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Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Emmaxy9(m): 2:25pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
True or not? As a male child, life had been fun, at least for some, you enjoy childhood, playing football and having fun, with little to no pressure about getting rich. But as you clock 20 or thereabout, you begin to feel the heat. Everyone now begins to see you as a consumer. And the only value you can get right now is to be rich. Is this true or not?
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Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Kriss216: 2:35pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Same society made the female humans useless without gbola. As a woman, no matter how beautiful, successful, influential or educated you are, you still need a gbola to compliment your usefulness. Let's not argue about this please, we're adults here. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by bukatyne(f): 2:39pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
What is the man offering apart from money? I think it is more about the individual man. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Hathor5(f): 2:56pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Correct me if I am wrong but wasn't Jesus poor? And if so, was he without value? 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Klass99(f): 3:19pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
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Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by longetivity(m): 3:26pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
money or no money we get value 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Hathor5(f): 3:28pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Klass99: But see you! 'Being gbola free has been one of the best decisions of my life.' What about Gandhi? He wasn't both but the whole world paid tribute when he died. To a 'little man' in linen clothes. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Emmaxy9(m): 3:28pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
longetivity:But the society doesn’t see it that way. If you don’t have money, people will Not really respect you. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by longetivity(m): 3:31pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Emmaxy9:not everyone |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Klass99(f): 3:56pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
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Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Hathor5(f): 4:01pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Klass99: One's material wealth is not a measure of one's humanity and inherent values. I know we live in a vain world but it does not make it less true and all this vanity causes a lot of suffering and will cause even more suffering. The problem is when people have nothing else to offer than money or beauty. Then it is very easy and recommendable to go gbola free. |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Liposure: 4:02pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
A man's value is immaterial. Even money can't buy |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by bdchange(m): 4:12pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Only if you know the power of money. Just imagine what a Jeff Bezos can do with $200b. He can even buy a country with her citizens included 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:39pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
longetivity: What exactly is this value that men have? 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Zabiboy: 4:51pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
This post is a reflection of a female-imperative society with misplaced priorities... A society where a man's value is placed only on his resources that benefits the female... They'll ignore your mental, educational,pschological, physical and every other phase of your life that doesnt benefit females and focus ONLY on your finances.... Anyways...you only hear this nonsense when you roll with Low self-esteemed men and women looking for men to infuriate their already bruised ego .. GL 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by illicit(m): 5:27pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
A man is a poor man without money 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by crackhaus: 8:32pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Brothers, please make some money or at least try to. Be your own person and be able to hold your own. Anyone who tells you that money doesn't give you value, run from them...run very far from them. They can't be trusted. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Liposure:dont deceive yourself sir 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by ImaIma1(f): 10:05pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Liposure: 10:26pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Emmaxy9:money only gives you power, influence and prestige. Value is inherent |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by ecomalchemist(m): 11:28pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
A MAN WITHOUT MONEY IS JUST ANOTHER SLAY QUEEN 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by mosdii(m): 9:01am On Sep 15, 2020 |
bukatyne: Men offer three important securities to women. 1. Financial security 2. Emotional security 3. Physical security in the other hand, women just offer one thing and that is sexual gratification (sex) and nothing more. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by mosdii(m): 9:05am On Sep 15, 2020 |
False assertion. A man with or without money is the most valued asset in the world. Money only compliments the value of men. |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Smile4mee01: 12:53pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
In a society where poverty reigns. It would seem so that a man is only loved for what he can provide not who he really is. I thinks it's the curse of being a Man. It all started the day Adam ate from what eve gave him. |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
Technically.. yes but by God's standard, no. Every one has some potential in them that makes them valuable. They only need to discover it and be rightly connected or postitioned. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by Setursight(m): 4:24pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
Money. There is something that we use to represent Value in most human societies. This is Money. While Money has almost no inherent value in and of itself yet it is accorded value by social agreement. The things that we really value are Food, Shelter, Status, Sex, Time, Labour etc etc etc... However we can all agree to represent 3 hours of human labour with £100 of money. We can agree to represent the value of a delicious meal at a restaurant with £50. etc etc.... However there is a problem with Money as with all representations, there is also the danger that far from accurately representing value, it can actually distort value. Money allows for the distortion and misrepresentation and eventual demise of our Value system, whatever it may be for each of us. A man works hard and adds value to his society and commensurate to that he makes a lot of Money. Another man steals the same amount of money and adds no value to his society. Are they to be ranked the same? Do both men have the same value to society? What about the man that sells Crack cocaine in his community? He is involved in an activity that actually destroys this community, that destroys value. Yet the monetary rewards for such a destruction of Value are immense. Has Money not totally subverted the Values of that community? It is very dangerous to hold money in any regard without thinking about what is real in terms of actual Values that we and our communities deem as Good. Just wanting to make money without any idea of how you want to create Value is a Toxicity to any community you are a part of. Reference: *pastorAIO* nairaland. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by mrblessed(m): 5:40pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
Zabiboy:The qualities you listed are remarkable but they aren't the most fundamental a man should possess. Also, note that this phase is only attributed to sexual interpersonal relationship between couples. Even when parties in a relationship aren't married, a lot of women are willing to overlook the execess of a man if he is capable of providing all her needs. It is also in line with the global patriarchy structure of the world that places man at the summit of the pyramid. There is a time-honoured Igbo adage, which says that "the beauty of a man is money." While not underrating other sterling features a man possesses, and being aware of the advantages it confers on women as the second-in-command, money is supreme in the life of man. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by merieam16(f): 8:14pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
Hathor5:Really... Jesus poor? Nahhh, u so wrong |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by frozen70(f): 12:03pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Emmaxy9: That's not true, once you make yourself relevant in the family settings you will be needed at all times But if you don't impact yourself into people's lives, of what use will your presence be |
Re: Men Are Of No Value Without Money. True Or Not? by iSpirit1(m): 1:38am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Hathor5: I know you're trying to make a sensible point though. But Jesus was not poor. He wore one of the best coats of his time. Reason why they casted lot for his garment. 1 Like 1 Share |
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