Smile4mee01:
If women will lower their expectation of who a husband is they would marry earlier.

The issue is that the hypergamous nature of a woman holds out for a better offer until it's too late. And they become undesirable.

Many of the Men women will like to marry dont want them , many of the men toasting women are deemed below thier standard.

True talk most of them until menopause hit them that's when they come back to reality

I have a neighbor who has got a steady flow of 4 girls and bleep atleast 2 of them in d space of 3 days... He has 2 kids a boy and girl apiece from a crashed marriage, he's well to do cis he has a thriving buz and cater well for his kids. He doesn't Wanna hear pim about marriage and I don't blame him

I see alot of men around me that are looking for wife but are being rejected coz they are not financially stable.
Most of them are above 45 years.
No be say husband really scarse babe dey select

Zzor:
Husband is not scarce but the responsible one's na im scarce

Husband is scarce but penis isn't

Fiscus105:



To buttress ur point, DJ cuppy with her rich background, she using her body to beg only rich and famous, first Victor Anichebe Anthony and now Anthony Joshua.

So many girls working in banks or big companies find it difficult to marry guys with lesser incomes, many of them only want abroad guys, when they pass their peak they will now be begging lesser guys, who would not look their side.

lol naso. In our fathers time. If they employ 50 people. 47 will be men while women will be 3. Those guys easily married. But now na 25 men 25 women. Which is not a bad thing. But women should learn to adjust. If you are the breadwinner you no go die

“Honestly, we should be more concerned about the number of unmarried women that are unemployed, visionless, and are standing akimbo waiting for the man that would solve all their life’s problems

This man knows exactly what he is talking about. Women will demand heaven on earth while bringing less and less to the table and expecting men to wife them up and be their poverty alleviation plan.

More men are simply waking up to the redpill realities.

Darlingme:
Nice point. It shows most jobless guys claiming love are scammers in disguise.

hmmmm

deltateam:


Yet your clueless government pegged minimum wage at #30 000 which they are still fighting against it's implementation.


Let's face reality. How many men earn above #40 000 monthly in Nigeria?

To be very honest
I dont know

But like I said before
A man making N30k shouldn't be thinking much of settling down

OcVoice:


Marriage is still attractive to those who value marriage. People are getting married steady. Infact a lot of people tied the knots even in this covid

You dey mind them? Within my circle, there has been more weddings these year than any other notwithstanding the pandemic and associated economic crises.

Another OKOTO MEOW research.

Allee90 post=97322508:
The love for money by women is to be blamed

Oga,

Women are hypergamous, which is not surprising. In a country with the highest number of poor people, no one wants to perpetuate poverty.

Frustrated007:
gbam!
Most of them think the man they desire will automatically find them attractive
You might want him but he doesn't want you!

Gbam. You are absolutely correct.

ednut1:
lol naso. In our fathers time. If they employ 50 people. 47 will be men while women will be 3. Those guys easily married. But now na 25 men 25 women. Which is not a bad thing. But women should learn to adjust. If you are


the breadwinner you no go die

Out of 25 females, only 7 will look downwardly to marry, 5 out of 7 will find it difficult to be submissive and may lead to abusive or broken marriage

DontBullshitMe:

Nice to see your new moniker.

Your former (Risenphoenix) was deactivated. Your posts were a huge deposit of human knowledge.

Glad you are back.

My contributions weren't all that great but ok, thanks.

Had a startup project in the works, so wanted to stay focused; that's why I deactivated earlier. Things are more relaxed now.

Psych412:
will it last?



that's the problem.



marriages in our generation don't last up to 5 years.

They do and for much longer.

As a proportion of the population, the divorce rate is very low 0.2% for men and 0.3% for women. We simply have more single parent. Not all single parents were ever legally married.

wisdomiskey:
Husbands are scarce because wives are scarce.

Women became Instagram thots/slay queens, so men became purchasers/patronizers of psleeves.

It's fair game in my opinion

its not a fair game since am paying for second hand goods

U sure say u go make heaven so?

Rrex99:
I hv never seen a jobless man having true love. Everything is bore to financial stability before thinking of a marriage.

deltateam:
How many women would wish to marry a man that earns #30 000 monthly?

This life no balance. Our government is wicked.

Why should a man who earns 30K wish to marry? Does he love poverty?

anungangampu:

Lol.. Girls are so cheap nowadays and sex is no more adored.
Also lack of concentration without money and gift. Girls hardly stay in a relationship with a man who doesn't spoil them with gift both promise and have money.

Distorted attention- With the advent of internet, everything graphic and digital represents what we lack daily. From friends to admirers, to Sex partners. Everything is now at our hand. Men and girls attention are divided cos everybody is busy.

In fact you nailed it at exact point, and that is why they jump from one guy to another dick.

They dnt think twice before they abandon relationships this day. Just like man does.

Few years back, you will hear that a lady will tell you where will she starts from? Having realised she had gone far with the guy. But now only dangling of cash, money that new guy might not spend for her, she abandons already established relationship, I witnessed several such relationships in recent time and it always bring premium tear for the lady.


Some girls abandoned already established relationship just because one guy she just met online, has promised heaven and earth without meeting her physically, she will be give attitude for main guy and become frustrated.

DexterousOne:


I wont advise any woman to marry a man who makes 30 grand though
Especially in Lagos

All I advise is for the ladies to have REALISTIC expectations

I will never advice that honestly for me that's only transport money alone in Lagos not even to include data. Chai

Hassanmaye:

I will never advice that honestly for me that's only transport money alone in Lagos not even to include data. Chai

Exactly my point

The women should just be reasonable
Thats all

Men making N20m annually are not so many in Nigeria

quickly:
90% of women are liability the 10% that are not liability want you to kiss there ass every second.

Marriage is a prison and death and divorce are the bail out.

Forget your mama and papa marriage. They preserve because of u the child/children

Nigerian women want to marry dangotes children or someone who don hammer. That’s y foreign women are snatching Nigerian guys because they understand you start smal



She wan show off for Facebook honey moon in palazzo Dubai or shopping in Milan

You mean foreign women who are old, worn-out and obese? How many young and succulent Caucasian women have married Nigerian men living in Nigeria? Snatching ko, armed robbery ni

Gerrard59:


Why should a man who earns 30K wish to marry? Does he love poverty?

Help me ask

CSTRR:
The south east and north are two extreme ends of a divide.

Could you throw more light on this pls?

They're Millions of husbands, the problem is women hypergamous nature. Most women are living in their Utopia, until their time for marriage past, then they will start casting and fasting, but the truth here is a rich man will want to marry a rich lady, while a rich lady will want to do the same, so an impoverish man will work hard an become a wealthy man an marry the lady that stood by him, in those trying time, or marry a follow rich woman. While impoverish girl will be hoping on her Utopian man that never seem to come, her time will be passing, then at the end of it if she never gets the Utopian dream, she will settle with a very impoverish man, hahahaha

DexterousOne:

Help me ask

I like your post about women being realistic esp about the economic situation in Nigeria but for most posters to say people (men and women) aren't getting married is entirely false. As it's, almost all of my female classmates (secondary school and university) have gotten married in Nigeria. Notwithstanding the economic crises and Covid-19, people within my circle have gotten married this year than previous years. So when Nairalanders opine that people aren't getting married, I find it amusing.

Gerrard59:


I like your post about women being realistic esp about the economic situation in Nigeria but for most posters to say people (men and women) aren't getting married is entirely false. As it's, almost all of my female classmates (secondary school and university) have gotten married in Nigeria. Notwithstanding the economic crises and Covid-19, people within my circle have gotten married this year than previous years. So when Nairalanders opine that people aren't getting married, I find it amusing.

It's the same for me.
Most of my peers are married too

And this year
There were A LOT OF WEDDINGS
Especially this year end in Nigeria

But then, it's a very populous country
So this is to be expected

When There dad give you list and amount to pay like say she want to sale her daughter why husband no go scarce.

I de wait make a lady come marry me ..I no do the chasing game again I be alpha bad guy male.

Am good in cunilingus incase u want to Holla at me .sweet guys association member

Zzor:
Husband is not scarce but the responsible one's na is scarce

What is your defn of a responsible man?..

Ladies are meant to be a helper but most of them are burdens and calamities.

Our Mumu don do.. Let all ladies finding jobs and earn their living instead of using their cunt and boobs as legal tender in marriage

segebase:
For say na advance countries online dating is good but in naija ..u know d story

short time 2k, till daybreak 10k. Sharpsharp

Some people even hide marry this year like say them prick wan retire.

I knw my guy wet marry and tell me say the hall too small I knw say Na lie him de lie konji wan kill am all these years..guy looks so thin like needle u go think say him no de chop.

Now him don de see kitten for house to knack everyday .so guy man go fat well drink beet get power dig well till he see gold.
.who no like better things.

Molahnelson:
They're Millions of husbands, the problem is women hypergamous nature. Most women are living in their Utopia, until their time for marriage past, then they will start casting and fasting, but the truth here is a rich man will want to marry a rich lady, while a rich lady will want to do the same, so an impoverish man will work hard an become a wealthy man an marry the lady that stood by him, in those trying time, or marry a follow rich woman. While impoverish girl will be hoping on her Utopian man that never seem to come, her time will be passing, then at the end of it if she never gets the Utopian dream, she will settle with a very impoverish man, hahahaha

No be lie u talk even my sister Na mumu she don change guys like socks for 5 years I don fight bad guys tired for her .

She de even fall to facebook scAmmer telling he is base a broad which is fat lie.

God go help her I swear..we be orphan she is my only sister with a 14yr old daughter.

RisenPhoenix1:


My contributions weren't all that great but ok, thanks.

Had a startup project in the works, so wanted to stay focused; that's why I deactivated earlier. Things are more relaxed now.

No wonder. I've been on the lookout for you since. You deh inspire me to aspire to perspire...

Lol no mind me, glad you are abeg.