What will make you change the way and manner you treat your partner?

Sitting with my bottle of cold whiskyed yoghurt, by this sea shore, present but yet lost in thoughts, I can't help but wonder.

Sometimes, I still wonder if the reason for love lost , and none found, is simply the disease of unmet/unfulfilled expectations or the desease of miscommunication?

Which do you think is the bigger cancer killing modern marriages?

Do you believe in Ayi Kwe Arman's position that the beautyful ones are not yet born?

Or are today's marriages simply without a grain of wheat?

I still recall Ngugi mentioned in his book that unless the grain falls to the ground and dies, it abides alone.

But most modern marriages seldom want to undergo this ritual. Could this be the cause?

Let's talk

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What will make you change the way and manner you treat your partner?

Sitting with my bottle of cold whiskyed yoghurt, by this sea shore, present but yet lost in thoughts, I can't help but wonder.

Sometimes, I still wonder if the reason for love lost , and none found, is simply the disease of unmet/unfulfilled expectations or the desease of miscommunication?

Which do you think is the bigger cancer killing modern marriages?

Do you believe in Ayi Kwe Arman's position that the beautyful ones are not yet born?

Or are today's marriages simply without a grain of wheat?

I still recall Ngugi mentioned in his book that unless the grain falls to the ground and dies, it abides alone.

But most modern marriages seldom want to undergo this ritual. Could this be the cause?

Let's talk

Was it Ngugi Wa' Thiongo that originally said the thing about a grain falling to the ground or the bible?

Back to topic, I think the reason is unrealistic expectations. People expect perfection from others when they are far from perfection themselves.