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Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Pweety4me(f): 9:05am On Mar 03, 2011
It is a common thing for women to always test the men they are dating. Guys watch out and know how to respond in the time of women temptations.
These are the reasons why the test us:
Why the testing?

1. They test us to see how strong emotionally we are.

2. They test us to see how smart we are.

3. They test us because they crave drama in their lives.

4. Some test because they enjoy making us uncomfortable.

5. They test us because they can.

Watch out for and resist the test.

Ladies/women Y do u test men? cheesy (if u ever have)
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Tosinville(m): 9:13am On Mar 03, 2011
Amaka y?
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by 190: 10:03am On Mar 03, 2011
why women test men Unko
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by LordReed(m): 10:06am On Mar 03, 2011
@No 3 & 4
So its true! All those accusations were just for show?!

Phew! Girl you've taken a load off!
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Pweety4me(f): 10:27am On Mar 03, 2011
^lool i'm not sure if it always applies cheesy wink tongue
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by LordReed(m): 10:44am On Mar 03, 2011
Well I think I can spot the difference now that you've given me solid reference points.
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by MsPotato(f): 11:05am On Mar 03, 2011
Lord_Reed:

Well I think I can spot the difference now that you've given me solid reference points.

Meetme here https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-615769.0.html grin
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by MsPotato(f): 11:06am On Mar 03, 2011
At Topic, Usually I would test a gu to see if he suits my criteria to be a husband cause I dont like wasting time and beating around the bush.
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Goldieluks: 11:10am On Mar 03, 2011
i test him,to be sure if he really loves me.
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by 190: 11:18am On Mar 03, 2011
I test goldie and she Failed!! angry angry
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Goldieluks: 11:21am On Mar 03, 2011
190:

I test goldie and she Failed!! angry angry





190 my baby boy,are you up? cheesy
hope say you no piss for bed,this time? angry

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Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Tosinville(m): 11:24am On Mar 03, 2011
190 is atosile.
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Omolola1(f): 11:25am On Mar 03, 2011
women test men because dem too like wahala
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by 190: 11:28am On Mar 03, 2011
Goldieluks:





190 my baby boy,are you up? cheesy
hope say you no piss for bed,this time? angry


shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Nobody: 1:21pm On Mar 03, 2011
Women (and men) test their partner because of their insecurity/doubts in that relationship.

A secure person in a secure relationship wouldn't have the need to test their partner.
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:27pm On Mar 03, 2011
Pweety4me:

It is a common thing for women to always test the men they are dating. Guys watch out and know how to respond in the time of women temptations.
These are the reasons why the test us:
Why the testing?

1. They test us to see how strong emotionally we are.

2. They test us to see how smart we are.

3. They test us because they crave drama in their lives.

4. Some test because they enjoy making us uncomfortable.

5. They test us because they can.

Watch out for and resist the test.

Ladies/women Y do u test men? cheesy (if u ever have)


what happens when you test and you dont get the results you where looking for ?

think this way how many where tested at at final year at high school and didnt make it but but they made it in real life
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by kaycrystal(m): 2:05pm On Mar 03, 2011
women do all those tests basically cos they lack adventure and they are simply bored. but really, wots the criteria for d grading??
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by assme: 2:18pm On Mar 03, 2011
It is a common thing for women to always test the men they are dating. Guys watch out and know how to respond in the time of women temptations.
These are the reasons why the test us:
Why the testing?

1. They test us to see how strong emotionally we are.

2. They test us to see how smart we are.

3. They test us because they crave drama in their lives.

4. Some test because they enjoy making us uncomfortable.

5. They test us because they can.

Watch out for and resist the test.

Ladies/women Y do u test men? Cheesy (if u ever have)


Don't worry guyz, they will stop testing by the time they r 35 wit no more suitors. By that tym, they will be seeing the result of the test  grin

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Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Tingles(m): 3:49pm On Mar 03, 2011
They test us when have found a richer guy, when they need excuses. . . God knows I've passed so many exams (oral & written) they still go ahead with their decision irrespective of the guy's scores.
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Tingles(m): 3:51pm On Mar 03, 2011
They test us when have found a richer guy, when they need excuses. . . God knows I've passed so many exams (oral & written) they still go ahead with their decision irrespective of the guy's scores.
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Mcleo007(m): 4:48pm On Mar 03, 2011
Once had a gurl who had her friend test me. I knew the whole tin was a setup from the outset when I began to notice the unsualness of her friends 'friendliness' with me. I greatfully played along. Thanks to my instincts. When the deed was done, she came up saying trash; I finished her off. Its silly how some ladies think at times. There are better ways to test ur man's love and commitmnt,not by ridiculing ursef through such a dwarfing scheme.
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Fweezy(m): 10:40am On Mar 10, 2013
Had d same stupid experience some time ago too.
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by 190theclown: 10:46am On Mar 10, 2013
^Kids undecided
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by 190theclown: 10:50am On Mar 10, 2013
[size=3pt]i hope women test me with their punny and expect me to fail grin grin grin[/size]
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Nobody: 11:26am On Mar 10, 2013
190: I test goldie and she Failed!! angry angry

What is the name of your english teacher
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by 190: 11:30am On Mar 10, 2013
alutacontinua:

What is the name of your english teacher

Aluu-continua undecided
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Nobody: 11:37am On Mar 10, 2013
190:

Aluu-continua undecided

apparently, he/she has a great job to do. grin grin grin
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by 190theclown: 8:29pm On Mar 10, 2013
alutacontinua:

apparently, he/she has a great job to do. grin grin grin

and she just laffed at herself
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by GodHands(m): 2:35pm On Mar 11, 2013
@Poster First off get one thing straight - the tests WON'T STOP. You'd think by the time she's decided you're good enough to take home to mama no more drama just to see if you have thick skin. Believe it, you need to keep the thick skin. She will test you over and over and over again. It's a female thing. After marriage though, the tests are for a different reason which might surprise you but will amuse those already married:
- Just to have something to fight over - women do this almost unconsciously, more out of love than anything else.
- To see if you're still mature - this one never stops, they get a kick out of it when you keep your cool.
- Just for the sake of doing it - its part of pampering now, who else can they act up around, their parents, friends, no, YOU!

Long and short, once you decide to be serious, there's no going back to your care-free days. For life. That's if you wanna have a sane, safe home that is wink

So get your shait together mehn!
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by 190theclown: 2:46pm On Mar 11, 2013
wheres alutacontinua

I'll like to taste her wink wink
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by Nobody: 3:58pm On Mar 11, 2013
MRbrownJAY: Women (and men) test their partner because of their insecurity/doubts in that relationship.

A secure person in a secure relationship wouldn't have the need to test their partner.
so how do u know how loyal a person is to u if u don't test him/ her? undecided
Re: Why Women Test Men They Are Dating! by boxer022(m): 11:34pm On Mar 11, 2013
Most girls test their boyfriends to know if they can withstand some certain things from other girls like seduction

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