ashewoboy:
Why You Must Not Be A Nice Guy (Photo Attached)

This is what ubunja is saying. can somebody be too nice? should there be a limit to niceness? should the receiver be complaining?

Ok.

SamJed:
Na wa o. If you are abusive...problem, oya you come quiet...another problem, if you be player....big issue, now even ordinary nice wey person nice...na wahala

What do these ladies really want

Don't take them serious at all
Infact the moment a girl agrees to date me, I start plotting my exit graph immediately no matter how serious and genuine she looks

masterP042:
I am calm and very gentle. I can't change my good character just to get access to any girl's pants, any girl wey no wan accept me for who I am. I moove.

You never hear of false acceptance before? i pity you bro

Naija girls which way nah?. Reminds me of the day my ex sat me down and asked me "Why haven't u scolded me or at least hit me violently b4?" That question got me thinking for hours. How the heck will a sane lady prefer violence!!!

confirm! na weyrey person like me dem like

mmy madness with girls no be here oo

YoonSung59:
No girl likes too calm or gentle guys

haha

Digitalstarlite:
All dose girls wey dey twitter wey dey form saint...no mind dem...she jus type am


No girl for dis life wey no like person dey spoil am...


Next news...na d moderator wey bring am front page wey need serious beaten

it's just a character flaw with the girl. these types of GIRLS are troublemaker!
big ones!

Brandonx:
There's no such thing as "Too nice" the girl is plain stupid the guy she claimed to be "to nice" might be a daredevil" to others. Just because she has his mumu button she is saying nonsense.
My girlfriend cannot call me @12 midnight because I won't take it but there's someone that can call me even if it's 1: am I'm going to answer it immediately.

Her business lol. When she meets real bad boys she will change her mind.

ashewoboy:
Why You Must Not Be A Nice Guy (Photo Attached)

This is what ubunja is saying. can somebody be too nice? should there be a limit to niceness? should the receiver be complaining?

One can be nice. If that warrants his partner breaking up with the person then good riddance to bad rubbish

Dem no go kpanji with better man. Tomorrow now this same individual will come here with a swollen eye and shifted jaw to complain about physical abuse. Rubbish

Na their type dey cry eventually. "He abuses me, he smacks me at every little thing"

Sister has broken up with an Angel, go pick a demon.

Nonsensical

FuckThaMod:

You never hear of false acceptance before? i pity you bro

Anyone can be a victim of that, whether calm or not

That's euphemism for being too much of a wuss.

mydivinely:
is very true my people, i know a guy who was so gentle, he is educated, he cares he NEVER CHEATS, speaks so calm, but the GF said hes too calm like , each time they is misunderstanding the guy apologise even though not at fault later the girl got bored, What on Earth do Ladies Want

i used to be like the guy but i have changed my mentality. You go lose tire if you behave too gentle, most girls like it when you handle them roughly even in bed

Palema007:
Okay, no one breaks up for being too NICE there is always an underlying factor either INSECURITY on the path of the lady, Or PRETENSE on the path of the Guy.

Nigerians just have a way of using words wrongly

You'll be surprised there are ladies who breakup with their partners for being too nice

opalu:
I will never forget the 29th of May, 2004. It was one cool afternoon. The lady I was in 3 years courtship with broke up with me for "LOVING HER TO A FAULT". That was the first time I heard that someone can love to a fault. That sentence actually sentenced me to a specialist hospital

Some people are damaged beyond repair

bukatyne:
Funny thread leaving NL guys perplexed

There are damaged men and women.

You either leave them, they leave you, they drag you down or you pull them up (a miracle).

If we go by trends, 'Nigerian' women like Indabooski spectrum of men than the jelenke ones.

The amount of 'he is too nice, too quiet, his wife is controlling him, he is too mumu, he is not strong like a man' etc. etc. I have heard.

All women, not just Nigerian women.

Zither:
guys, don't let a sadist dictate who you are. like attracts like. a sadist will always love and be attracted to a sadist. that lady is a walking sadist.

Bless you man. There're masochists and sadists everywhere, and using her half-statement up there as an evidence that women prefer being treated badly will only encourage more psychos in our society.

Torrr, that's why i made this video
Nigerian guys should watch this...

*CLICK ON THE LINK AND WATCH WITH MOBILE APP TO SAVE DATA


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nb1g7SJLyA

GreenDee:
She must be joking sha, She said that to gain likes and followers, if she see what bad relationship looks like she won't wish to have one.

You earlier said it all.

My dear she didn't lie. A gal broke up with me cause I was too nice to her. She told me she doesn't worth me

FuckThaMod:
If you want our girls to cherish you then disrespect and treat them like trash. They love iron fists..
Save your pure love for more sane girls you can find in other countries, even our neighboring west african countries will cherish you like crazy when you show them quarter the love you show these our undeserving girls.

It’s the same in all countries, naturally women like mean/tough guys it turns them on, but no guy should try to act mean to please any girl, just be yourself, you will still find someone who will love you for you.

luminouz:

Do you know what you want?

I already have what I want

The YESMAN

mitchyy:


I already have what I want

Yinmu

I hate it when guys fool themselves over a girl..in the name of showing love you don turn maga......some boys just feel that a relationship is about giving the lady everything she wants....saying everything she wants to hear,and always acting in a way she will accept...well I see the wisdom in this ...if all the guy is after is to have sex with the girl....sad

But if he is in a long term relationship that will lead to marriage...I believe in coming out clear...let the girl know her boundaries and her limitations....I hate when guys become pushovers suddenly because they are in love...mostt of them lose there views and opinions all because of a girl you are one day going to marry....

It's best you open up on issues that you don't agree with her ...and if it leads to disagreement,it's allowed...both of you are different people and need to disagree at times to understand each other's view and opinions with time and if you discover you can't cope walk away from the relationship and don't become a slave...all in a bid to please someone





i heared of story were a woman broke up with her husband to be...simply because she claimed he was too nice to her...and never disagreed with her on anything even when she was wrong...such a man ...she claimed can't handle a home because he lacks the firmness of a man and a decision of his own...

I wonder how this worthless piece of information will improve the life of all the useless people that brought this to my attention.

Nonsense.

Really

pansophist:
I guess by being too nice, she meant that he had no boundaries. He could be walked upon, can't assert himself and have an independent opinion that he can defend regardless if the world agrees with him. That he can be pushed over, doesn't holds her accountable and let her gets her way unrestrained no matter how irrational. If this is what he is, then yes, she is right for leaving him.

If not, then she is damaged and should be dropped back in the streets where she belongs.

What is your flaw?

luminouz:


Yinmu

I'm for real though

Anyway, howdy?