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Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Canvass: 12:10pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
popsy2: I don't know nada about law but I feel this Popsy guy is making sense. He went as far as saying the guy shouldn't admit to intoxication of both parties involved or that would nail him. I read Michael Crichton's 'Disclosure' and I know how tricky a rape case could get. In the court of law, truth may not win, fact wins all the time. What do I know? I wish the op all the best as you find a resolution to your problem. |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by greatbuc(m): 1:12pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
If you were truly drunk, how did you recall asking for sex first? You shouldn't shoot your self in the foot and now we know you were not fully drunk and you premeditated sleeping with her.. You took that advantage when she got drunk and now.. Once you are claiming to be drunk.. Run away from detailing.. Use words like 'I think we had sex cause I got up the morning after to realise my clothes were off 'the last thing I remembered was talking to her while drinking Lawyers will try to set you up on how drunk you were. Nothing should make sense especially during the act. Aftermath of the act is what you should focus on like what she said when she woke up and your good byes 1 Like |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Izabel(f): 2:01pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
VEXT:he said it himself he initiated it. Learn to read before typing jargon 3 Likes |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Kondomatic(m): 2:08pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
popsy2:What you're trying to prove here is that a drunk woman consenting to sex was raped by the man because the equally drunk man had a poor control over himself and raped the woman. Does it even make sense? |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Kondomatic(m): 2:10pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
popsy2:A smart ass lawyer can flip the case over and claim that the man didn't consent to sex because he was drunk. |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by VEXT: 2:12pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Izabel:Okay Madam jargon |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Lifestone(m): 3:45pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
popsy2:I will probably argue that she raped the man because the man was under the office influence of alcohol and could not make reasonable judgement. She took advantage of the man. |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Nigerianization(m): 6:40pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
popsy2: ............and she didn't take advantage of him right. As if it is only men that have konji. She should have filed a report immediately and not erroneously assume a girlfriend role after a one night stand. |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Oksman(m): 2:05am On Nov 15, 2020 |
pk2me: Premeditated act! You nailed it. |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by capitalzero: 4:42am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Jbleenk:You cannot initiate sex under influence of alcohol. Definitely, you were not under influence of alcohol. She was. 2 Likes |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by capitalzero: 4:46am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Nigerianization:Report to who? Police would even laugh at her. Even most murderers don't get punished . |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by capitalzero: 4:47am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Kondomatic:Men tolerated alcohol more than women |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Sirventor01(m): 5:23am On Nov 15, 2020 |
2years, Corper, Z.i, am confused But anyways She is just crazy, why didn’t she come out immediately, why come Out now because she has been sacked for are insubordination. No mind am |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by OfficialAPCNig: 8:16am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Don't nail yourself with that "we were drunk and I initiated the move" shit. Simple, she kissed you first and stick to that narrative. 1 Like |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Kondomatic(m): 8:16am On Nov 15, 2020 |
capitalzero:Not every man |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Jbleenk: 12:52pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
capitalzero: Stop saying what u don’t know for sure. I need to state it that before we even engage in sex we talked and laughed we each other for at least half an hour. So I’m saying with all intent that there was no case of rape. |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Sixfeetbelle: 3:18pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Kondomatic: I'm not a lawyer ooh but I understand what he's saying perfectly. Op has admitted that on a normal day, the lady wouldn't have had sex with him so if they went clubbing and later had sex, a lawyer can argue that Op knew she didn't like him and so used alcohol as a leverage to get her to sleep with him (intent). Also if she's drunk, consent can be argued. Facts will prove that a drunk person isn't in a state to give consent. However with Op saying he initiated the sex, a lawyer can argue he wasn't drunk to have able to initiate sex, no matter how drunk he claims he is. So ultimately proving he purposely got her to sleep with him without her consent AKA rape. Omo, this is a dicey situation and a good lawyer can send him to jail for rape. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Kondomatic(m): 3:33pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Don't say what the OP didn't say. Here's is what he said One thing led to the other and we both had sex that night. I’m sure this wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses He did specify why it wouldn't have happened. Could be him that is not interested in the lady. Sixfeetbelle:If he's not drunk. Sixfeetbelle:Two drunk people had sex, always remember that. Sixfeetbelle:You people keep talking about a smart lawyer as if she's the only person that's allowed access to one. You can't just get up and say the guy planned everything without knowing what happened that lead to their clubbing and how she got drunk, that's who got her drunk. She was not raped and she can't prove otherwise. 1 Like |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by crackhaus: 5:08pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Jbleenk:She was drunk, you were drunk, you danced together, had fun together... both of you may never have had sex with each other if you weren't intoxicated... The way I see it, If she claims you took advantage of her, then she also took advantage of you. You raped her and she raped you... You should not have more responsibility in the matter. She's not a minor, and neither are you. Equal responsibility. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by mamato(f): 5:24pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Your mind is now judging you, you know from your deepest heart that you didn't seek her consent, you initiated the sex because you noticed she was drunk and might yield without any struggle. You can twist the story but we know the truth. |
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