popsy2:


Okay. Thank you.

VEXT:


Initiated what, both of them were drunk for goodness sake, she may even be the one to throw the first kiss at him....
When you r drunk, you do stupid things!!!

popsy2:


Drunkenness is not a defense to rape. You will only be nailing your own casket if you bring that argument to court. Even if you prove that you were drunk, it won't avail you.

My advice: don't tell the court that the lady was drunk nor you. Whatever you do, don't acknowledge that the woman was drunk. No consensual sex can be had in such a state.

popsy2:


My argument is in order. It matters not, whether the man was drunk during the act. It is a non-issue. The crime of rape is to protect women, who are considered the vulnerable gender. Once it is established that the woman was under the influence of alcohol or any substance, the man will be knocked for it. It may sound illogical to you, but that's the law.

Izabel:

he said it himself he initiated it. Learn to read before typing jargon

popsy2:
Yes, that was rape. She was under the influence of alcohol, hence, not capable of giving a valid consent at that point in time. You can't now say that the sex was consensual. You took advantage of her at her weakest point. This would be my argument if I am representing the lady.

popsy2:
Yes, that was rape. She was under the influence of alcohol, hence, not capable of giving a valid consent at that point in time. You can't now say that the sex was consensual. You took advantage of her at her weakest point. This would be my argument if I am representing the lady.

pk2me:
You are guilty of the act bcus from your post the lady wouldn't have consented to it if she's in her normal senses. You decided to take her for clubbing inorder to get her drunk and take advantage of her.
Mr Man, u are very guilty and it's a deliberate act from you, stop giving excuses of getting drunk. You planned it and it went smoothly as u planned.

Jbleenk:


Mind u I said the sex wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses. I was under the influence, too. Isn’t that a valid argument on my part?

Nigerianization:


............and she didn't take advantage of him right. As if it is only men that have konji.

She should have filed a report immediately and not erroneously assume a girlfriend role after a one night stand.

Kondomatic:
What you're trying to prove here is that a drunk woman consenting to sex was raped by the man because the equally drunk man had a poor control over himself and raped the woman.


Does it even make sense?

capitalzero:

Men tolerated alcohol more than women

capitalzero:

You cannot initiate sex under influence of alcohol. Definitely, you were not under influence of alcohol. She was.

Kondomatic:
What you're trying to prove here is that a drunk woman consenting to sex was raped by the man because the equally drunk man had a poor control over himself and raped the woman.


Does it even make sense?

Jbleenk:
2yrs ago, a youth corper served in a company I managed. One Friday evening we both went out clubbing with 2 of my friends.

There were lots to drink and lots of dancing and body contact. It was fun and at the end of the night we both were under the influence quite obviously. One thing led to the other and we both had sex that night. I’m sure this wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses.

However, it happened and it was consensual, as in, no persuasion, no force we both wanted it and we both had it albeit under the influence nonetheless, although I initiated it.

Days later she grew wings and became nonchalant with her duties and I wasn’t gonna take any of that then she started threatening to report me to her ZI of taking advantage of her. I called her bluff and asked if I raped her.

Long story short I had to send her away for insubordination and nonchalant to duties.

My question here is: in light of the build up before we had sex that night, can I be done for for rape? Just watching my back just in case she came out in future accusing me of rape.

I need answers from lawyers, please.