sisisioge:
Calm down, if they stepped beyond their boundary then chase them backward or move backward to give them space. Life is honestly easy, the way we handle challenges define how life feels to us.

How can they be the offensive but your response is to kill yourself! Think clearly biko.

3 weeks ago I was on my own and this guy came and borrowed 3k from me that he wanted to use it to fix his bike. that he was going to pay back within 3days. He is an okada guy.
out of pity I gave him the 3k only for me to keep asking him for the 3k and he kept running form me for upto 1 week. then after that he even stopped running, and he tells me angrily that he doesn't have money. meanwhile okada people can even make more than 4k in a day.

so last week I went and met him for the 3k and he and his crew ended up trying to abuse me. it went on and on. some of those ones later came to apologise.
so yesterday evening I sw him and asked about my money and he stated a fight, he and two other okada friend of his. alot happened.

I am at his place again this morning only to discover that his bike has been sized due to unpaid loan and he has even ran away from town.

Thanks you didn't take any nasty action.... the said okada guy is a gambler, from your narratives... how can someone who rides bike be owing people here and there if he is not wasting his money on something... so bad...

11thGoldTREE:

3 weeks ago I was on my own and this guy came and borrowed 3k from me that he wanted to use it to fix his bike. that he was going to pay back within 3days. He is an okada guy.
out of pity I gave him the 3k only for me to keep asking him for the 3k and he kept running form me for upto 1 week. then after that he even stopped running, and he tells me angrily that he doesn't have money. meanwhile okada people can even make more than 4k in a day.

so last week I went and met him for the 3k and he and his crew ended up trying to abuse me. it went on and on. some of those ones later came to apologise.
so yesterday evening I sw him and asked about my money and he stated a fight, he and two other okada friend of his. alot happened.

I am at his place again this morning only to discover that his bike has been sized due to unpaid loan and he has even ran away from town.

So this tale is why you wanted to kill yourself about?

Kestolove:
Rest in peace in advance

He said murder not suicide.

sucide or murder

11thGoldTREE:

3 weeks ago I was on my own and this guy came and borrowed 3k from me that he wanted to use it to fix his bike. that he was going to pay back within 3days. He is an okada guy.
out of pity I gave him the 3k only for me to keep asking him for the 3k and he kept running form me for upto 1 week. then after that he even stopped running, and he tells me angrily that he doesn't have money. meanwhile okada people can even make more than 4k in a day.

so last week I went and met him for the 3k and he and his crew ended up trying to abuse me. it went on and on. some of those ones later came to apologise.
so yesterday evening I sw him and asked about my money and he stated a fight, he and two other okada friend of his. alot happened.

I am at his place again this morning only to discover that his bike has been sized due to unpaid loan and he has even ran away from town.

Wow! Such huge thing to kill oneself or someone for! What would have happened if you had lost the 3k, robbed or paid medical bills with it? It is well...I can see you already thinking. Cheers.

Chai

sisisioge:


Wow! Such huge thing to kill oneself or someone for! What would have happened if you had lost the 3k, robbed or paid medical bills with it? It is well...I can see you already thinking. Cheers.

on the contrary, it isn't about losing the money, getting robbed or paying for medical bills the issue is about being cheated or taken for granted by people u are trying to help.

the OP felt cheated and disrespected. I am not sure about the level of disrespect and or trickery tho.

FaAbokiWithSuit:
on the contrary, it isn't about losing the money, getting robbed or paying for medical bills the issue is about being cheated or taken for granted by people u are trying to help.

the OP felt cheated and disrespected. I am not sure about the level of disrespect and or trickery tho.

I get you, all you outlined are unexpected outcomes too. Losing money, being robbed or paying medical bills(except for birthing babies) are expenses no one looks forward to. Guy should just count his loss and move on. Why should he risk more damage to his physical self or emotions because of renewable resources? Yes, his 3k might seem like 3m right now but its still a renewable resource. If he's asked to negotiate between letting go of 3k or his pinky finger in a free for all fight, which do you think he would choose? But if he continues to wage war against his debtor at this rate, he might end up losing vital things, the 3k and his peace.

Whew...I find it weird that this isn't a natural thought for all.

muller101:
He said murder not suicide.

r.i.p to d person he wants to murder