Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,153,554 members, 7,819,968 topics. Date: Tuesday, 07 May 2024 at 07:43 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. (1558 Views)
When You Take A Girl Out On A Date And This Happens / Had FOUR Round Of Hot Sex Yesterday Night, And This Happens To Me.. / Man ''Working In Oil Company'' Tries To Scam Lady On Facebook. Then This Happens (2) (3) (4)
I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by czarr(m): 12:48pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
People, both guys and girls find it easy to tell me anything, their desires and fears and also things that they normally shouldn't tell anyone. Once they are talking to me they start spilling secrets that make me uncomfortable, i start to feel weird, even complete strangers as long as i give a listening ear would tell me their secrets and basically a run down of their life story. |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by fati2001(m): 12:49pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
czarr: because they trust you. 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by heniford2: 12:50pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
czarr:your a good listener you give people room to converse with you is a gift people are looking for you can use it for your bitterment 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by Nobody: 1:01pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Are you an introvert? Are you reserved? Are you available and easily approachable? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by Kondomatic(m): 1:04pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
czarr:The world is filled with so many troubles, so many people with broken hearts and just a few people with a listening ear. A lot of people wish they have someone they can talk to, they need someone that cares. So when you give them a listening ear which many consider to mean that you care, they will spill everything out. Some don't even need your advise, they just need someone to talk to because it makes them feel better. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by yanabasee(m): 1:11pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Let me burst your brain..... You've got some supernatural powers..... Xavier university will be looking forward to hear from you..... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by falcon01: 1:29pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
czarr:same with me here, Truth is because we are Hypocrites we pretend but we don't go about telling people their secret we dont have a specific character we create a persona that's comfortable with the person we are talking with, that's just what it is. It might be different for you though but I dont even know who is the real me am I good am I bad? am I Strong, confident or am I lazy and shy? I dunno I shift and adjust and can blend with anyone Good or bad. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by Shortyy(f): 1:39pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
I don't think I just see people and start telling them anything about me. Lol. I even try to be on my own to avoid that closeness or "secret-spilling." 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by czarr(m): 1:44pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
falcon01:I guess we are different people in different circumstances. |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by MediMedi(m): 1:46pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
I can likely say it because you are with people who talk much......it was in bus with a lady in the second seat line looking, I see her like a fool. Just little discussion with unknowingly person in the car she's already telling how things are in her familiy. Hell Naaah....it sounds no Good 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by tobechi74: 1:56pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
It is a good thing. A rare gift |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by Cerebellum: 1:57pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Chai! This post get as e be o Cut ur ears brah If you can't Do that nah or own wahala be that |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by SILENTandSMART2: 2:07pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
simply because you're eleribuu man , you're nothing but eleribuu nigga because this only happens to eleribuu somebody eleribuu man you're stupid, idiot, eleribuu man you're mad, jussss imagine what you wrote , you self know from the depth of yaaa soul dat you're eleribuu man |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by czarr(m): 2:46pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2:Lol clown! go troll somewhere else |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by SILENTandSMART2: 2:50pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
czarr: lol |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by falcon01: 3:40pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
czarr:Haha Yes But Actually No! |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by ezeudo97817: 6:16pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
It is a good thing. A rare gift 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by Kobicove(m): 6:29pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Possible because they know you will keep your mouth shut 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by Nueel: 6:47pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
It's a normal thing. People do the same to me too. I actually do listen to people well and really take time to judge others. It's that simple, it's likely you have that quality. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by frozen70(f): 2:25am On Dec 20, 2020 |
czarr: Just because you have their time and gives them listening ears |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by bluefilm: 2:29am On Dec 20, 2020 |
czarr: Let's make a deal. Tell me those things they normally tell you. And I will make it into a book. We split the profits fifty fifty. How About that? |
Re: I Don't Know Why This Happens To Me! I Am Confused. by boxer022(m): 2:47am On Dec 20, 2020 |
You should not be afraid or confused, many people out there have many problems and are looking for who to relate it to or share it with. Some even have inner secrets which may be troubling them and need someone to talk to. You are a good listener and I know for sure that after telling you this things the feel relieved. Any word of advice you give to them at that moment, they will take it wholeheartedly. As I said earlier, you don't need to be afraid or confused, I also want to appeal to you not to push them away, don't stop listening to them and after all complaints try as much as you can to console them with suiting words. |
(1) (Reply)
I Have Fallen In Love With A Black Man / . . . / Top 10: Types Of Women To Avoid
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 31 |