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Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by VBCampaign: 1:01pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Resolving Marriage Crisis the Gov. Ortom Way By: Deji Yesufu The matter of spousal abuse was brought to fore again this past few days in the annals of Nigeria’s never ending melodrama when one Ifeyinwa Angbo took to Twitter and published a 90 second video of her ordeal in the hands of her husband, Pius Angbo – a staff of Channels television. In the video, Ifeyinwa explained that she is a medical doctor and had been married for six year – a union that has produced four children. With her face only recently brutalized, she talked about how she had endured years of beating at the hands of her husband. To the extent of this man sitting on her while she was pregnant and thumbing on the wounds of her caesarean section. In matters of hours the video had gone viral and had even reached the office of the Benue State Governor. Governor Samuel Ortom stepped into the family crisis and the matter has since been resolved. A news conference was granted and the public was duly informed of the couple resolving their issues and hopefully they will live happily ever after. Source: https://textandpublishing.com/resolving-marriage-crisis-the-gov-ortom-way/ 19 Likes
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Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Mryacks: 7:25pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
This was a good read and it pointed out lots of very important information, questions and I dare say, useful advice on the institution of marriage especially in our climes here. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by efighter: 8:29pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
The writer is mad, she has always been 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by VBCampaign: 9:59pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
efighter: Mryacks: Compare and contrast the two comments. Seun, Mynd44, Lalasticlala consider for front page 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by EdmundChidera(m): 5:49am On Dec 09, 2020 |
I still wonder why some people hates the fact that he resolved their martial issues, marriage issues always occurs that's why we have consultant that addresses the issue or a third party. Ortom as a Governor can help because he's a married man and an elder as well 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Abuimam6: 5:49am On Dec 09, 2020 |
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Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by mrkings84(m): 5:50am On Dec 09, 2020 |
If the learned and highly educated can't have a blissful spousal union then you need to agree with me that marriage is a union than can only be successful when ordain by God the creator of the institution 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by sojayy(m): 5:50am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Going by the assault video, the man no get joy at all, what if she had died eventually?.......In a sane country this man should be jailed immediately..... nonsense n pius angbo ![]() 23 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Authoreety: 5:51am On Dec 09, 2020 |
If you see what really happens in marriages eh... U will stay away from marriage... E nor easy at all at all.... Aswearugad 7 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Simplebeauty: 5:54am On Dec 09, 2020 |
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Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Israel5(m): 5:55am On Dec 09, 2020 |
I believe this writeup had the christian community in mind. I can't be wrong. But I can almost feel the presence of atheists and troublemakers commenting. Why is the reconciliation paining some of you?? As far as a Christian marriage is concerned, there is always room for reconciliation, no matter the hurt incurred. Who heads the reconciliation plan is what's in contention here, I suppose. But mind you, the governor is also a father, an elder & a Pastor, so give him a break. Doctor & Journalist?! hmm. From experience, I can bet she earns more, so tell me... it would take grace to respect the one that God has placed as head. No pun! she won't be without a fault. But a lot of Christians are quick to judge one party, calling for divorce, etc. There should be sanctions by ChannelsTV (I want that). However, even if the man is guilty, the woman isn't ready to quit. Is she?! she probably wants him to be sorry again (Yes! she's put up with it for 6years). She has probably made a mistake with marrying such a man, like many do, but he is not beyond redemption. Too bad she made the mistake of giving some misfits the duty to advise her on social media. Simply put: Marriage is for the Godly. The manual is the scriptures, not the media or government. No body, not even a spiritual leader, will be a good spouse, if they do not play by the rules of engagement; Agape love (as Christ love the Church), & Respect for each other. Love of God would transcend to your spouse. And respect for each other. Deji A. said made valid points. Marriage is a mystery that no none spiritual entity can be successful in it. It is a spiritual union for the spiritual. Shalom. 5 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by SAMBARRY: 5:56am On Dec 09, 2020 |
![]() Governor now a Marital counsellor ![]() Madam if you die,you just die for nothing Check past antecedents of women wey die for nothing because they marry your kind husband Shebi Na only slap wey he slap you,he go soon break your head. Anyway you're a medical doctor so you know the drug you will prescribe for yourself Medical doctor wey no get sense.keep exposing your children to a violent and turbulent marriage When you die the governor,his entourage and your family Will come and cry crocodile tears and pay your husband courtesy visit, that's if he is not already fuckin another woman After that day life goes on Abi who remembers titi arowolo again? ![]() See the fools standing behind smiling like imbeciles ![]() 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Aboguede(m): 5:57am On Dec 09, 2020 |
I am disappointed by this idiot nonsense time wasting mumu writer Can't u just give ur readers exactly what they hoped to know The topic says (solving marriage problem the ortom way) but u just wanted people's time only talking about you senseless self and ur animal life Instead of simply reporting what and the strategy people came to read Ewu Kparawo 4 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by WetSmoke: 5:58am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Nice write up |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Chikelue2000(m): 5:59am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Abeg I dey sleep |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by sagitariusbaby(m): 6:01am On Dec 09, 2020 |
What I see here is some audio settlement just to please the person of the governor. That mad dog called Anbo would definitely get high and beat the living day light out of his wife again in no distance time because chronic wife beaters like him hardly change. That woman should pack her bags and leave that marriage or else we maybe having another murder case in court soon 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:02am On Dec 09, 2020 |
The video we saw Ifeyinwa make was still her own side of the story; the man in question has not said his own side of the story. But for that sort of injury we saw on her face, And he sitting on her tummy after a CS, The Channels TV man must be a semi-animal in human skin! We Rise! capitalzero:You have a very good point here bro. He could be as guilty as charged. One of us @[/b] who is a Barrister just told us that, Sometimes in law, [b]SILENCE MEANS CONSENT! teamsynergy:If that is the way your hate-filled brain interprete our post, We owe you no explanation! We don't have the time to school you like a 5 year old....Okay? Get Busy with life, the year is almost over. No Cap! texazzpete:That was what the writer we quoted was exactly doing....Supporting violence! 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by NdigboWorldwide: 6:02am On Dec 09, 2020 |
The governor has no business settling that case, the husband ouat to be in jail in a sane clime for such an assault on that lady. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Authoreety: 6:04am On Dec 09, 2020 |
post=96879609: Hmmm ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Bestinstinct(m): 6:04am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Marital issues if this nature goes beyond media trials and paparazzi. SMH |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by golddare: 6:04am On Dec 09, 2020 |
VBCampaign: Wives beaters no dey repent o but I just hope I am wrong. 5 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Bestinstinct(m): 6:06am On Dec 09, 2020 |
post=96879609:Is there a justifiable reason to serially beat ones wife? Just asking... 3 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by legacystore: 6:06am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Beautiful nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by teamsynergy: 6:18am On Dec 09, 2020 |
The Nigga looks like he will do it again..... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by PinkHealthGroup: 6:19am On Dec 09, 2020 |
EdmundChidera: She will end up dead. Penny wise, pound foolish. 2 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Realhommie(m): 6:19am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Marriage is a difficult and mysterious institution. It is even more so in a country like Nigeria. I couldn't agree any less.. Very beautiful piece, nicely put. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by teamsynergy: 6:20am On Dec 09, 2020 |
post=96879609: I am sure if the guy kills her too, you will ask to hear his side of the story ,so you can find a way to excuse his henious crime 5 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by PinkHealthGroup: 6:22am On Dec 09, 2020 |
post=96879609:there is no excuse for sitting on a cs incision. That woman will end up dead. Saddest she can incur internal hemorrhages and increased intracranial pressure with all the blows to her head. She needs to move on from that man. He will murder her. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by teamsynergy: 6:23am On Dec 09, 2020 |
EdmundChidera: A man that chokes his wife, sits or her incision, beats a nursing mother mercilessly infront of their kids ... I pray you never experience this.... 7 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by capitalzero: 6:23am On Dec 09, 2020 |
post=96879609: But the man refuses to share his story. I learnt he is a cheater and womaniser. I think the man should speak up if he has nothing to hide. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by BafanaBafana: 6:25am On Dec 09, 2020 |
And the man is also lucky that he has an idle governor. If Ortom was busy working as a governor should, he wouldn't have had time for marriage counseling |
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