When I was single, I dated a fair amount of women, a lot them African, while stationed here in Germany and the Igbo sistas, for real, always played the hardest get, but always took care of me very well and treated me very nice, they take care of their men very good, but for some odd reason they were always a little harder on me than on African men. AA men are not generally known to be players, but I always got treated like one, I wonder why? Igbos where you at?

so where are you from?

I'm African American of Barbadian descent, second generation on my mom side and African American on my dad side. I posted one of my old pics in another thread.

hmmm ok

I don't think this applies to all Igbo women. Probably was only your experience

Likewise Barbadian women cos Barbadians are of Igbo descent, lol. Ron, that could be ur xperience, im an Igbo son and i hv lots of them(ladies) at my beck and call. Their prove of hard 2 get attributes their worth,self value and uniqueness. Just try another lady, could be easy 2 get this time. Goodluck

My mother is Bajan so yeah, I know, Barbadian women can play hard to get, didn't know Bajan women are mostly Igbo descent. I'm married now, to a Moroccan woman, no more lady chasing for me, but lol, Igbo women are very hard to get, even with my best game as I was younger.

I think it used to be more of a why date who you err. . .can't marry sort of thing and not playing hard to get. So many don't bother with dating. But times are changing.

The funny is that since I've been married these women think they're slick, sitting there staring at me giving me winks when they didn't give me no play before I was married. They think I'm a sellout for marrying a Moroccan woman, but an African is an African so how am I selling out?

Any one who wants Gold must dig deep.
Igbo women are so unique and special.

Andre Uweh:

Any one who wants Gold must dig deep.
Igbo women are so unique and special.

Agreed. It is good to see other cherish our women.