I have been married for 4 years plus, never cheated or anything close but sometimes I think about my ex girlfriends wonder how they are doing and even think about what if. I have 3 in particular that always come to my mind occasionally.
PS I am happy with my marriage and my wife knows about all 3 I'm talking about. Just want to know if there are people like me and what they think about it

it's not ok, you will definitely cheat sooner

Ghengiskhan:
I have been married for 4 years plus, never cheated or anything close but sometimes I think about my ex girlfriends wonder how they are doing and even think about what if. I have 3 in particular that always come to my mind occasionally.
PS I am happy with my marriage and my wife knows about all 3 I'm talking about. Just want to know if there are people like me and what they think about it

It sometimes happen but you've got to wave off the thoughts as soon as they come to mind... before it settles in

It is a normal thing to miss them but OP you need deliverance. run to TB Joshua asap

Ghengiskhan:
I have been married for 4 years plus, never cheated or anything close but sometimes I think about my ex girlfriends wonder how they are doing and even think about what if. I have 3 in particular that always come to my mind occasionally.
PS I am happy with my marriage and my wife knows about all 3 I'm talking about. Just want to know if there are people like me and what they think about it

It's not right, you have already started cheating with your mind, it's just a matter of time before you start doing it. Work on your mindset

You are not ok with your marriage

3 ex!! damn

Coming from a man.. a lady will be having an average of 7 ex.. marriage is useless in this generation..

Not only the fact that your partner has been used but they are just getting married just to fulfill societal custom

Ghengiskhan:
I have been married for 4 years plus, never cheated or anything close but sometimes I think about my ex girlfriends wonder how they are doing and even think about what if. I have 3 in particular that always come to my mind occasionally.
PS I am happy with my marriage and my wife knows about all 3 I'm talking about. Just want to know if there are people like me and what they think about it

That's the devil bro trying to plant bad notions in your head. Resist him and he'll flee.

You're married, concentrate on your wife and believe me, you'll enjoy peace of mind

Ghengiskhan:
I have been married for 4 years plus, never cheated or anything close but sometimes I think about my ex girlfriends wonder how they are doing and even think about what if. I have 3 in particular that always come to my mind occasionally.
PS I am happy with my marriage and my wife knows about all 3 I'm talking about. Just want to know if there are people like me and what they think about it

it is normal...to feel that way..you can never completely erase people from your mind.as far as you ain’t thinking bad thoughts..your marriage is safe.xx

Not okay. There is definitely something that your wife is lacking that you crave in those ex girlfriends.

I will recommend a therapist!

You can't have it all, move on!

Zzor:
It's not right, you have already started cheating with your mind, it's just a matter of time before you start doing it. Work on your mindset

Zzor this one that you didn't insult him e be like say US man dey work ooo

I'll happy 4 u

Zzor:
It's not right, you have already started cheating with your mind, it's just a matter of time before you start doing it. Work on your mindset

Experience..... Lol

Once fuccked is always fuckkking...........

Shey i even get ex like dis


Cos we usually part ways due to change of environment or distance..........


Dont tink i ve ever told any girl "its over" and vice versa........

Till i marry i will knw....................

Ghengiskhan:
I have been married for 4 years plus, never cheated or anything close but sometimes I think about my ex girlfriends wonder how they are doing and even think about what if. I have 3 in particular that always come to my mind occasionally.
PS I am happy with my marriage and my wife knows about all 3 I'm talking about. Just want to know if there are people like me and what they think about it

papa if you continue like this you may end up killing yourself...

Bornsinner7:
You are not ok with your marriage

3 ex!! damn

Coming from a man.. a lady will be having an average of 7 ex.. marriage is useless in this generation..

Not only the fact that your partner has been used but they are just getting married just to fulfill societal custom

lol. TBH, marriage these days na scam.

I always make sure I figure number of exes a girl has had in the past. imagine a 20yr old girl having about 3 exes already. even had the nerve to tell me she once stayed for 7 months celibate without prick.

mehn I had to do the needful and dump the emotionally wrecked girl.

21cents:
lol. TBH, marriage these days na scam.

I always make sure I figure number of exes a girl has had in the past. imagine a 20yr old girl having about 3 exes already. even had the nerve to tell me she once stayed for 7 months celibate without prick.

mehn I had to do the needful and dump the emotionally wrecked girl.

WTF!!
These ex shit keeps ruining a lot of marriages, our generation is going if not already full of failed marriages..

look at this one now saying he is thinking of his ex, who knows if he still goes to Bleep them secretly..

Bornsinner7:
WTF!!
These ex shit keeps ruining a lot of marriages, our generation is going if not already full of failed marriages..

look at this one now saying he is thinking of his ex, who knows if he still goes to Bleep them secretly..

lol. now I know why my friend married a girl that just graduated from sec sch last year, while he's a graduate.

him say any girl wey no be virgin na used product, and that those she's had in the past can never be erased from her memories for life. said best to marry a girl not more than 20. cos them never too use her for that age.

so many redflags in my previous relationship. girl was still keeping her exes contacts on her phone. I found out recently she still got my number too. abeg try distance yourself from those kinda girls that still dey keep ex numbers for phone. it's very disastrous to marry that kinda girl.

It is a normal thing to miss them but OP you need deliverance. run to TB Joshua asap

YoonSung63:
it's not ok, you will definitely cheat sooner

That's not happening

Zzor:
It's not right, you have already started cheating with your mind, it's just a matter of time before you start doing it. Work on your mindset

How do you cheat with ? Even my wife sometimes will say just imagine you married F, how will your kids look like.

Bornsinner7:
You are not ok with your marriage

3 ex!! damn

Coming from a man.. a lady will be having an average of 7 ex.. marriage is useless in this generation..

Not only the fact that your partner has been used but they are just getting married just to fulfill societal custom

Dude I'm very ok with what I have now because it was my decision to leave them. I had my share women before marrying my wife

I think it's perfectly normal

Just as it is ok to run a DNA test on ur children because no be only u dey miss ex

Just as it is ok to run a DNA test on ur children because no be only u dey miss ex, u can only speak for urself

Ghengiskhan:
I have been married for 4 years plus, never cheated or anything close but sometimes I think about my ex girlfriends wonder how they are doing and even think about what if. I have 3 in particular that always come to my mind occasionally.
PS I am happy with my marriage and my wife knows about all 3 I'm talking about. Just want to know if there are people like me and what they think about it

Veeery funny. Not even one, 3. How can you be loving/thinking of 3women. One os even permissible.

This os what happens when a man marries the woman he didnt originally want. When the preferable is not available, the available becomes the preferable