, love go sour). The law is there from the get go, it's your job to make sure you protect your wealth at all times.

I know "someone" in Brazil who was changing his gfs every 6 months, regardless of how much he loved them, simply because he knew that staying with them more than 6 months would put his wealth in danger of being part of some love settlement, if ever these women sued him. It's called protecting your wealth.....and unless you put your wealth under some hidden corporation that can't be traced back to you, then that's what most men with money must do.

So far, 50cent and OJ Simpson are the only famous people that have been able to succeed doing that. That's why they were sued and these people are still waiting for their money, even though both are rich.

What if the guy is dating 4 girls at a time, this shit can only work if the lady was the only friend with benefits the guy had

We need this law in Nigeria