I just created this account, so I can hear you guys views and opinion on what am about to say. Now this isn't some fiction or made up stuff, I am being 100% real here. And please don't mind my errors.

I stay with my Elder brother on the mainland who lives in a two bedroom apartment, I have been with him since June this year and I am 23 years old. We occupy one of the flats on the ground floor, while this my said neighbour, his wife and two kids occupies the one on the second floor. I work as a casual staff on the island with an IT firm, I do come back late in the night due to Lagos traffic wahala, so I don't even know most of the people staying around. Now fast forward to 3 weeks ago, I got sick and was down with typhoid, a nurse came around to administer drips on me and I took medications. Since last week I have fully recovered, but my Elder bro told me to relax for now, that he will work out something for me. These days that I have been around, I do see my neighbor wife and we greet ourselves( I must say she's dark, pretty and must be in her early 30s). Just few days back she added me on Facebook, am still surprised how she got my FB username. She chatted me up and we started talking. She said, she just wanna be friends with me. I said no problem. But the thing is, yesterday she said she is crushing on me on FB and don't mind we having intimate relationship. I told her it won't be possible since she's married and besides her husband is a good friend with my Elder bro. Now this morning, while I was alone at home she brought food for me, I don't want her to feel bad, so I took it. Now she's acting so nice around me and I don't want my Elder bro to feel anything. I am even thinking of telling him, but am scared things may turn south if her husband gets to know, she had already begged me not to tell anyone and I promised I won't tell anyone. Now pls how can I stop her from coming around me without causing bad blood ??. I would have given in because she is very hot with nice body, but she is married. I need your advice guys. Thanks

Please turn such down politely.. it's not ideal

Tell your big bro and tell her off too. You don't want her to feel bad my arse. What is there to protect in her? Reject her food and make it clear you don't want such behaviour from her again.

God bless you op. Men like us are very few. The best thing will be to tell your brother. Depends on how close you are. Then monitor her, don't lead her on, act uninterested with time she will loose interest.

Wahala wear agbada

The matter get as e be

That wman husband go dey smwhere dey thnk say he don get wife

Guy since you and the woman dey chat tell her say you no dey intrested make she stay off

Your home address let me come and handle the issue physically

Evil woman want to give you sour food chop. Call the woman and remind her how close your brother and her husband. Let her know that any attempt to tempt you again you will be left with no other option than to report her to your husband.

Mind you, as a young guy, stop greeting married women inside your compound and area. Many Delilah pretending to be married women.

You may have to tell your brother.

2mins and it's settled, drop her a long note on messenger, tell her ur not comfortable with her coming close to u and she should never in her wildest dream think of u going down with her, let her realize she's married woman and u will never think of having anything with her, give her a mature but serious warming to stay away from u b4 she cause big problem for u and her self.

Then monitor her read the message on messenger and block her on Facebook immediately.


Bro never let pressure push u to going down with someone's wife, ur life will never be same if u do...


But until she refuse to let u be after all these, still keep it to ur self and don't bring ur bro in...u will ruin her already with that

delishpot:
Tell your big bro and tell her off too. You don't want her to feel bad my arse. What is there to protect in her? Reject her food and make it clear you don't want such behaviour from her again.

I have made it clear, but seems she's that flirting type. Telling my bro may cause problems. But I will strictly tell her to stop. Thanks

DasaintHope:
God bless you op. Men like us are very few. The best thing will be to tell your brother. Depends on how close you are. Then monitor her, don't lead her on, act uninterested with time she will loose interest.

Well, I know he will tell her husband cos they are close. But I will try and Wade her off. Thanks

madridguy:


Your home address let me come and handle the issue physically

Evil woman want to give you sour food chop. Call the woman and remind her how close your brother and her husband. Let her know that any attempt to tempt you again you will be left with no other option than to report her to your husband.

Mind you, as a young guy, stop greeting married women inside your compound and area. Many Delilah pretending to be married women.

Op follow this guy

Speak up! Madam, I'm not interested, kindly stay off me or should I tell your husband

Jeremiih:


Well, I know he will tell her husband cos they are close. But I will try and Wade her off. Thanks

Try and make your brother see reasons not to tell his friend, that will be unwise. It will only make the relationship sour, and what you have been avoiding a reality. like I say communication is the key.

Well in my own opinion, I think you should not sleep on a bicycle on this, straff her but do it boringly like a novice. when she sees how poorly you are on bed you don't need no extra energy chasing her away. thank me later

OP smash the hell outta her and be a man.. You Still acting like a Jew. Anyways your age shows u still a kid.

Bola146:
Don't let her ruin your marriage! Soro soke! Speak up! Madam, I'm not interested, kindly stay off me or should I tell my wife

u didn't read well...OP isn't married

Don't Tell Ur Elder Brother. If She Gets To Know She May Start Seeing U As A Coward. Just Keep Maintaining Social Distancing.

nero2face:
u didn't read well...OP isn't married

I know. Or op is in a relationship now
I thought op is the owner of the apartment

madridguy:


Your home address let me come and handle the issue physically

Evil woman want to give you sour food chop. Call the woman and remind her how close your brother and her husband. Let her know that any attempt to tempt you again you will be left with no other option than to report her to your husband.


Mind you, as a young guy, stop greeting married women inside your compound and area. Many Delilah pretending to be married women.

OP don already bang dat lady for him mind. Can't you see he was even admiring her beauty and physique. . Probably he is having a double mind cos she is married. I can bet with my left ball if that woman bombs into this young OP and strips naked, sharp sharp this guy go baang am.

DasaintHope:

Try and make your brother see reasons not to tell his friend, that will be unwise. It will only make the relationship sour, and what you have been avoiding a reality. like I say communication is the key.

My elder bro will surely tell the husband. I know him.

nero2face:
2mins and it's settled, drop her a long note on messenger, tell her ur not comfortable with her coming close to u and she should never in her wildest dream think of u going down with her, let her realize she's married woman and u will never think of having anything with her, give her a mature but serious warming to stay away from u b4 she cause big problem for u and her self.

Then monitor her read the message on messenger and block her on Facebook immediately.


Bro never let pressure push u to going down with someone's wife, ur life will never be same if u do...


But until she refuse to let u be after all these, still keep it to ur self and don't bring ur bro in...u will ruin her already with that

I said it in my write up already. I have told her.
Anyways thanks for the advice.

Truvel:
Don't Tell Ur Elder Brother. If She Gets To Know She May Start Seeing U As A Coward. Just Keep Maintaining Social Distancing.

You just said what's exactly on my mind bro. Thanks and I will do that.

CuteMike01:
Reject all her gifts and offers. Avoid staying with her in secluded places then block her from all media. Never show interest in her at all. In fact act like she doesn't exist.
If you think you won't offend her by rejecting her, then you are living in a fool's paradise

Hmmm... Thanks bro

Tell her straight up that she should stop coming to your apartment and that if it continues,you will have no option but to tell your brother.

Bola146:
Don't let her ruin your marriage! Soro soke! Speak up! Madam, I'm not interested, kindly stay off me or should I tell my wife

read!!!!!!! OP isnt married

Be very careful, but don't tell your brother. It could ruin her marriage and you'll be blamed for breaking them up. Just tell her that you value the friendship her husband has with your elder brother, and you value her marriage as well.

What she has towards you is infatuation, with time it will fade off.

Op talk true shey na Afonja woman ?

Na deir way be that , Dem nor dey use eye see preeq at all

thorpido:
Tell her straight up that she should stop coming to your apartment and that if it continues,you will have no option but to tell your brother.

Told her she coming isn't good, that some other neighbors may notice it. She said we won't do anything around to avoid suspicion, that she knows a far away hotel we can go have fun. She is just that flirting type.

Dreyton36:
Op talk true shey na Afonja woman ?

Na deir way be that , Dem nor dey use eye see preeq at all

What's Afonja ??

Anyways she's from the south, don't wanna play the ethnic card that is why I didn't mention her tribe.

Jeremiih:
I just created this account, so I can hear you guys views and opinion on what am about to say. Now this isn't some fiction or made up stuff, I am being 100% real here. And please don't mind my errors.

I stay with my Elder brother on the mainland who lives in a two bedroom apartment, I have been with him since June this year and I am 23 years old. We occupy one of the flats on the ground floor, while this my said neighbour, his wife and two kids occupies the one on the second floor. I work as a casual staff on the island with an IT firm, I do come back late in the night due to Lagos traffic wahala, so I don't even know most of the people staying around. Now fast forward to 3 weeks ago, I got sick and was down with typhoid, a nurse came around to administer drips on me and I took medications. Since last week I have fully recovered, but my Elder bro told me to relax for now, that he will work out something for me. These days that I have been around, I do see my neighbor wife and we greet ourselves( I must say she's dark, pretty and must be in her early 30s). Just few days back she added me on Facebook, am still surprised how she got my FB username. She chatted me up and we started talking. She said, she just wanna be friends with me. I said no problem. But the thing is, yesterday she said she is crushing on me on FB and don't mind we having intimate relationship. I told her it won't be possible since she's married and besides her husband is a good friend with my Elder bro. Now this morning, while I was alone at home she brought food for me, I don't want her to feel bad, so I took it. Now she's acting so nice around me and I don't want my Elder bro to feel anything. I am even thinking of telling him, but am scared things may turn south if her husband gets to know, she had already begged me not to tell anyone and I promised I won't tell anyone. Now pls how can I stop her from coming around me without causing bad blood ??. I would have given in because she is very hot with nice body, but she is married. I n WW2eed your advice guys. Thanks

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She added u on Facebook and next thing shes crushing on u..
Just like that.

Continue.

Matheusmartin:
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She added u on Facebook and next thing shes crushing on u..
Just like that.

Continue.

Did you read my post very well??. First she said she just wanna be friends, we chatted well and she asked me questions. Just few days back she brought up the crushing part, I was really surprised cos I didn't even think she would say such. Not immediately it took time.