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Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Baba40: 9:28pm On Oct 27, 2020
This question is born out of curiosity why most married woman cheat on their innocent husbands, be it physical, social or emotional. Cheating is Cheating.

It is men we know for this abberation but you won't be shock anymore to know that women has taken over the cheating industry, in so many disguise.

Pls women, why do you cheat on your husband?

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by yomi007k(m): 9:52pm On Oct 27, 2020
The reason is that men that get married are usually Beta simps. These women marry them in order to get security which comes in the form of emotional commitment and provison of resources.

However, they really are not attracted to their husbands but have their fantasy male figure out there that will always drop the panties at the snap of a finger.

Furthermore, living together and sharing thoughts leads to "see finish". The women know the strenght, weaknesses and get bored of seeing the same male figure especially when he doesnt upgrade himself by way of money, looks and status. No more respect, No more Honour.

Eureka!

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Momcherry(f): 10:00pm On Oct 27, 2020
Op, where are you from? Because I think you're getting this your statistics from wherever you are from.

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:36pm On Oct 27, 2020
You're basing this on what you've seen. If i wanted to do the same, i would question why most married men cheat.

Both wives and husbands cheat, not sure of who does it more. But my bet will be on husbands.

Baba40:
This question is born out of curiosity why most married woman cheat on their innocent husbands, be it physical, social or emotional. Cheating is Cheating.

It is men we know for this abberation but you won't be shock anymore to know that women has taken over the cheating industry, in so many disguise.

Pls women, why do you cheat on your husband?

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by longetivity(m): 12:00am On Oct 28, 2020
wahala for who marry

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Mindlog: 12:12am On Oct 28, 2020
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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Chiquitq(f): 5:50am On Oct 28, 2020
Some men would date women that are runs girls and hope they stop cheating after marriage. It is also common that a woman with no source of income who is dependent on the one she is dating would surely cheat since being in a relationship is regarded as a means of survival. The type of family she is from can also predispose her to thinking that infidelity in marriage is not a big deal.

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by mariahAngel: 8:33am On Oct 28, 2020
Baba40:
This question is born out of curiosity why most married woman cheat on their innocent husbands, be it physical, social or emotional. Cheating is Cheating.

It is men we know for this abberation but you won't be shock anymore to know that women has taken over the cheating industry, in so many disguise.

Pls women, why do you cheat on your husband?

This is ridiculously ridiculous. cheesy

Others aside, what do you mean by social cheating?

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by DoubleEngine007: 8:49am On Oct 28, 2020
If not for child bearing ,a me for not think am at all.. With what I see everyday with most married men and women,it goes to show that marriages these days got so many "wahalases" with or without money.. Op the women that cheats,do it for so many reasons best known to them.. Stories I have heard and those I have seen shows,that its mainly for money and sex or maybe jobs (position)..
Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by RightToReject(m): 8:56am On Oct 28, 2020
Married women who cheat do so because they aren't conscientious - and they're in multitude. Every opportunistic woman - and man - is inherently an embodiment of cheat married or single, while every self-absorbing one is susceptible to cheat subject to circumstances.
Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Baba40: 5:48pm On Oct 28, 2020
[quote author=Chiquitq post=95416187]Some men would date women that are runs girls and hope they stop cheating after marriage. It is also common that a woman with no source of income who is dependent on the one she is dating would surely cheat since being in a relationship is regarded as a means of survival. The type of family she is from can also predispose her to thinking that infidelity in marriage is not a big deal.

I love the last paragraph.... Family values play alot of role

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Baba40: 5:49pm On Oct 28, 2020
RightToReject:
Married women who cheat do so because they aren't conscientious - and they're in multitude. Every opportunistic woman - and man - is inherently an embodiment of cheat married or single, while every self-absorbing one is susceptible to cheat subject to circumstances.

Please communicate

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Baba40: 5:50pm On Oct 28, 2020
DoubleEngine007:
If not for child bearing ,a me for not think am at all.. With what I see everyday with most married men and women,it goes to show that marriages these days got so many "wahalases" with or without money.. Op the women that cheats,do it for so many reasons best known to them.. Stories I have heard and those I have seen shows,that its mainly for money and sex or maybe jobs (position)..


For some, it's none of the above but lack of discipline. You would always see another man/woman that will be appealing but you have to discipline yourself by saying NO

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by eyinjuege: 6:57pm On Oct 28, 2020
Its exactly the same reasons men cheat.
Because they can.
Many are in denial that men and women are essentially the same except for certain biological differences. In behaviour and attitude, we are all alike
We all feel the same pain, passion, excitement, anger etc.
We only pretend to behave differently because of societal constructs, but we know that can be boycotted.
Constructs like gender roles are being interchanged successfully, even marriage too.
Men cheat for the excitement, tired of same woman, by "accident"- such as the pencil falling into the sharpener by mistake, troublesome spouse, denial of sex or bad sex etc, financial troubles etc. Those are some of the exact same reasons women cheat.
Especially when both know they can get away with it!

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by crackhaus: 7:00pm On Oct 28, 2020
Pls women, why do you cheat on your husband?
What a question! grin

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by DoubleEngine007: 7:24pm On Oct 28, 2020
Baba40:



For some, it's none of the above but lack of discipline. You would always see another man/woman that will be appealing but you have to discipline yourself by saying NO
You're right ,anyways..

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by angelfallz(m): 7:31pm On Oct 28, 2020
There are many reasons, but i will answer from the angle of virgins and prostitutes.
Many of the women men are marrying these days are just prostitutes, who have been sleeping with different boyfriends/ sugar daddies for years. Women that have been sleeping around have lost the ability to pair bond with their husbands(virgins don't have this problem).

Advice: Men marry a virgin. It is not guaranteed that a virgin won't cheat, but it is very unlikely.

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by mariahAngel: 7:49pm On Oct 28, 2020
angelfallz:
There are many reasons, but i will answer from the angle of virgins and prostitutes.
Many of the women men are marrying these days are just prostitutes, who have been sleeping with different boyfriends/ sugar daddies for years. Women that have been sleeping around have lost the ability to pair bond with their husbands(virgins don't have this problem).

Advice: Men marry a virgin. It is not guaranteed that a virgin won't cheat, but it is very unlikely.

Will marrying a virgin make the man stay faithful?

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by angelfallz(m): 7:50pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


Will marrying a virgin make the man stay faithful?

Isn't the topic about women?

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by mariahAngel: 8:00pm On Oct 28, 2020
angelfallz:


Isn't the topic about women?

Well, a married woman can also cheat out of vengeance.
Imagine a lady married as a virgin and the so-called husband still goes ahead and cheats on her.... it'll be harder for a lady who married as a virgin to forgive infidelity than a lady who was sexually active before getting married.

Now as man, how would you feel if by your own fault, the wife you married as a virgin cheats on you?
How would you feel if you found out you're no longer the only man in her life?

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Ishilove: 8:02pm On Oct 28, 2020
Una don start this una satanic generalisation

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Munzy14(m): 8:23pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


This is ridiculously ridiculous. cheesy

Others aside, what do you mean by social cheating?
Trusting someone else with some confidential stuffs,rather than ur partner.

Umu nwaanyi na eme nke a ofuma

Cheating kariri...cheesy
Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Munzy14(m): 8:31pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


Will marrying a virgin make the man stay faithful?
In some cases yes, in some, no.


Cheating na choice/ self discipline. The opportunity will always come for both partners, as far as u are good looking.

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by mariahAngel: 8:32pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

Trusting someone else with some confidential stuffs,rather than ur partner.

I think that's emotional cheating cheesy
I wanted the op to specify what he meant by that....
I hope it's not what I think he meant...like spending time with others aside your spouse

Umu nwaanyi na eme nke a ofuma

Cheating kariri...cheesy

Umu nwanyi nke a, umu nwanyi nke ozo!
Ndi umu nwoke kwanu? Owu ha ka mma?
grin

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Munzy14(m): 8:34pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


I think that's emotional cheating cheesy
I wanted the op to specify what he meant by that....
I hope it's not what I think he meant...like spending time with others aside your spouse



Umu nwanyi nke a, umu nwanyi nke ozo!
Ndi umu nwoke kwanu? Owu ha ka mma?
grin
Umu nwaanyi nwe social, umu nwoke nwe nke ozo karia...grin
Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by crackhaus: 8:54pm On Oct 28, 2020
angelfallz:

Advice: Men marry a virgin. It is not guaranteed that a virgin won't cheat, but it is very unlikely.
This...

Kind of like, wear a seatbelt.
It doesn't guarantee you won't sustain an injury in a collision, but it reduces the risk.

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by angelfallz(m): 8:56pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


Well, a married woman can also cheat out of vengeance.
Imagine a lady married as a virgin and the so-called husband still goes ahead and cheats on her.... it'll be harder for a lady who married as a virgin to forgive infidelity than a lady who was sexually active before getting married.

Now as man, how would you feel if by your own fault, the wife you married as a virgin cheats on you?
How would you feel if you found out you're no longer the only man in her life?

the first bolded,
Only a woman that does not value her body or a loose woman, would cheat out of vengeance.
If she can't forgive, divorce him. She shouldn't throw away her pride and dignity for vengeance.

the second bolded,
i would feel bad. But then i would divorce her. That marriage is over.
Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by mariahAngel: 9:03pm On Oct 28, 2020
angelfallz:


the first bolded,
Only a woman that does not value her body or a loose woman, would cheat out of vengeance.
If she can't forgive, divorce him. She shouldn't throw away her pride and dignity for vengeance.

the second bolded,
i would feel bad. But then i would divorce her. That marriage is over.

grin
Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by angelfallz(m): 9:51pm On Oct 28, 2020
crackhaus:

This...

Kind of like, wear a seatbelt.
It doesn't guarantee you won't sustain an injury in a collision, but it reduces the risk.

Exactly.
Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by frozen70(f): 1:43am On Oct 29, 2020
Baba40:
This question is born out of curiosity why most married woman cheat on their innocent husbands, be it physical, social or emotional. Cheating is Cheating.

It is men we know for this abberation but you won't be shock anymore to know that women has taken over the cheating industry, in so many disguise.

Pls women, why do you cheat on your husband?

What goes around comes around

I expect you to list the reasons why men cheats
Women are humans too

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Sixfeetbelle: 3:37am On Oct 29, 2020
angelfallz:


the first bolded,
Only a woman that does not value her body or a loose woman, would cheat out of vengeance.
If she can't forgive, divorce him. She shouldn't throw away her pride and dignity for vengeance

See how you make it sound so easy, as if all human beings have the same emotional maturity.

If you cheat on me, I will castrate you cause I am ready to throw away my pride and dignity for vengeance.

Forgiving you is out of the equation.

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Re: Why Do Most Married Women Cheat by Nobody: 3:50am On Oct 29, 2020
When a man or woman cheats, it's because they choose to.

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