Madibah:
this is why I advise people to take MJ

Madibah:
this is why I advise people to take MJ

Brandonx:
I don't know why I find your writeup amusing! But Sister don't worry ehn we ve got you covered.
@ luminouz is here for you.

Nueel:
You just have to stay strong this period.

Forget about what your ex said and concentrate on work. This life no hard o. Try and get along with folks around you, so as to forget about the breakup stuff. Work on yourself too. This life no hard o

Brandonx:
I don't know why I find your writeup amusing! But Sister don't worry ehn we ve got you covered.
@ luminouz is here for you.

luminouz:


That FUQ?

Who is she?

Brandonx:

She needs your help

Pancakeey:
I guess that’s why my ass was dumped. My ex said I brought nothing to the table except feelings.

But I can’t be heartbroken and still broke

[s]Long story short, I need kind words from you guys.[/s]

Zzor:
what is MJ?

Pancakeey:
What's that?

Pancakeey:
Hello, Nairalanders.
I’m really sad plus, this is the first time I’ll be telling total strangers what’s bothering me. But I thought why not?

So, I just recently became single and I’m healing or trying to cope with it. After my breakup, I realized that I had no one except my boyfriend (as a friend)
Now, I’m going through a tough time, my work is stressing me out and little things just make me cry. It feels like I’m not growing like there’s no change in my life.

I guess that’s why my ass was dumped. My ex said I brought nothing to the table except feelings.

It’s worse because my work has become more demanding and I don’t think I can keep up with it. But I can’t be heartbroken and still broke. How do I keep a clear head? How do I stay strong despite all these? I have no one to talk to and I feel I’m alone.

I’m losing it. When it feels like everything is finally going right for me it turns sour again.

Long story short, I need kind words from you guys.
I have so many things I want to achieve but my weak heart is failing me.

Pancakeey:
Hello, Nairalanders.
I’m really sad plus, this is the first time I’ll be telling total strangers what’s bothering me. But I thought why not?

So, I just recently became single and I’m healing or trying to cope with it. After my breakup, I realized that I had no one except my boyfriend (as a friend)
Now, I’m going through a tough time, my work is stressing me out and little things just make me cry. It feels like I’m not growing like there’s no change in my life.

I guess that’s why my ass was dumped. My ex said I brought nothing to the table except feelings.

It’s worse because my work has become more demanding and I don’t think I can keep up with it. But I can’t be heartbroken and still broke. How do I keep a clear head? How do I stay strong despite all these? I have no one to talk to and I feel I’m alone.

I’m losing it. When it feels like everything is finally going right for me it turns sour again.

Long story short, I need kind words from you guys.
I have so many things I want to achieve but my weak heart is failing me.

Pancakeey:
Hello, Nairalanders.
I’m really sad plus, this is the first time I’ll be telling total strangers what’s bothering me. But I thought why not?

So, I just recently became single and I’m healing or trying to cope with it. After my breakup, I realized that I had no one except my boyfriend (as a friend)
Now, I’m going through a tough time, my work is stressing me out and little things just make me cry. It feels like I’m not growing like there’s no change in my life.

I guess that’s why my ass was dumped. My ex said I brought nothing to the table except feelings.

It’s worse because my work has become more demanding and I don’t think I can keep up with it. But I can’t be heartbroken and still broke. How do I keep a clear head? How do I stay strong despite all these? I have no one to talk to and I feel I’m alone.

I’m losing it. When it feels like everything is finally going right for me it turns sour again.

Long story short, I need kind words from you guys.
I have so many things I want to achieve but my weak heart is failing me.

light099:




From those points I was able to pick out from your post, it's obvious what you really want but somehow along the way, you still managed to maneuver and wear an entirely different garment on your intention at the end, in order to give a right impression of your wrong motive.
Well, every other person on the thread might be carried away but you and I really know that kind words are the least thing you desire at the moment, that is why I canceled it out. What you really need is a cheerful giving maga who could bankroll your broke ass on a steady, while at the same time he would put up with your inability to contribute anything to the parasitic relationship and your unavailability because of your tight work schedule.
Whenever you're ready to be useful to yourself and others in life, getting good friends is the least of your problems but a parasite has no friends.

Truvel:
What Is Or Are D Reasons 4 D Sadness? Is It Because Of D Break Up? Or D Job? Or Because U Are Broke? Or Because U Feel U Are Alone?

TATALoAlaMu:
Don't rush. Spend some time with family.

Pancakeey:

Family is unavailable.
I’m just alone at home

SpeciMental:
@Pancakeey

Many would speak soft, comforting words to you in a bid to show empathy. However, when all fleeting hugs and kisses are over, you'd still be left with your current predicament.
Here, I give you raw truth that you must pay the price to realize and find true freedom.

Every situation you find yourself in life is an opportunity to grow and become a better you, both the highs and lows.
Your ex might have been a great guy or not, and he may have been right or not about you. It matters not. Now he's left you with an opportunity for you to invest more time and resources into yourself.

You have an opportunity here to learn the power to be alone yet not lonely.
Without this as the basis of your life, all relationships and endeavours you commit to will be at a compromise of inner peace with yourself and self-realisation.

Nevertheless, acknowledging the basic human need for companionship, this only becomes possible if you bring yourself to decide to commit solely to investing in your personal capacity till you're capable of making your wildest dreams come true.
Seek companionship from your dreams making a chair at your table for them so they always sit before you and making a bed for them in your head so they always lie down with you. They are worthy companions, more than enough in number, and will stick with you till your last breath if you stick with them.

You must start by making a list of all the things you'd love to do on earth before you're gone and start to invest in yourself right now, in any little way possible until you're capable of making them a reality.

#Unemotional, purely mental from the philosophical Specimen#

pcguru1:


You're a lady so my advice is different a bit, there's no shame in feeling like that, we are all humans. But you have to have this mentality that you have your own self to watch out for.

Having a balanced life or an hobby, or something you can put your energy into, I am a guy , or we are guys, some of us do not know how to process heart-break, as it's just another disappointment to us as usual. So I will say don't focus too much on that, the revenge is living well.

Then going out matters a lot, you will connect with like-minds. Corona is here now, so it might be limited, go out, or join all those travel groups on Instagram where they visit places.

then do a form of self-development, what skills can you pick up, and what field can you go into. Living a fulfilled life is the only way one can stay steady, if not it would just seem like you are working and there is no purpose. With all these, this will give you a sense of growth till relationship picks up. That is my honest advice.

Brandonx:
I don't know why I find your writeup amusing! But Sister don't worry ehn we ve got you covered.
@ luminouz is here for you.

TATALoAlaMu:

Sent you a PM

Pancakeey:

Everything is enough reason to mad me sad.
I’m not where I expected I should have been this year.
The year is almost over and I’m ending it alone and broke.