It's true that man face alot challenges every day but never disclose it to thier wives. Some will not even show it on their face while some show by attitudes.
Some of them prefer to share the problem with their male friends insteaf of thier life partner.

Can we say that men don't have confident in thier wives or they believe solutions can never come from woman?

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mynd44

Sharing your problem with your wife is just like sharing your problem with another bigger problem.

Most wives are actually the problem the husband wants to share, they're too hyperactive downstairs and lazy upstairs, so it's of no use.

It's a good thing to share your problems, but trust and dignity is another concern, most wife's tend to solve your issues while some will light fire to it, keep the necessary with you and share the normal issues to have a peace of mind....

Happy Married Life

I share only few info with my wife.
I don't share my financial status, my family and friends issues with her.
Not that she will use them against me or say it to another person.
I just keep certain things within me and I DON'T KNOW WHY.

Ahmed0336:

I DON'T KNOW WHY.

Peace of mind and opportunity to live longer

It's unwise to share a problem with a Problem. Just like sharing your malaria with mosquito.

PlayMaker14:
Sharing your problem with your wife is just like sharing your problem with another bigger problem.

Most wives are actually the problem the husband wants to share, they're too hyperactive downstairs and lazy upstairs, so it's of no use.

But why? Don't you have confident in your wife or u think u wife can can't save in tough time. Am privilege to meet a man in one occasion in Ondo state, after this man appreciate God, before he appreciates Governor cos the governor was present in that occasion, he appreciates his wife first. He said My wife is my back bone, I wouldn't have become anything today without my wife. if u see the confidence this man have in his wife.. but since that day.. I have never see any many saying such word again.

mynd44

obembet:


But why? Don't you have confident in your wife or u think u wife can can't save in tough time. Am privilege to meet a man in one occasion in Ondo state, after this man appreciate God, before he appreciates Governor cos the governor was present in that occasion, he appreciates his wife first. He said My wife is my back bone, I wouldn't have become anything today without my wife. if u see the confidence this man have in his wife.. but since that day.. I have never see any many saying such word again.

mynd44

Saying sweet things to his wife in public does not mean sharing his problems with her...

I can appreciate and say sweet things to my woman, but sharing 90% of my problem with her is actually a bigger PROBLEM which I am not ready to entertain.

obembet:


But why? Don't you have confident in your wife or u think u wife can can't save in tough time. Am privilege to meet a man in one occasion in Ondo state, after this man appreciate God, before he appreciates Governor cos the governor was present in that occasion, he appreciates his wife first. He said My wife is my back bone, I wouldn't have become anything today without my wife. if u see the confidence this man have in his wife.. but since that day.. I have never see any many saying such word again.

mynd44

Appreciating your wife and sharing information with her are completely two different things sir...

Is just better you solve your problem your self than to share the problem with your wife sometime when you share the problem with your wife is will cause another headache and confusion so taking care of the problem at hand, solve alot of problem, you can share the problem with your colleges to make things smooth, women don't like solving problem they like living in the fairytale world... Just see her face expression, when you tell her you are broke and when you tell her you are rich... you can tell the difference, or else you have a understanding woman ofcourse..

PlayMaker14:
Saying sweet things to his wife in public does not mean sharing his problems with her...

I can appreciate and say sweet things to my woman, but sharing 90% of my problem with her is actually a bigger PROBLEM which I am not ready to entertain.

Why? She is your wife, ur companion, your best friend.. she's the only person that can stand with you under the sun, under the rain.. I think men need to change this mentality

obembet:


Why? She is your wife, ur companion, your best friend.. she's the only person that can stand with you under the sun, under the rain.. I think men need to change this mentality

Okay let's put it this way so we can arrive at a logical conclusion;



I don't want to bother her with my problems.

obembet:


Why? She is your wife, ur companion, your best friend.. she's the only person that can stand with you under the sun, under the rain.. I think men need to change this mentality

You!!! What is your problem

We don't want to share every details with our wives, here you are trying to force us.

Every household with what works for em, please respect that.

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U want them to share problem with another problem.

Another avenue to bash and downgrade the female gender

I don't think there can be a definite overall answer for this. I think it depends on different factors

- The nature of the matter to be discussed: Perhaps the wife is not in best position in knowledge and experience to answer. But it may still be good to tell her on the basis of love and sharing your problems with the one you love. You never know what support she could give you out of love. Love is powerful.

Or it could be about something dangerous for the wife to know. Like if the man's side chick ran away with his money or possesion. He definitely wouldn't wanna tell his wife cause that'll mean telling her about the side chick.

- Another factor is the kind of woman the wife is. If she's proven to be intelligent, wise and useful in solving problems, then he'll likely tell her. If she's proven to be a problem agravator, then she's a no go area.

- Another factor COULD be because of a mentality the husband grew up with that women are only all about luxury and cannot provide profound insight and solutions to problems. Or that they're only for breeding children and taking care of the house.

And so on...

So it depends on different factors....


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TripleDdotcom:
I don't think there can be a definite overall answer for this. I think it depends on different factors

- The nature of the matter to be discussed: Perhaps the wife is not in best position in knowledge and experience to answer. But it may still be good to tell her on the basis of love and sharing your problems with the one you love. You never know what support she could give you out of love. Love is powerful.

Or it could be about something dangerous for the wife to know. Like if the man's side chick ran away with his money or possesion. He definitely wouldn't wanna tell his wife cause that'll mean telling her about the side chick.

- Another factor is the kind of woman the wife is. If she's proven to be intelligent, wise and useful in solving problems, then he'll likely tell her. If she's proven to be a problem agravator, then she's a no go area.

- Another factor COULD be because of a mentality the husband grew up with that women are only all about luxury and cannot provide profound insight and solutions to problems. Or that they're only for breeding children and taking care of the house.

And so on...

So it depends on different factors....


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EOD.

If you are married and cannot bare it all to your wife, then you have missed it in marriage.

Your wife is meant to help you.

If you see your wife as a problem, you have really made a mistake.

You will never enjoy the favor that comes upon a man who finds a wife.

A wife is a good thing, so take your time to seek out and marry your wife so you can be helped when you need it.

HRSweetness:
If you are married and cannot bare it all to your wife, then you have missed it in marriage.

Your wife is meant to help you.

If you see your wife as a problem, you have really made a mistake.

You will never enjoy the favor that comes upon a man who finds a wife.

A wife is a good thing, so take your time to seek out and marry your wife so you can be helped when you need it.

Thank Heavens father Abraham did not share his problem with Sarah, she would have laughed at him like the way she laughed at the angel.

Kriss216:
It's unwise to share a problem with a Problem. Just like sharing your malaria with mosquito.

Be careful what you wish upon yourself.

PlayMaker14:
Thank Heavens father Abraham did not share his problem with Sarah, she would have laughed at him like the way she laughed at the angel.

And what was his problem?

HRSweetness:

And what was his problem?

Sacrificing his son...

PlayMaker14:
Sacrificing his son...

It wasn't a problem to him. He wasn't bothered by the request. I'm not sure why you think it was a problem to him.

Shall we not digress...

HRSweetness:


It wasn't a problem to him. He wasn't bothered by the request. I'm not sure why you think it was a problem to him.

Shall we not digress...

I guess you were with him to know that it didn't give him something to worry about.


Okay.

mariahAngel:

Be careful what you wish upon yourself.

You're not talking to me.

PlayMaker14:
I guess you were with him to know that it didn't give him something to worry about.


Okay.

You guessed right...

HRSweetness:

You guessed right...

k.

Kriss216:

You're not talking to me.

Owu gi ka'm na a gwa. Onye aghirigha di ka gi.

mariahAngel:

Owu gi ka'm na a gwa. Onye aghirigha di ka gi.

Kedu kà google siri translate "aghirigha"?

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Lol
This your discharging operandi is demonic
Fear God.

Kriss216:

Lol

This your discharging operandi is demonic

Fear God.

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