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Pornography; My experience with it by Maclink288: 1:08pm On Oct 19, 2020
Goodday all
I hope someone learn from this, this happened early this year.

Before now I was a pornography addict, I have been watching porn since I was 13(that is 9years ago), although I have never masturbated in my life and I have not also had sex but I'd pride myself as someone who has had sex so many times.
So on a faithful day, I decided to try it out(sex), lo and behold Uncle D refused to get up, the girl rained insults all over me, I was confused and anxious to stupor, my heart was pounding as though I killed someone and I couldn't sleep for days, I'd always had chills in my belly, I kept on wondering what the problem was, I tried watching porn again and uncle D was still faccid. The thing really dealt with me as I couldn't just get the thought out of my mind, anytime I see a girl I'd just remember it, there were days I took sleeping pills so I could at least have some sleep. Although some one told me with time my brain would reset to normal.

Then I have to involve God in the matter (p.s. I almost became an atheist prior to that incident). I cried and prayed that God restores my peace and help me manage that thought. Although I'm relieved now, God answered my prayers, I was just ashamed of myself for considering atheism.
My God is alive and he answers prayers

*Please anyone involved in pornography please stop it else you'd learn the hard way*

I know because of the on going protest some peeps may see this as something irrelevant but I just wish this would hit front page so others would learn. Thanks

Shun Pornography!

Lalasticlala

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 1:13pm On Oct 19, 2020
Excessive consumption of porn can make a man numb and kill his sex drive.

If any guy is in this state, join a community like NoFap and try to go long without masturbating or watching porn.

If possible, try to dial down thoughts of sex - this will help you reboot and kick start your drive again.

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 1:14pm On Oct 19, 2020
Thanks for sharing this OP, a more catchy title may help with views.
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Maclink288: 1:25pm On Oct 19, 2020
You're welcome

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 1:32pm On Oct 19, 2020
22years of age, for now u no need ur d1ck...
just spread the message..
#EndSars #EndPoliceBrutality

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 1:43pm On Oct 19, 2020
Lala FP way
#shunpornograhy# grin
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by McCoy662(m): 1:51pm On Oct 19, 2020
Op u are dumb. Flaccid D happens to any fresher in the field, no body answered your prayers. It was all your state of mind.
Let me educate you and all that may want to go astray because of this post.
Sex is like public speaking, yes u heard me. Often times people after preparing to give a speech end up disgracing themselves in public. Why? Anxiety!! You can never have a great sexual life when u are anxious. You must relax and feel the way u fell when u are alone with the lady. Don't be shy, don't worry about how good you will perform, just do it the way u can and get up. The more relaxed u are, the more u can control your loins and last longer in bed.
It's my observation. The first time I had sex was embarrassing. I barely entered when I came out grin . The lady was like " what's that na?". But I didn't give up. I tried to defend myself, told her I can't kill myself. Luckily for me, we entered another round. Then I was a bit more relaxed and I performed really well; she attested to that grin
Now years later I never had sex, so, after some time I met one girl like that, we get going till it was time to nack. I thought I was good to go, but the worst happened. Immediately I put on my CD, dragging my D to the point, I shoot. The girl layed stark naked waiting for me to do, but I was already sweating profusely, she sensed foul play and asked if it's not what she's thinking. I told her it was and got up. Thank my goodness the girl was very understanding, we laughed it off. When she left, I felt I wasn't even up to half a man grin I blamed everything around me for my woes: my D, my bed, my house... Everything grin
I decided to try it with another girl. I don't want to try the second time on same girl, she would never forgive me if I didn't perform. I got another girl, tried, though I lasted barely 2 minutes, I was happy I even entered before pouring. The girl again was angry but I told her that's how I see it and I can't kill myself. She understood and left. The next day she visited, I told her I want to do my 2 minutes before I have my bathe, she agreed. Then I was super relaxed. I wasn't worried or anxious about anything. The worst would be shooting before entering, which to me is nothing cos I've experienced it before. When I started, I didn't feel the jittery me... I was superb. I kept thrusting for like 10 minutes non stop but I cameth not grin
Babe provoke... She said I took drugs but I didn't. I turned my mind to what I'm doing so I can cum because babe was almost crying and telling me to stop. Finally, after about 20 minutes I shot. I didn't believe it.
Weeks later I called the first girl, I hit her too till she asked me to stop. I've mastered the act now. I can go any length I want to go.
Anxiety kills sexual urge and strength, not porn or Satan. Feel relaxed and enjoy ur nacking. grin grin

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 1:54pm On Oct 19, 2020
I just read the conclusion and know you don't have a clue of what you are saying.

Porn kills sexual urge. I used to be an addict

McCoy662:
Op u are dumb. Flaccid D happens to any fresher in the field, no body answered your prayers. It was all your state of mind.
Let me educate you and all that may want to go astray because of this post.
Sex is like public speaking, yes u heard me. Often times people after preparing to give a speech end up disgracing themselves in public. Why? Anxiety!! You can never have a great sexual life when u are anxious. You must relax and feel the way u fell when u are alone with the lady. Don't be shy, don't worry about how good you will perform, just do it the way u can and get up. The more relaxed u are, the more u can control your loins and last longer in bed.
It's my observation. The first time I had sex was embarrassing. I barely entered when I came out grin . The lady was like " what's that na?". But I didn't give up. I tried to defend myself, told her I can't kill myself. Luckily for me, we entered another round. Then I was a bit more relaxed and I performed really well; she attested to that grin
Now years later I never had sex, so, after some time I met one girl like that, we get going till it was time to back. I thought I was good to go, but the worst happened. Immediately I put on my CD, dragging my D to the point, I shoot. The girl layed stark naked waiting for me to do, but I was already sweating profusely, she sensed foul play and asked if it's not what she's thinking. I told her it was and got up. Thank my goodness the girl was very understanding, we laughed it off. When she left, I felt I wasn't even up to half a man grin I blamed everything around me for my woes: my D, my bed, my house... Everything grin
I decided to try it with another girl. I don't want to try the second time on same girl, she would never forgive me if I didn't perform. I got another girl, tried, though I lasted barely 2 minutes, I was happy I even entered before pouring. The girl again was angry but I told her that's how I see it and I can't kill myself. She understood and left. The next day she visited, I told her I want to do my 2 minutes before I have my bathe, she agreed. Then I was super relaxed. I wasn't worried or anxious about anything. The worst would be shooting before entering, which to me is nothing cos I've experienced it before. When I started, I didn't feel the jittery me... I was superb. I kept thrusting for like 10 minutes non stop but I cameth not grin
Babe provoke... She said I took drugs but I didn't. I turned my mind to what I'm doing so I can cum because babe was almost crying and telling me to stop. Finally, after about 20 minutes I shot. I didn't believe it.
Weeks later I called the first girl, I hit her too till she asked me to stop. I've mastered the act now. I can go any length I want to go.
Anxiety kills sexual urge and strength, not porn or Satan. Feel relaxed and enjoy ur nacking. grin grin
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Maclink288: 2:14pm On Oct 19, 2020
McCoy662:
Op u are dumb. Flaccid D happens to any fresher in the field, no body answered your prayers. It was all your state of mind.
Let me educate you and all that may want to go astray because of this post.
Sex is like public speaking, yes u heard me. Often times people after preparing to give a speech end up disgracing themselves in public. Why? Anxiety!! You can never have a great sexual life when u are anxious. You must relax and feel the way u fell when u are alone with the lady. Don't be shy, don't worry about how good you will perform, just do it the way u can and get up. The more relaxed u are, the more u can control your loins and last longer in bed.
It's my observation. The first time I had sex was embarrassing. I barely entered when I came out grin . The lady was like " what's that na?". But I didn't give up. I tried to defend myself, told her I can't kill myself. Luckily for me, we entered another round. Then I was a bit more relaxed and I performed really well; she attested to that grin
Now years later I never had sex, so, after some time I met one girl like that, we get going till it was time to nack. I thought I was good to go, but the worst happened. Immediately I put on my CD, dragging my D to the point, I shoot. The girl layed stark naked waiting for me to do, but I was already sweating profusely, she sensed foul play and asked if it's not what she's thinking. I told her it was and got up. Thank my goodness the girl was very understanding, we laughed it off. When she left, I felt I wasn't even up to half a man grin I blamed everything around me for my woes: my D, my bed, my house... Everything grin
I decided to try it with another girl. I don't want to try the second time on same girl, she would never forgive me if I didn't perform. I got another girl, tried, though I lasted barely 2 minutes, I was happy I even entered before pouring. The girl again was angry but I told her that's how I see it and I can't kill myself. She understood and left. The next day she visited, I told her I want to do my 2 minutes before I have my bathe, she agreed. Then I was super relaxed. I wasn't worried or anxious about anything. The worst would be shooting before entering, which to me is nothing cos I've experienced it before. When I started, I didn't feel the jittery me... I was superb. I kept thrusting for like 10 minutes non stop but I cameth not grin
Babe provoke... She said I took drugs but I didn't. I turned my mind to what I'm doing so I can cum because babe was almost crying and telling me to stop. Finally, after about 20 minutes I shot. I didn't believe it.
Weeks later I called the first girl, I hit her too till she asked me to stop. I've mastered the act now. I can go any length I want to go.
Anxiety kills sexual urge and strength, not porn or Satan. Feel relaxed and enjoy ur nacking. grin grin
Bro, I passed through a lot cause of that, to the point I couldn't sleep, I was lacking peace of mind cause of that.
But thanks for sharing your experience tho
God bless

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by NarutUzumaki7th: 2:32pm On Oct 19, 2020
Good morning
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by olorunyomi25149: 4:01pm On Oct 19, 2020
Thanks for sharing this OP, a more catchy title may help with views.
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Uzomacharles: 4:21pm On Oct 19, 2020
KillSars:
22years of age, for now u no need ur d1ck...

just spread the message..

#EndSars
#EndPoliceBrutality


Hmmm

Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Falopeabimbola(m): 4:44pm On Oct 19, 2020
Repent and turn to Jesus for Help
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Silentgroper(m): 4:53pm On Oct 19, 2020
D only tin dat got 2 me abt op story is how on earth did he involve GOD in hz fornication act

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 4:56pm On Oct 19, 2020
so what i can deduce from your writeup that it was satan the devil that killed ur erection cos u were watching too much porn grin grin grin grin grin
nigerians and their funny idelogy grin grin grin

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 4:59pm On Oct 19, 2020
Maclink288:
Goodday all
I hope someone learn from this, this happened early this year.

Before now I was a pornography addict, I have been watching porn since I was 13(that is 9years ago), although I have never masturbated in my life and I have not also had sex but I'd pride myself as someone who has had sex so many times.
So on a faithful day, I decided to try it out(sex), lo and behold Uncle D refused to get up, the girl rained insults all over me, I was confused and anxious to stupor, my heart was pounding as though I killed someone and I couldn't sleep for days, I'd always had chills in my belly, I kept on wondering what the problem was, I tried watching porn again and uncle D was still faccid. The thing really dealt with me as I couldn't just get the thought out of my mind, anytime I see a girl I'd just remember it, there were days I took sleeping pills so I could at least have some sleep. Although so one told me with time my brain would reset to normal.

Then I have to involve God in the matter (p.s. I almost became an atheist prior to that incident). I cried and prayed that God restores my peace and help me manage that thought. Although I'm relieved now, God answered my prayers, I was just ashamed of myself for considering atheism.
My God is alive and he answers prayers

*Please anyone involved in pornography please stop it else you'd learn the hard way*

I know because of the on going protest some peeps may see this as something irrelevant but I just wish this would hit front page so others would learn. Thanks

Shun Pornography!


You just made the most useless post lol.
Reason:You are using your own personal problem and woes to generalize. You have erectile problem, probably a hereditary thang lol. There Is no rubbish and nonsense someone won't hear, read or see In Shiiithole. I'm sure you deliberately want to upset people with this your useless post this evening......

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 5:02pm On Oct 19, 2020
lefulefu:
so what i can deduce from your writeup that it was satan the devil that killed ur erection cos u were watching too much porn grin grin grin grin grin
nigerians and their funny idelogy grin grin grin

Hehe lol, EXTREME MAD FOOOOLS & IDIOTS abound In Shiiithole. These people can never get It right walahi......

Re: Pornography; My experience with it by stZimli: 5:12pm On Oct 19, 2020
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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 5:14pm On Oct 19, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Hehe lol, EXTREME MAD FOOOOLS & IDIOTS abound In Shiiithole. These people can never get It right walahi......
but what i dont get is many guys on nl claim about having lots of escapades with girls and how they keep smashing pussy left and center cheesy.so if u are a don prince in smashing pussy why be having addiction problems with porn grin
I will just be safe assume that a lot of guys here are virgins and they find it hard to get laid hence the total dependence on porn cheesy
but the assumption that it was devil that killed ur erection cos of too much porn
mehn daTs epic grin grin grin grin
so all those pastors wey dey nack married women and single ladies left and center
why devil never kill their erection grin
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Vyzz: 5:17pm On Oct 19, 2020
Can we fucking end sars first shocked


Focus grin
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 5:18pm On Oct 19, 2020
lefulefu:
but what i dont get is many guys on nl claim about having lots of escapades with girls and how they keep smashing pussy left and center cheesy.so if u are a don prince in smashing pussy why be having addiction problems with porn grin
I will just be safe assume that a lot of guys here are virgins and they find it hard to get laid hence the total dependence on porn cheesy
but the assumption that it was devil that killed ur erection cos of too much porn
mehn daTs epic grin grin grin grin
so all those pastors wey dey nack married women and single ladies left and center
why devil never kill their erection grin

Lol don't mind them jare. A lot of them male babies can't even differentiate between their right and left hand oshisco......

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Maclink288: 5:26pm On Oct 19, 2020
lefulefu:
so what i can deduce from your writeup that it was satan the devil that killed ur erection cos u were watching too much porn grin grin grin grin grin
nigerians and their funny idelogy grin grin grin
Bro, pornography affects the mind, the earlier you stop the better for you
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by BabbanBura(m): 5:28pm On Oct 19, 2020
McCoy662:
Op u are dumb. Flaccid D happens to any fresher in the field, no body answered your prayers. It was all your state of mind.
Let me educate you and all that may want to go astray because of this post.
Sex is like public speaking, yes u heard me. Often times people after preparing to give a speech end up disgracing themselves in public. Why? Anxiety!! You can never have a great sexual life when u are anxious. You must relax and feel the way u fell when u are alone with the lady. Don't be shy, don't worry about how good you will perform, just do it the way u can and get up. The more relaxed u are, the more u can control your loins and last longer in bed.
It's my observation. The first time I had sex was embarrassing. I barely entered when I came out grin . The lady was like " what's that na?". But I didn't give up. I tried to defend myself, told her I can't kill myself. Luckily for me, we entered another round. Then I was a bit more relaxed and I performed really well; she attested to that grin
Now years later I never had sex, so, after some time I met one girl like that, we get going till it was time to nack. I thought I was good to go, but the worst happened. Immediately I put on my CD, dragging my D to the point, I shoot. The girl layed stark naked waiting for me to do, but I was already sweating profusely, she sensed foul play and asked if it's not what she's thinking. I told her it was and got up. Thank my goodness the girl was very understanding, we laughed it off. When she left, I felt I wasn't even up to half a man grin I blamed everything around me for my woes: my D, my bed, my house... Everything grin
I decided to try it with another girl. I don't want to try the second time on same girl, she would never forgive me if I didn't perform. I got another girl, tried, though I lasted barely 2 minutes, I was happy I even entered before pouring. The girl again was angry but I told her that's how I see it and I can't kill myself. She understood and left. The next day she visited, I told her I want to do my 2 minutes before I have my bathe, she agreed. Then I was super relaxed. I wasn't worried or anxious about anything. The worst would be shooting before entering, which to me is nothing cos I've experienced it before. When I started, I didn't feel the jittery me... I was superb. I kept thrusting for like 10 minutes non stop but I cameth not grin
Babe provoke... She said I took drugs but I didn't. I turned my mind to what I'm doing so I can cum because babe was almost crying and telling me to stop. Finally, after about 20 minutes I shot. I didn't believe it.
Weeks later I called the first girl, I hit her too till she asked me to stop. I've mastered the act now. I can go any length I want to go.
Anxiety kills sexual urge and strength, not porn or Satan. Feel relaxed and enjoy ur nacking. grin grin

You can say that again but body systems are different, excessive porn harms
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Maclink288: 5:28pm On Oct 19, 2020
lefulefu:
but what i dont get is many guys on nl claim about having lots of escapades with girls and how they keep smashing pussy left and center cheesy.so if u are a don prince in smashing pussy why be having addiction problems with porn grin
I will just be safe assume that a lot of guys here are virgins and they find it hard to get laid hence the total dependence on porn cheesy
but the assumption that it was devil that killed ur erection cos of too much porn
mehn daTs epic grin grin grin grin
so all those pastors wey dey nack married women and single ladies left and center
why devil never kill their erection grin
Bro, understand what I wrote, I never mentioned the devil in my write-up, what I said is that pornography addiction caused it...
Please get your facts right
Thanks and God bless you
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Ishilove: 6:01pm On Oct 19, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
I just read the conclusion and know you don't have a clue of what you are saying.

Porn kills sexual urge. I used to be an addict

In his supposed wisdom, he has shown himself very foolish.
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Maclink288: 7:09pm On Oct 19, 2020
Evolutionlove:


You just made the most useless post lol.
Reason:You are using your own personal problem and woes to generalize. You have erectile problem, probably a hereditary thang lol. There Is no rubbish and nonsense someone won't hear, read or see In Shiiithole. I'm sure you deliberately want to upset people with this your useless post this evening......
Easy bro, I just shared my experience
That's all
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 19, 2020
Maclink288:

Bro, pornography affects the mind, the earlier you stop the better for you
when you have real sex, pornography might not matter that much to you.Only virgin boys rave about porn cheesy
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Petyr1: 7:21pm On Oct 19, 2020
Silentgroper:
D only tin dat got 2 me abt op story is how on earth did he involve GOD in hz fornication act
i was waiting for this comment
i keep wondering if some people can reason at all
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by PureGoldh(m): 7:23pm On Oct 19, 2020
If and only if many will make a U-turn after reading this post
Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 7:23pm On Oct 19, 2020
BabbanBura:


You can say that again but body systems are different, excessive porn harms
what of excessive sex nko? cheesy

Re: Pornography; My experience with it by Nobody: 7:51pm On Oct 19, 2020
McCoy662:
Op u are dumb. Flaccid D happens to any fresher in the field, no body answered your prayers. It was all your state of mind.
Let me educate you and all that may want to go astray because of this post.
Sex is like public speaking, yes u heard me. Often times people after preparing to give a speech end up disgracing themselves in public. Why? Anxiety!! You can never have a great sexual life when u are anxious. You must relax and feel the way u fell when u are alone with the lady. Don't be shy, don't worry about how good you will perform, just do it the way u can and get up. The more relaxed u are, the more u can control your loins and last longer in bed.
It's my observation. The first time I had sex was embarrassing. I barely entered when I came out grin . []The lady was like " what's that na?". []But I didn't give up. I tried to defend myself, told her I can't kill myself. Luckily for me, we entered another round. Then I was a bit more relaxed and I performed really well; she attested to that grin
Now years later I never had sex, so, after some time I met one girl like that, we get going till it was time to nack. I thought I was good to go, but the worst happened. Immediately I put on my CD, dragging my D to the point, I shoot. The girl layed stark naked waiting for me to do, but I was already sweating profusely, she sensed foul play and asked if it's not what she's thinking. I told her it was and got up. Thank my goodness the girl was very understanding, we laughed it off. When she left, I felt I wasn't even up to half a man grin I blamed everything around me for my woes: my D, my bed, my house... Everything grin
I decided to try it with another girl. I don't want to try the second time on same girl, she would never forgive me if I didn't perform. I got another girl, tried, though I lasted barely 2 minutes, I was happy I even entered before pouring. The girl again was angry but I told her that's how I see it and I can't kill myself. She understood and left. The next day she visited, I told her I want to do my 2 minutes before I have my bathe, she agreed. Then I was super relaxed. I wasn't worried or anxious about anything. The worst would be shooting before entering, which to me is nothing cos I've experienced it before. When I started, I didn't feel the jittery me... I was superb. I kept thrusting for like 10 minutes non stop but I cameth not grin
Babe provoke... She said I took drugs but I didn't. I turned my mind to what I'm doing so I can cum because babe was almost crying and telling me to stop. Finally, after about 20 minutes I shot. I didn't believe it.
Weeks later I called the first girl, I hit her too till she asked me to stop. I've mastered the act now. I can go any length I want to go.
Anxiety kills sexual urge and strength, not porn or Satan. Feel relaxed and enjoy ur nacking. grin grin

THAT IS WHY MOST GIRLS DON'T BECOME IMPRESSED BY YOU TELLING HER THAT YOU ARE A 'VIRGIN'. YOU HAVE NEVER HAD SEX BEFORE!!! EVEN THE MOST VIRGIN OF GIRLS DETEST A VIRGIN MALE. IT IS ONLY AN IRONY OF LIFE SO, SO TRUE!!! I HAVE ONLY PAINTED A REALITY OF LIFE OF SOME GUYS' EXPERIENCE, IN A PROCESS OF ARRANGED MARRIAGE FOR THOSE BROTHERS AM VERY AWARE OF, WHO ALL THEIR LIVES HAVE NOT BEEN IN ANY KIND OF ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP BUT TIME HAS COME FOR THEM TO SETTLE DOWN. THINKING THE LADY INTRODUCED TO THEM WILL BE SWEPT UP HER FEET BY TELLING HER HOW MUCH HE HAS KEPT HIMSELF FOR HER AND HER ALONE HAS MOSTLY TURNED OUT A TURN OFF. MY ENQUIRY TURNED OUT TO BE, FEAR, FEAR OF A BORING SEXUAL LIFE.

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Re: Pornography; My experience with it by BabbanBura(m): 8:32pm On Oct 19, 2020
lefulefu:
what of excessive sex nko? cheesy

It is a natural order, so it is fine. But wait woo, do people have sex everyday outside the professional staff?

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