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An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by AnewDawn2020: 9:34pm On Sep 20, 2020
Hello to all nairlanders in the house and hope your day has been fine and well fulfilled .
My identity will remain anonymous for certain reasons.
This may be long but please read through

I am a student At the beginning of the Pandemic I chose not to go home rather I stayed back to focus on making money before the pandemic is over so there won't be any hurdle of financial flow in my last year in school.
It all started with restrictions of movement across the country and other new development that we are aware of.
Well to the matter ----- I'm friend with this girl let's say her name is lady B
We are hostel mates , she had a similar plan like mine to stay back in the hostel and figure a way to make money instead of going home , By the way she is a graduate and was already making plans for NYSC.

As a result of the restrictions we become very close , she will come to my room spend many hours talk laugh etc it continued for many days till later Mumu me started catching feelings.

Well just so you all know I was taking care of her , I'm aware of the financial shakles In her family so she started eating at my place , though I dey manage but I'll always share with her (I'm used to assisting those that don't really have , especially when it has to do with Feeding )
Well I didn't tell her yet about the feelings , I just continued being the kinds of person that I am .
Well along the line she met one fine and rich boy online that stays far but in Nigeria sha
They started talking and having some good time , later I noticed I started getting jealous but I wasn't reacting anyways. Later I figured they started sharing nudes and having some sexchat and videosex thing , the guy was driving her crazy and it was so obvious I could see the look on her face and expression anytime she text or calls him

Well to cut the long story short I told her about my feelings blah blah blah


Yeah we started kissing , caressing , cuddles etc , I wasn't really satisfied I wanted sex

Yeah las las we later had sex
I thought I would subsequently be having sex but she stopped me and was like she doesn't want to have sex anymore not with me or anybody.

She even fasted and pray so I was like okay she's probably doing that cos we have both sinned. So I stopped and didn't pressure but we could still kiss

I thought she turned a new leaf not until I recently saw videos of she masturbating for That guy she met online , she kept on sending him nudes and was like I can't wait to finally see you and blah blah blah


She is someone I support alot , most times I go out of my way just so she can be happy. Support her financially and everything infact playing the role of a boyfriend


Right now I'm so pissed i feel like cutting the relationship and everything , I don't want her around me

But then

1. We live in same compound and see each other everyday
2. She's not financially bouyant , probably won't want her to starve
3. She has just me in the compound that she talks to


She's not my girlfriend I know infact I'm single
She's probably maybe going to have the online guy as a boyfriend I really don't know I don't like her telling me anything about him

I noticed the online guy she is taking has never helped her in any way , im always playing the hero . Mtchewww

I really don't know what to do.
Please any advice ?
Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by UDUJ(m): 9:38pm On Sep 20, 2020
AnewDawn2020:
Hello to all nairlanders in the house and hope your day has been fine and well fulfilled .
My identity will remain anonymous for certain reasons.
This may be long but please read through

I am a student At the beginning of the Pandemic I chose not to go home rather I stayed back to focus on making money before the pandemic is over so there won't be any hurdle of financial flow in my last year in school.
It all started with restrictions of movement across the country and other new development that we are aware of.
Well to the matter ----- I'm friend with this girl let's say her name is lady B
We are hostel mates , she had a similar plan like mine to stay back in the hostel and figure a way to make money instead of going home , By the way she is a graduate and was already making plans for NYSC.

As a result of the restrictions we become very close , she will come to my room spend many hours talk laugh etc it continued for many days till later Mumu me started catching feelings.

Well just so you all know I was taking care of her , I'm aware of the financial shakles In her family so she started eating at my place , though I dey manage but I'll always share with her (I'm used to assisting those that don't really have , especially when it has to do with Feeding )
Well I didn't tell her yet about the feelings , I just continued being the kinds of person that I am .
Well along the line she met one fine and rich boy online that stays far but in Nigeria sha
They started talking and having some good time , later I noticed I started getting jealous but I wasn't reacting anyways. Later I figured they started sharing nudes and having some sexchat and videosex thing , the guy was driving her crazy and it was so obvious I could see the look on her face and expression anytime she text or calls him

Well to cut the long story short I told her about my feelings blah blah blah


Yeah we started kissing , caressing , cuddles etc , I wasn't really satisfied I wanted sex

Yeah las las we later had sex
I thought I would subsequently be having sex but she stopped me and was like she doesn't want to have sex anymore not with me or anybody.

She even fasted and pray so I was like okay she's probably doing that cos we have both sinned. So I stopped and didn't pressure but we could still kiss

I thought she turned a new leaf not until I recently saw videos of she masturbating for That guy she met online , she kept on sending him nudes and was like I can't wait to finally see you and blah blah blah


She is someone I support alot , most times I go out of my way just so she can be happy. Support her financially and everything infact playing the role of a boyfriend


Right now I'm so pissed i feel like cutting the relationship and everything , I don't want her around me

But then

1. We live in same compound and see each other everyday
2. She's not financially bouyant , probably won't want her to starve
3. She has just me in the compound that she talks to


She's not my girlfriend I know infact I'm single
She's probably maybe going to have the online guy as a boyfriend I really don't know I don't like her telling me anything about him

I noticed the online guy she is taking has never helped her in any way , im always playing the hero . Mtchewww

I really don't know what to do.
Please any advice ?

Okay you asked us if you are an idiot or a hero.

You are an Idiot.

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Uzomacharles: 9:42pm On Sep 20, 2020
SIMP

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Dpsychologist: 9:44pm On Sep 20, 2020
angry
You need reconfiguration.

Click on my signature for you to be emancipated.

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:46pm On Sep 20, 2020
bros u have gotten what u have been fighting for all this while cheesy
she has given u the kpomo to chop so wich one u come dey worry urself again cheesy
catching feelings? cheesy grin
how old are u sef?
eat ur share and let the other rich boy wey she wan share the tin give also get his share cheesy
stop being selfish cheesy
and pls try and face whatever made u stay in school instead of travelling home during the lockdown
dont let toto distract u

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by saheedbadmus(m): 9:48pm On Sep 20, 2020
My little advice, geta gf and bring her home .. she would also give her distance
Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 10:03pm On Sep 20, 2020
Oga you asked a question abi??
You na big idiot
Anyway look my signature

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by focus7: 10:04pm On Sep 20, 2020
You probably don't care to know why she stopped having sex with you after the first one.

Obviously you didn't satisfy her. Women also love and want sex as much as men, they have their fantasies about it and they want to enjoy it but unfortunately many don't give them the pleasure they want as so they are pissed.

If you had satisfy her the first time she will less crave for the internet guy

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Dreyton36: 10:07pm On Sep 20, 2020
Fvck mehnnnnnnnn

2pac Amaru Shakur once said (M.O
B)

MONEY OVER BITCHES

Any girl that can masterbate for a guy she's never met in person is nothing but a bit*h

She's probably gaining something from it which you don't know
You'll think she's broke until she buys Benz with your boxer
Mehnnnnnnnnnn

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by peacesampson(f): 10:08pm On Sep 20, 2020
U dnt knw what to do,hmmm ... Kontinue ���quote author=AnewDawn2020 post=94139964]Hello to all nairlanders in the house and hope your day has been fine and well fulfilled .
My identity will remain anonymous for certain reasons.
This may be long but please read through

I am a student At the beginning of the Pandemic I chose not to go home rather I stayed back to focus on making money before the pandemic is over so there won't be any hurdle of financial flow in my last year in school.
It all started with restrictions of movement across the country and other new development that we are aware of.
Well to the matter ----- I'm friend with this girl let's say her name is lady B
We are hostel mates , she had a similar plan like mine to stay back in the hostel and figure a way to make money instead of going home , By the way she is a graduate and was already making plans for NYSC.

As a result of the restrictions we become very close , she will come to my room spend many hours talk laugh etc it continued for many days till later Mumu me started catching feelings.

Well just so you all know I was taking care of her , I'm aware of the financial shakles In her family so she started eating at my place , though I dey manage but I'll always share with her (I'm used to assisting those that don't really have , especially when it has to do with Feeding )
Well I didn't tell her yet about the feelings , I just continued being the kinds of person that I am .
Well along the line she met one fine and rich boy online that stays far but in Nigeria sha
They started talking and having some good time , later I noticed I started getting jealous but I wasn't reacting anyways. Later I figured they started sharing nudes and having some sexchat and videosex thing , the guy was driving her crazy and it was so obvious I could see the look on her face and expression anytime she text or calls him

Well to cut the long story short I told her about my feelings blah blah blah


Yeah we started kissing , caressing , cuddles etc , I wasn't really satisfied I wanted sex

Yeah las las we later had sex
I thought I would subsequently be having sex but she stopped me and was like she doesn't want to have sex anymore not with me or anybody.

She even fasted and pray so I was like okay she's probably doing that cos we have both sinned. So I stopped and didn't pressure but we could still kiss

I thought she turned a new leaf not until I recently saw videos of she masturbating for That guy she met online , she kept on sending him nudes and was like I can't wait to finally see you and blah blah blah


She is someone I support alot , most times I go out of my way just so she can be happy. Support her financially and everything infact playing the role of a boyfriend


Right now I'm so pissed i feel like cutting the relationship and everything , I don't want her around me

But then

1. We live in same compound and see each other everyday
2. She's not financially bouyant , probably won't want her to starve
3. She has just me in the compound that she talks to


She's not my girlfriend I know infact I'm single
She's probably maybe going to have the online guy as a boyfriend I really don't know I don't like her telling me anything about him

I noticed the online guy she is taking has never helped her in any way , im always playing the hero . Mtchewww

I really don't know what to do.
Please any advice ?
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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Uzomacharles: 10:09pm On Sep 20, 2020
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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Premiumwriter: 10:11pm On Sep 20, 2020
All I see is help. Help. Help and more help.

You're been too nice. She was surviving before she met you and will survive after you are gone.

So, cancel those nice thoughts out of your mind. If you wan f*ck her, then give her space. Stay out longer and let her c less of you. No let am enter ya room again and stop to the feed ha.

She go mk u-turn.

But if you no wan f*ck ha then just continue to be the provider and you no go c ha pant.

One thing I have observed is that guys too the catch feelings early early.

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Deffjam: 10:12pm On Sep 20, 2020
See ozo younger brother.

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 10:19pm On Sep 20, 2020
AnewDawn2020:
Hello to all nairlanders in the house and hope your day has been fine and well fulfilled .
My identity will remain anonymous for certain reasons.
This may be long but please read through

I am a student At the beginning of the Pandemic I chose not to go home rather I stayed back to focus on making money before the pandemic is over so there won't be any hurdle of financial flow in my last year in school.
It all started with restrictions of movement across the country and other new development that we are aware of.
Well to the matter ----- I'm friend with this girl let's say her name is lady B
We are hostel mates , she had a similar plan like mine to stay back in the hostel and figure a way to make money instead of going home , By the way she is a graduate and was already making plans for NYSC.

As a result of the restrictions we become very close , she will come to my room spend many hours talk laugh etc it continued for many days till later Mumu me started catching feelings.

Well just so you all know I was taking care of her , I'm aware of the financial shakles In her family so she started eating at my place , though I dey manage but I'll always share with her (I'm used to assisting those that don't really have , especially when it has to do with Feeding )
Well I didn't tell her yet about the feelings , I just continued being the kinds of person that I am .
Well along the line she met one fine and rich boy online that stays far but in Nigeria sha
They started talking and having some good time , later I noticed I started getting jealous but I wasn't reacting anyways. Later I figured they started sharing nudes and having some sexchat and videosex thing , the guy was driving her crazy and it was so obvious I could see the look on her face and expression anytime she text or calls him

Well to cut the long story short I told her about my feelings blah blah blah


Yeah we started kissing , caressing , cuddles etc , I wasn't really satisfied I wanted sex

Yeah las las we later had sex
I thought I would subsequently be having sex but she stopped me and was like she doesn't want to have sex anymore not with me or anybody.

She even fasted and pray so I was like okay she's probably doing that cos we have both sinned. So I stopped and didn't pressure but we could still kiss

I thought she turned a new leaf not until I recently saw videos of she masturbating for That guy she met online , she kept on sending him nudes and was like I can't wait to finally see you and blah blah blah


She is someone I support alot , most times I go out of my way just so she can be happy. Support her financially and everything infact playing the role of a boyfriend


Right now I'm so pissed i feel like cutting the relationship and everything , I don't want her around me

But then

1. We live in same compound and see each other everyday
2. She's not financially bouyant , probably won't want her to starve
3. She has just me in the compound that she talks to


She's not my girlfriend I know infact I'm single
She's probably maybe going to have the online guy as a boyfriend I really don't know I don't like her telling me anything about him

I noticed the online guy she is taking has never helped her in any way , im always playing the hero . Mtchewww

I really don't know what to do.
Please any advice ?

talk with her, if you want her as a babe let her know bro.

the rich Guy may be selling her nude pics. can you bear the news or what a video of her masturbating on xnxx, porntube while the guy cashout millions on her stupidity and pay her tithe of change.

bro just video her and sell it make quick cash simple (100k - 700k)

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Sacrosanct12(m): 10:20pm On Sep 20, 2020
To some people this ur story would be too long, but wat importance am I to the populace if I can't summarise it to them. Oya raise ur hands if u want summary of the message above.
Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by DonEd(m): 10:45pm On Sep 20, 2020
Its not a crime to fall in love. It's just a crime to fall in love with someone who is in love with another.

I wont call u an idiot for catching feelings, rather I would advise u to take ur brain with u. If u realise that u cant win her completely to ur side, uncle bros,, let her go. Man up and dont be a simp.

My two cents though.

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by luscioustrish(f): 10:50pm On Sep 20, 2020
You're just in love with someone who is in love with someone else.
.
You provide her with food, physical contact etc while the other guy is her "dream" guy.
.
Let her be, she won't die if you don't feed her...and stop being available to be used.

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 11:09pm On Sep 20, 2020
Change your name to OZO

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 11:09pm On Sep 20, 2020
luscioustrish:
You're just in love with someone who is in love with someone else.
.
You provide her with food, physical contact etc while the other guy is her "dream" guy.
.
Let her be, she won't die if you don't feed her...and stop being available to be used.


God bless you x100

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Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Mystiquefia: 11:20pm On Sep 20, 2020
Fvcking Ozo

Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by DrCollins007: 11:40pm On Sep 20, 2020
You are a SIMPlified Idiot.
Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Sweetgirlmimi(f): 11:59pm On Sep 20, 2020
AnewDawn2020:
Hello to all nairlanders in the house and hope your day has been fine and well fulfilled .
My identity will remain anonymous for certain reasons.
This may be long but please read through

I am a student At the beginning of the Pandemic I chose not to go home rather I stayed back to focus on making money before the pandemic is over so there won't be any hurdle of financial flow in my last year in school.
It all started with restrictions of movement across the country and other new development that we are aware of.
Well to the matter ----- I'm friend with this girl let's say her name is lady B
We are hostel mates , she had a similar plan like mine to stay back in the hostel and figure a way to make money instead of going home , By the way she is a graduate and was already making plans for NYSC.

As a result of the restrictions we become very close , she will come to my room spend many hours talk laugh etc it continued for many days till later Mumu me started catching feelings.

Well just so you all know I was taking care of her , I'm aware of the financial shakles In her family so she started eating at my place , though I dey manage but I'll always share with her (I'm used to assisting those that don't really have , especially when it has to do with Feeding )
Well I didn't tell her yet about the feelings , I just continued being the kinds of person that I am .
Well along the line she met one fine and rich boy online that stays far but in Nigeria sha
They started talking and having some good time , later I noticed I started getting jealous but I wasn't reacting anyways. Later I figured they started sharing nudes and having some sexchat and videosex thing , the guy was driving her crazy and it was so obvious I could see the look on her face and expression anytime she text or calls him

Well to cut the long story short I told her about my feelings blah blah blah


Yeah we started kissing , caressing , cuddles etc , I wasn't really satisfied I wanted sex

Yeah las las we later had sex
I thought I would subsequently be having sex but she stopped me and was like she doesn't want to have sex anymore not with me or anybody.

She even fasted and pray so I was like okay she's probably doing that cos we have both sinned. So I stopped and didn't pressure but we could still kiss

I thought she turned a new leaf not until I recently saw videos of she masturbating for That guy she met online , she kept on sending him nudes and was like I can't wait to finally see you and blah blah blah


She is someone I support alot , most times I go out of my way just so she can be happy. Support her financially and everything infact playing the role of a boyfriend


Right now I'm so pissed i feel like cutting the relationship and everything , I don't want her around me

But then

1. We live in same compound and see each other everyday
2. She's not financially bouyant , probably won't want her to starve
3. She has just me in the compound that she talks to


She's not my girlfriend I know infact I'm single
She's probably maybe going to have the online guy as a boyfriend I really don't know I don't like her telling me anything about him

I noticed the online guy she is taking has never helped her in any way , im always playing the hero . Mtchewww

I really don't know what to do.
Please any advice ?
Monkey dey work baboon dey chop
Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Kvng6464: 12:48am On Sep 21, 2020
U such a fool u simp
Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by kingvomlotus12: 2:06am On Sep 21, 2020
DonEd:
Its not a crime to fall in love. It's just a crime to fall in love with someone who is in love with another.

I wont call u an idiot for catching feelings, rather I would advise u to take ur brain with u. If u realise that u cant win her completely to ur side, uncle bros,, let her go. Man up and dont be a simp.

My two cents though.

nice one man
you get premium sense
Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 2:39am On Sep 21, 2020
Gentlemen in the house, it seems like we have a SIMPle and an understanding good samaritan here, don't we?

Bro, the world needs men like you to make it a better place for our ladies.

Good job man, good job.

Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by linearity: 3:36am On Sep 21, 2020
You are an idiot!
Re: An Idiot Or A Hero ??? Please I Need Advice by Tintedsino: 8:20am On Sep 21, 2020
Guy na blood dey ur body, I won't blame u 4 falling in love with a girl dat is always in ur room, u ar only being human.
Butt give urself brain, get anoda babe outside, make sure say she dey always come around make d girl dey see her, give her space, like always form busy. Do this 4 like a week, walai, na she go look 4 u .
Dis works well.
My 2cents

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