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Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 12:25pm On Oct 12
Asking on time is better than dying silently because of shame!!! I don't know if you have ever read my previous post here https://www.nairaland.com/6110238/heartbreak-she-left-what...

Good day to you NL family and friends. How is the family doing and how to work over there!! NL family and friends please I had to gather my few family members and friends to my wife's family to beg my wife to come back at least for the sake of my kids. So I and her discussed and ended up in opening a shop. She said we should start up something while we pray for God's blessings upon whatever business we do. Instead of this struggling up and down and people are using me for a slave at the end of the day I come home with nothing that can't even feed the kids. So we ended up in going for a family restaurant business cos she is a caterer and knows how to cook well. Please I need a help of 100,000 Naira (Loan) if possible for the sake of my little kids so that I can get a shop and start of the family restaurant business I want to do with my wife, please... My little kids are really hungry. Someone confirmed my situation and decided to give my kids a scholarship to start school because I have given up already. So now I want to start doing something with my wife so that my kids can feed on. And we have a very good business plan but capital is bringing us down so badly. Please save me on this and I will keep whoever that will listen to my cry updated on a daily basis on how everything is going, please. Please do this for us for the sake of my 2 little kids. I am tired of asking and commenting for help every day to feed my kids. I want to start the business I know how to do best. I want to be a giver to others who are in needy too. Please help me. I want to be a good Dad with my kids. Imagine my kids and wife's birthday is this month. My daughter will be 4yrs on the 13th tomorrow of this Oct. My son will be 2yrs old on the 23rd of this Oct while my wife will be +1 on the 15th of this same month October Please here is my whatsapp number 08070751915 and if you want to call me here is my calling number 08169934065 please


Below is the photo of the shop we saw is big enough my good NL family and friends, the landlord said once I make the payment that they will complete it up immediately. He just want to collect normal rent and commission alone because I explain everything about my situation to him. And I know this place will be a good opportunity for us and the kind of business we want to start up. Please save life from here because depression, thinking and sleepless night is really killing me.


No single penny to start up anything and I am strongly believing it that the Almighty will touch the heart of so many here to listen to my cry if not for anything for the sake of my little kids please.

Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by Holumhidey(m): 1:19pm On Oct 12
make i nor talk wetin dey my mind

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Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by Acidosis(m): 1:34pm On Oct 12
Sure you're ready for business?

You mean the landlord of that abandoned building needs your N100,000 (or less) to complete it so you can start your restaurant business?

Please don't jump out of the frying pan into the fire. You have no business getting an uncompleted shop if N100k is all you have. You'll do better in an open space.


I want to start the business I know how to do best

No, this is not the business you know how to do best since your wife is the caterer here.

When you get the loan, I'll advise you leave your wife to manage the business while you go out there and search for other jobs. You can't take this kind of risk and leave all your eggs in one basket. You get?


All the best

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Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 1:40pm On Oct 12
Yes the shop is directly from the landlord and not the both shops we are taken the last one behind the green house. It has a small store they are yet to open. You are right once we start the resturant and things balance enough for her to handle alone the I am going into an interstate driving job I also posted that I am looking for an interstate driving job here too in one of my previous posts. Yes she is a caterer but starting catering business that one cost a lot but she is a very good cook.
Acidosis:
Sure you're ready for business?

You mean the landlord of that abandoned building needs your N100,000 (or less) to complete it so you can start your restaurant business?

Please don't jump out of the frying pan into the fire. You have no business getting an uncompleted shop if N100k is all you have. You'll do better in an open space.




No, this is not the business you know how to do best since your wife is the caterer here.

When you get the loan, I'll advise you leave your wife to manage the business while you go out there and search for other jobs. You can't take this kind of risk and leave all your eggs in one basket. You get?


All the best
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by Foodqueen(f): 1:41pm On Oct 12
Where is the pix of the shop

Which Kain wahala be this

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Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 1:48pm On Oct 12
I uploaded it here ma. Is yet to be completed that is why the landlord reduced the amount for me. So that once I pay he will finish up the building within 2 weeks. Already completed shops will cost a lot plus agent and commission stuff here in Ayobo area of Lagos. Please whatever you can assist us with for the sake of my kids please. E no easy for me
Foodqueen:
Where is the pix of the shop

Which Kain wahala be this

Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by Mindlog: 1:58pm On Oct 12
You are better off looking for a busy open space to fry akara/yam/potatoes/plantain than looking for who would loan you the N100k to pay the owner of an uncompleted building.

You don't NEED a shop right now!

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Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 2:06pm On Oct 12
To even start up anything at all I have nothing with me not at all. Even feeding like this like this is only #100 pap the kids took I just came to help one make to pack some chairs even if na 500 he give me. I am just resting while checking if there will be any good news from here.
Mindlog:
You are better off looking for a busy open space to fry akara/yam/potatoes/plantain than looking for who would loan you the N100k to pay the owner of an uncompleted building.

You don't NEED a shop right now!
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by Aaaaarghmed(m): 8:00pm On Oct 12
MondayUche:
To even start up anything at all I have nothing with me not at all. Even feeding like this like this is only #100 pap the kids took I just came to help one make to pack some chairs even if na 500 he give me. I am just resting while checking if there will be any good news from here.
My mind no carry that building wey you post.Think again.
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by Oizee(f): 8:26pm On Oct 12
Honestly, that building have been abandoned for who knows how long and u think only ur money can fix it now? Please as u are hoping for kind hearted People to come to your aid, please think of somewhere else u can use.
Why don't you even look for an open place to start with, if ur woman is really a good cook, be rest assured her customer will still locate her wherever she finally settled, as long as it's in d same location.
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by CanadianNaija: 10:21pm On Oct 12
Mindlog:
You are better off looking for a busy open space to fry akara/yam/potatoes/plantain than looking for who would loan you the N100k to pay the owner of an uncompleted building.

You don't NEED a shop right now!

He won’t hear. We told him in the other thread he created, where he came with loan me money format.

Yet he created thread for birthday wish list for his family...The guy is just not serious or this is one of Nairaland’s scammers.

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Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 12:29am On Oct 13
Sir/Ma if you are on twitter throughout last week you should have seen when #BirthdayWishlist was trending and people were creating theirs even people that their birthday is by December self. Cos some good heart people are sending them support but is just that the only lucky ones are women. Like I said I came up with a loan assistance because we don't have any single naira at home even to do anything even an open space you all knows that the owner must ask you to pay. Cooking stuffs and all that. Is just that God has refused to bless me with an understanding good heart person. I have been explaining over and over. Calling me names is just adding up to my depressions please is better you ignore my post than negative comments. I know what I am going through please. If person end am silently na still people like una go say how come he didn't speak out to seek for help.
CanadianNaija:


He won’t hear. We told him in the other thread he created, where he came with loan me money format.

Yet he created thread for birthday wish list for his family...The guy is just not serious or this is one of Nairaland’s scammers.
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 12:33am On Oct 13
No it will but looking for an open space they are many here you still pay for space 1500 per month which is 18k per year then you think of calling carpenter or using a container which will still cost a lot. We all know that here in the WEST you must pay for everything. And we don't have any single penny here. God is just forsaken me I don't know why
Oizee:
Honestly, that building have been abandoned for who knows how long and u think only ur money can fix it now? Please as u are hoping for kind hearted People to come to your aid, please think of somewhere else u can use.
Why don't you even look for an open place to start with, if ur woman is really a good cook, be rest assured her customer will still locate her wherever she finally settled, as long as it's in d same location.
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 12:36am On Oct 13
The landlord also owns where I stay and even if we want to use an open place we will still have to pay for a space, then start carpenter or container b before you know it we are spending same amount as the shop and this shop is bigger and more secured. Is just that God has refused to send me a helper if not.
Aaaaarghmed:
My mind no carry that building wey you post.Think again.
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by roseb1(f): 3:06am On Oct 13
Oizee:
Honestly, that building have been abandoned for who knows how long and u think only ur money can fix it now? Please as u are hoping for kind hearted People to come to your aid, please think of somewhere else u can use.
Why don't you even look for an open place to start with, if ur woman is really a good cook, be rest assured her customer will still locate her wherever she finally settled, as long as it's in d same location.
His woman could start by pushing a truck with coolers of food and Hawking it from place to place. What's wrong with ur wife starting from small and then growing her business to the point of owning a shop? Abi u think say Nairaland na charity organization where u can easily pluck money from. If u must know so many guys here are struggling just like u and it's not easy for them as well.
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by Mindlog: 5:23am On Oct 13
MondayUche:
Sir/Ma if you are on twitter throughout last week you should have seen when #BirthdayWishlist was trending and people were creating theirs even people that their birthday is by December self. Cos some good heart people are sending them support but is just that the only lucky ones are women. Like I said I came up with a loan assistance because we don't have any single naira at home even to do anything even an open space you all knows that the owner must ask you to pay. Cooking stuffs and all that. Is just that God has refused to bless me with an understanding good heart person. I have been explaining over and over. Calling me names is just adding up to my depressions please is better you ignore my post than negative comments. I know what I am going through please. If person end am silently na still people like una go say how come he didn't speak out to seek for help.


Time and data being used here can be directed to explaining over and over to relatives of both sides of your family (your father and mother's side) your in-laws, village/town meeting members and church members to help you raise funds to buy cooking stuffs and even get a wheel barrow your wife can start with, at least it eliminates any rent to run the business.

Don't guilt- trip people with talks of suicide, if your own known circle can't rise up for you why expect much from strangers who you don't know their own life's issues?
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by FortifiedCity: 6:10am On Oct 13
I honestly think you are scam.

You snap a random uncompleted building and you think 100k will make the landlord finish it in 2 weeks?

That building looks like it's being like that for nothing less than 7 years.

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Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by roseb1(f): 8:08am On Oct 13
From going through your initial post/thread, I noticed that you have a history with begging. In one of your thread you mentioned putting your land on collateral in order to procure a Sienna on higher purchase. Why not sell the said land and use the money to sort out your issue
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 8:28am On Oct 13
People will only look for negativities, im sure among all the crying out post and seeking for an assistant you did not see where anyone rendered any help apart from a brother who sent us 1,100 naira right? If you have people in Atun in Ifo you can ask them what is the current situation with land dispute over there since 7 months now... I won't just. Come to NL to seek for an assistant if I have not tried all the means that I have. We were kicked out of house in April because my formal landlord is a yoruba man and an officer CSP and someone from no where that I don't even know till today rented an apartment for us here in Igesu Ayobo, sent me the address and where to meet the agent to collect the keys of the house. That is how we got here. I never met or seen this person before. I know what I am facing even as im currently sick im still struggling. People's kids are going to lesson my kids are at home. I'm sure you also saw where I was doing middle man to help car dealers post. I even sold 2 cars for different guys till today only 1 sent me 2k out of 3m+ car that I brought customer for him. Will I pay even with evil? No im seeing him posting cars for sell but I will never talk evil under his post cos I know the reward comes from the Lord. The more I get negative comments from people the more they are adding more and more loads to my depression. Some thinks they are making fun of me but they don't know the damages going on here. Yes is none of you all business but I only came to seek for an assistant as a friend. Is always hard to believe the real people but so easily to fall to fake and cooked up stories especially when they use woman profile. Someone once said baba no body go listen to you cos you be man. If na woman now they will show off who care pass. But I still believe in God that miracle can still happen is just that the good heart and helper are yet to see my post.
roseb1:
From going through your initial post/thread, I noticed that you have a history with begging. In one of your thread you mentioned putting your land on collateral in order to procure a Sienna on higher purchase. Why not sell the said land and use the money to sort out your issue
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 8:31am On Oct 13
Not random is here in my place and as you can see they have already putting woods on it cos someone deposited for the first shop. So the landlord said if I can also pay for the remaining one which have small store at the end that they will complete everything at once. Na money just hold the work is just a work of 4/6 days this is not duplex or Castle is just a shop Carpenter will finish his job in a day then bricklayers work there won't take more than 3/4 days so nothing much there.
FortifiedCity:
I honestly think you are scam.

You snap a random uncompleted building and you think 100k will make the landlord finish it in 2 weeks?

That building looks like it's being like that for nothing less than 7 years.
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 8:32am On Oct 13
Na person whey wear shoe know where e dey pain am.
Mindlog:



Time and data being used here can be directed to explaining over and over to relatives of both sides of your family (your father and mother's side) your in-laws, village/town meeting members and church members to help you raise funds to buy cooking stuffs and even get a wheel barrow your wife can start with, at least it eliminates any rent to run the business.

Don't guilt- trip people with talks of suicide, if your own known circle can't rise up for you why expect much from strangers who you don't know their own life's issues?

Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by Mindlog: 8:33am On Oct 13
MondayUche:
Na person whey wear shoe know where e dey pain am.

Everyone is wearing their own shoes!
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 8:35am On Oct 13
Same explanation.. No money to start anything not even 500 naira is in my house. I know where e hook me reach before I came to seek for help here that nobody wants to understand.
roseb1:
His woman could start by pushing a truck with coolers of food and Hawking it from place to place. What's wrong with ur wife starting from small and then growing her business to the point of owning a shop? Abi u think say Nairaland na charity organization where u can easily pluck money from. If u must know so many guys here are struggling just like u and it's not easy for them as well.
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by roseb1(f): 8:43am On Oct 13
MondayUche:
People will only look for negativities, im sure among all the crying out post and seeking for an assistant you did not see where anyone rendered any help apart from a brother who sent us 1,100 naira right? If you have people in Atun in Ifo you can ask them what is the current situation with land dispute over there since 7 months now... I won't just. Come to NL to seek for an assistant if I have not tried all the means that I have. We were kicked out of house in April because my formal landlord is a yoruba man and an officer CSP and someone from no where that I don't even know till today rented an apartment for us here in Igesu Ayobo, sent me the address and where to meet the agent to collect the keys of the house. That is how we got here. I never met or seen this person before. I know what I am facing even as im currently sick im still struggling. People's kids are going to lesson my kids are at home. I'm sure you also saw where I was doing middle man to help car dealers post. I even sold 2 cars for different guys till today only 1 sent me 2k out of 3m+ car that I brought customer for him. Will I pay even with evil? No im seeing him posting cars for sell but I will never talk evil under his post cos I know the reward comes from the Lord. The more I get negative comments from people the more they are adding more and more loads to my depression. Some thinks they are making fun of me but they don't know the damages going on here. Yes is none of you all business but I only came to seek for an assistant as a friend. Is always hard to believe the real people but so easily to fall to fake and cooked up stories especially when they use woman profile. Someone once said baba no body go listen to you cos you be man. If na woman now they will show off who care pass. But I still believe in God that miracle can still happen is just that the good heart and helper are yet to see my post.
Ok then, I pray you find a good heart to see your post since all the ones (including me) that have been seeing them have bad heart.
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 8:57am On Oct 13
[b]I noticed that you have a history with begging[b] that added a big injury to my bleeding heart. But anyway sha my last limit hope is in the Lord. My heart is very heavy seeing my kids hungry, cry and keep on drying up everyday. Table turned on me due to the people I trust I have been getting sick over and over cos I have vn doing things I wasn't used to but all for the sake of the kids. Let the will of the Lord be done. quote author=roseb1 post=94889634]Ok then, I pray you find a good heart to see your post since all the ones (including me) that have been seeing them have bad heart.[/quote]
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by DenreleDave(m): 9:32am On Oct 14
roseb1:
Ok then, I pray you find a good heart to see your post since all the ones (including me) that have been seeing them have bad heart.

Hmm

Sis roseb...
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 1:47pm On Oct 14
Thank you so very much for assisting us by putting some food to my kids table today. May God keep on blessing you and your family boss. We really appreciate thank you so much.
DenreleDave:


Hmm

Sis rose...
Re: Asking From People Is Better Than Dying Silently In Shame by MondayUche(m): 1:48pm On Oct 14
Thank you so very much for assisting us by putting some food on my kids table today. May God keep on blessing you and your family boss. We really appreciate thank you so much.
DenreleDave:


Hmm

Sis rose...

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