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|Please Ur Advise by mikebrain5(m): 10:16pm On Nov 20, 2020|
I am in a family of six inwhich i am the senior among them.But i had this issue with my parents that made me angry always,the issue is that they always take side on my sibling lead them to irregular insult from them.
So please i u guys advise
|Re: Please Ur Advise by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 20, 2020|
Same way God ordered Abraham to leave his father's house is the same way I want to order you out of that place.
|Re: Please Ur Advise by boldx: 10:34pm On Nov 20, 2020|
mikebrain5:Before I comment, how old are you?
|Re: Please Ur Advise by Karleb(m): 10:35pm On Nov 20, 2020|
What if the guy is not of age yet? What if he's 18?
|Re: Please Ur Advise by mikebrain5(m): 1:39am On Nov 21, 2020|
|Re: Please Ur Advise by boldx: 2:28am On Nov 21, 2020|
mikebrain5:Young man, God is building you up in life. Pray and ask God for strength in adversity. If you cannot survive in your parents house, you cannot survive anywhere else.
Love your siblings unconditionally.
|Re: Please Ur Advise by mikebrain5(m): 9:52am On Nov 21, 2020|
|Re: Please Ur Advise by SweepingBroom(f): 9:56am On Nov 21, 2020|
Maybe you are old enough to move out. It's one thing that happens between parents and children
|Re: Please Ur Advise by mariahAngel: 1:34pm On Nov 21, 2020|
How is your attitude towards your parents?
What brought about the whole issue?
Could it be that you disrespected your parents, which your younger siblings couldn't tolerate, then stood up to you?
Not everyone that brings their complaint to nairaland is innocent.
|Re: Please Ur Advise by mikebrain5(m): 2:47pm On Nov 21, 2020|
mariahAngel:Is that so
|Re: Please Ur Advise by Wittyglam(f): 8:52pm On Nov 21, 2020|
Have you tried talking to your parents alone about how you if? If yes, and the still didn't change it's time to leave.
|Re: Please Ur Advise by NairalandSARS: 6:37am On Nov 22, 2020|
mikebrain5:Oboy leave your parents' house and never return again.
|Re: Please Ur Advise by Noloss(f): 3:10pm On Nov 22, 2020|
|Re: Please Ur Advise by tobechi74: 5:48pm On Nov 22, 2020|
So it’s actually shocking and funny when people act like you commit heresy by saying African parents are toxic and/or abusive. This is not me pointing an accusing finger at your family (although if you feel attacked, check your family) and it is by no means a generalization. I think it’s interesting how people I’ve interacted with that have abusive parents never agree that their parents are abusive but are sometimes the same ones that say the minute they move out of their parents’ house, they’re done with their parents.
I believe and always say that the first step to progress is acceptance, you’ve got to accept your reality as it is, no painting and colouring. How do you explain parents cutting their children with broken plates because they broke a plate? Or how do you explain a parent constantly using whips and belt heads to flog their children? Or you think that’s too extreme? What about the parents whose teaching/correction/love language is cane? Or slaps? Are you raising goats?
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