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He's A Robot by virago(f): 4:46pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
I just don't know what to do about my boyfriend , the guy is cool and all that : makes a reasonable living . handsome . well built and responsible. The problem I have with him is that he lives like a robot , I mean what can you say about someone who arranges money from the smallest to the highest denomination , from the dirtiest to the cleanest and all facing the same side. He has a shelf of books arranged alphabetically with different autors on each row. His cd's are a no go area , keeping genres in different packs and artist alphabetically. he arranges everything in his flat before leaving every morning and nothing must be out of place when he comes back. The problem I have is he goes into a fit for the slightest mistake , the other day I left a tumbler on the dining table and when he came back he was ready to bust a vein , I mean who gets angry about such things. If the bed sheet has creases all hell will be let loose. If you watch a cd and you don't put it back in the right order be prepared for a tongue whooping. His younger ones can't live with him cos of this attitude and I heard he literally drove his ex mad with his meticulous persona. Truth to tell he doesn't use swear words and he'll never lay a finger on me but can I live with a robot. He's just too perfect he's a fault |
Re: He's A Robot by kokoye(m): 4:50pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
wow I used to feel i was the only one who had his privacy invaded by a woman . . but now I'm used to it and Ive given up This guy's case is serious though - are you sure he can live with someone else? Keeping doing your thing . . .hopefully he will relax and accept your 'changes; to his perfect world. If not, your call. funny though. |
Re: He's A Robot by MMM2(m): 4:59pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
chick every human being on earth has fault. Or Do u prefer a womanzier ? |
Re: He's A Robot by virago(f): 5:04pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
can this be called a fault @ kokoye Thanks , I'll try my best to hang on |
Re: He's A Robot by assme: 5:05pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
what about when he is fuc**ng, does he still remember to arrange all the styles in alphabetical order? |
Re: He's A Robot by saintneo(m): 5:07pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
tell 'im that the CIA is recruiting |
Re: He's A Robot by Nobody: 5:08pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Eww well basically all I can say is it is good to have a man who likes order and keeping things neat and together. However if he lacks emotion, affection and is stingy then he'd be better off in some military camp/base somewhere and not in the arms of a woman. I mean seriously! I think you should explain how you feel to your man and if he is truly into you, he will bend a little - or alot and try to make you feel comfortable. @MMM, Womanizer? you mean like a boy who refers to a woman as 'chick'? grow up. |
Re: He's A Robot by virago(f): 5:13pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
@ assme Actually he's gentle on bed and I love his love making @ mzdarkskin He has a funny side and can be very affectionate but he just can't stand disorderliness |
Re: He's A Robot by Onchedu(m): 5:15pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
That's not perfection. His behavior might be a clear sign he goes out of his way to hide something he's lacking. He might need to see a professional for help. Last last na by force say U go dey with him? U no count Urself lucky say him never marry U? 1 Like |
Re: He's A Robot by kokoye(m): 5:26pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Onchedu: Here we go. You may not be, but some people are that 'prim and proper' and they are not lacking anything. They are just used to being very organized in their ways and it'll take a strong woman to invade that lifestyle. |
Re: He's A Robot by Nobody: 5:28pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
virago: OH! well not to be funny but are you a messy gal? |
Re: He's A Robot by virago(f): 5:30pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
@ onchedu I don't think he needs that kind of help but he needs to go easy |
Re: He's A Robot by virago(f): 5:34pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
I'm not messy , I'm just a regular girl. Yeah I can leave my shoes in the living room at times or forget to put a cd in it's case but I don't see that as being messy |
Re: He's A Robot by Nobody: 5:37pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
virago: I understand lol I am the same way. Honestly i think there should be some compromising on both sides. There is nothing about this that you two can't get passed. |
Re: He's A Robot by Nobody: 5:53pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
virago: He's suffering for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder! 5 Likes |
Re: He's A Robot by MrCork17: 5:55pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Mr Cork <<<<<<17inches robotnick c0rk |
Re: He's A Robot by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Perfection they say is "boring" deal with it! |
Re: He's A Robot by virago(f): 6:10pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
@ ujujoan Does he need medical attention for this or just the therapy. Where will he get the help from. I have had a couple of relationships and altho he's not been the most romantic , he certainly has been the most stable. He doesn't nag or use swear words , he hasn't cheated on me [ all my exes are guilty of this ] and I don't see him doing so. He's mildly romantic , doesn't forget dates. Whern he sets goals he meets them , quite a lot of qualities most men lack in this day and time. But can I overlook his one undoing , what is the possibility of getting someone as stable as him |
Re: He's A Robot by kokoye(m): 6:12pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
virago: All because he is (overly) organized!! |
Re: He's A Robot by Nobody: 6:20pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
virago: It's a psychological condition. He needs a psychologist. Eventually he's going to drive himself crazy if care is not taken. OCDs often degenerate to schizophrenia which is synonymous with pure madness. |
Re: He's A Robot by MrCork17: 6:22pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Ujujoan: Ujujoan (f) <<<<<<<My 4th wife and big grammmmmar! |
Re: He's A Robot by virago(f): 6:25pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
You mean he'll go loco |
Re: He's A Robot by Nobody: 6:31pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Mr, Cork: What did I tell you about mentioning my name eh virago: Yep! |
Re: He's A Robot by MrCork17: 6:40pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Ujujoan: Ujujoan. sweeery, am sooooo ready to love you like Sugarcane! |
Re: He's A Robot by Atreides(f): 6:42pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Ujujoan:GBAM!!! OCD it is! @OP,does he have any peculiar habits? Like he turns the door knob three times before opening the door? Or he has routines he can't/won't disrupt? Does he wash his hands repetitively? There's meticulous,and there's OCD. Methinks it's OCD. |
Re: He's A Robot by obowunmi(m): 6:43pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
@ OP, he might have obsessive compulsive disorder. Manage him and learn to accept people for who they are. Enjoy life and enjoy your relationships --- keep in mind that there are many women out there who do not even have anyone. I repeat --- ANYONE. |
Re: He's A Robot by obowunmi(m): 6:44pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Ujujoan: You read my mind missy --- I didn't even read your post before posting my comment. You're right. The issue is that if this is not treated in time, it might end up a bigger issue--- otherwise, you need to exude lots of patience. |
Re: He's A Robot by foyeks2001(f): 6:48pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
I wont support neither wld I discourage u in dis kind of relationship but to me, doesnt worth it, it reminds of dis rumour I heard about a couple that got divorced just because of d way a toothpaste should be applied(it cld be true though) 1 Like |
Re: He's A Robot by obowunmi(m): 7:05pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
foyeks2001: |
Re: He's A Robot by Seun(m): 10:11pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
Yeah, it's tending towards OCD. If you love him you'll help him get a proper diagnosis and maybe seek help, because OCD isolates the sufferers from people who can's stand the behaviour. 1 Like |
Re: He's A Robot by Nobody: 10:13pm On Mar 01, 2011 |
yes, it sounds like a problem. |
Re: He's A Robot by Pweety4me(f): 3:16am On Mar 02, 2011 |
Seun:Hmm i'm with this sha. |
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