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Odingo1:
My engaged girl 25 years old always threaten to get a side man that will be given her enough money. If her money finish if don’t give her money she start threatening.Is it wise to proceed with the marriage or Jappa. Scared of this altitude but in love and have gone far.Me 29 years.

It is not wise sir. She’s Obviously only in the relationship for money. And the one thing gals like this can offer is sex. Free the girl but keeping fucking her and giving her the token u can afford while u hunt for babes that are serious minded. Engaging a gal doesn’t mean u can’t disengage her. I know people that disengaged silly babes like this and are thankful for it in d end. YOU DESERVE better!

If this is true, it is a huge red flag!

I really can't tell you what to do, because i don't know much about both of you. But if she has made this a habit, she may not be able to sustain a good marriage - as it seems she prioritizes money more

Odingo1:
My engaged girl 25 years old always threaten to get a side man that will be given her enough money. If her money finish if I don’t give her money she start threatening.Is it wise to proceed with the marriage or Jappa. Scared of this altitude but in love and have gone far.Me 29 years.

Run fast. Run far.

This comment sounds so predatory

instinct57vm:


It is not wise sir. She’s Obviously only in the relationship for money. And the one thing gals like this can offer is sex. Free the girl but keeping fucking her and giving her the token u can afford while u hunt for babes that are serious minded. Engaging a gal doesn’t mean u can’t disengage her. I know people that disengaged silly babes like this and are thankful for it in d end. YOU DESERVE better!

What kind of stupid question is this? You are seeing fire but deciding whether to jump inside it or not

Fvck christ,


Not everytime you need explanation, that's why porn didn't get subtitle,



Ohh, you're expecting dem to put yeh!? , Huhhh!!, Fvck that pussy!!, Yeeh!! I'm enjoying this shit,!! Go deeper, lick dat pussy,!! Etc inside porn subtitle,?

No they will never put dar because they expect you to use your brain,

Not everytime you need to ask for they reason A comes before B
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OP no comment can beat mine , this is your answer ,

Geeezzzz,

Odingo1:
My engaged girl 25 years old always threaten to get a side man that will be given her enough money. If her money finish if I don’t give her money she start threatening.Is it wise to proceed with the marriage or Jappa. Scared of this altitude but in love and have gone far.Me 29 years.

Is it wise to keep a lion as a pet even after threatening to use you for lunch on few occasions?

Your answer to this question answers yours as well

Odingo1:
My engaged girl 25 years old always threaten to get a side man that will be given her enough money. If her money finish if I don’t give her money she start threatening.Is it wise to proceed with the marriage or Jappa. Scared of this altitude but in love and have gone far.Me 29 years.

you are not doing your job as the man. Simple.

What makes you say so?!

DrFunmisticGlow:
you are not doing your job as the man. Simple.

nwaezeemmanuel:
What makes you say so?!

when a girl starts complaining that you are not providing, how will you cope? Double your hustle or jaapa. It's not hard.

I understand you. But she's not just complaining about money, she's threatening to have her way with another person.

That sounds greedy and desperate. All the same, good marriage demands stable finances.

DrFunmisticGlow:
when a girl starts complaining that you are not providing, how will you cope? Double your hustle or jaapa. It's not hard.

DrFunmisticGlow:
you are not doing your job as the man. Simple.

I am doing my best because I just gave 30k last month and 60k previous 2 months. She is working also as a secretary. I am also working in small oil servicing company.

Bro, you're not the problem. Don't feel guilty.

Going by this story, i will say she may just be greedy. You don't have to win her over by giving money to your disadvantage.

Odingo1:

I am doing my best because I just gave 30k last month and 60k previous 2 months. She is working also as a secretary. I am also working in small oil servicing company.

The handwriting is on the wall. Read

nwaezeemmanuel:
This comment sounds so predatory

Lols but that’s the harsh reality

Odingo1:

I am doing my best because I just gave 30k last month and 60k previous 2 months. She is working also as a secretary. I am also working in small oil servicing company.

You guys aren't married and you sound like giving her money is your duty. Okay..

Even in marriage, you both should be financially responsible. Anyway, let me come and be going.

run O! run O! dat is a bad sign already

A wise saying don’t put your eggs in one basket ... that girl is smart wife her Biko ..

You no go see the red flag now o! CONTINUE!!!

Odingo1:
My engaged girl 25 years old always threaten to get a side man that will be given her enough money. If her money finish if I don’t give her money she start threatening.Is it wise to proceed with the marriage or Jappa. Scared of this altitude but in love and have gone far.Me 29 years.

The fact that you, a 29-year-old, don't have the common sense to know what to do and you had to bring it here shows you are a very big foòl. If you were my son, I would have given you a heavy and resounding slap, and if I had my way, I would give you the beating of your life for being a foòl and a disgrace your masculinity.

You mean to tell me you don't know the right and simple thing to do? Let me ask you, what is the rational thing to do to such a spouse? If you don't know, then you and your spouse deserve each other.

Common sense is really not common.

You can never ever satisfy an entitled working class bittch. Better run for your life. If only you could place yourself first before anything and anyone else you wouldn't be complaining to us here. Learn to love yourself. Anything that stresses you should be considered as bad business and should be obliterated ASAP. Take care of yourself and stop bittching and sulking around. Stop being a nice guy because it doesnt pay to be one. From the look of things it seems you even placed her on monthly salary like wtf is wrong with you? I'm outa here. I'm so pissed right now.

She just called you an idiot. And you still being with her confirms she is right.

Martinez39s:
The fact that you, a 29-year-old, don't have the common sense to know what to do and you had to bring it here shows you are a very big foòl. If you were my son, I would have given you a heavy and resounding slap, and if I had my way, I would give you the beating of your life for being a foòl and a disgrace your masculinity.

You mean to tell me you don't know the right and simple thing to do? Let me ask you, what is the rational thing to do to such a spouse? If you don't know, then you and your spouse deserve each other.

Common sense is really not common.

Don’t worry one day you fall in real with one lady and you will understand how you can become confused in certain things.

Odingo1:

Don’t worry one day you fall in real with one lady and you will understand how you can become confused in certain things.

Keep acting like a foòl. Instead of being wise and growing some balls, you are defending yourself. I can never fall in love, I am not that naive. Any love that deprives you of the common sense to dump a disrespectful spouse is not my portion. Any love that fosters foolishness in me to wife up such a spouse is not my portion. Any love that gives me the stupidity to be indecisive on what to do in this situation is not my portion. Only a fool will engage is such thing called love.

Answer the simple question, what is the right thing to do to your woman?

Odingo1:

I am doing my best because I just gave 30k last month and 60k previous 2 months. She is working also as a secretary. I am also working in small oil servicing company.

For giving her all those monies when she's also working it means you're sick in the head.

I know it's harsh but swallow the pill

Just try this
When next she say this, tell her to go ahead with her plan, don't text or call her for the two weeks or 30days/1month..

During this time watch her closely.
If she asks why you're keeping your distance, tell her you feel if you both get married it could turn to a complete disaster because her utterances speaks volume.

Please be brunt, uncouth, don't paint or romance your words so you don't annoy her. Don't try it.

Watch her closely to see how she handles the issue. It's a very big issue that must be treated very diligently now wey Una never marry

Remember, do this when next she makes such utterance. Don't worry she would say or threaten you again once you stop giving her those allowances.
STOP GIVING HER MONEY MONTHLY!!- She would begin to feel entitled. It's a general psychological theory.

Don't turn a blind eye on a red flag when you see one. It wouldn't get better when you both get married rather it would grow worse. Love alone doesn't sustain a marriage. Use your head!!

Martinez39s:
The fact that you, a 29-year-old, don't have the common sense to know what to do and you had to bring it here shows you are a very big foòl. If you were my son, I would have given you a heavy and resounding slap, and if I had my way, I would give you the beating of your life for being a foòl and a disgrace your masculinity.

You mean to tell me you don't know the right and simple thing to do? Let me ask you, what is the rational thing to do to such a spouse? If you don't know, then you and your spouse deserve each other.

Common sense is really not common.

The guy mumu sha

yes op nothing wrong
u can marry her and assure her how much u cant live without her..also anytime she hints again about having a side guy tell her dat if she does such u will commit suicide .after telling her such she will know u are a real man

Odingo1:

I am doing my best because I just gave 30k last month and 60k previous 2 months. She is working also as a secretary. I am also working in small oil servicing company.

30k is not even up to 100 USD and 60k is just 154 USD.u are not trying at all.increase the amount u sending to her.

lefulefu:
30k is not even up to 100 USD and 60k is just 154 USD.u are not trying at all.increase the amount u sending to her.

Mahd oooo

Limitless72:





Mahd oooo