What if you accidentally fall in love with the two men/women in your life and you can't choose either the two of them because they are both special in your heart? Is it better to leave them both and sacrifice?

Seriously?

- If a man is torn between two women, he will choose the more beautiful woman.
- If a woman is in love with two men, she will choose the one who has more money.

However, I think the best way to choose is to choose the one whose personality goes well with yours. It is very easy to fall in love with someone who has very little in common with you. So if I'm in love with two different women I'll bring out a blank sheet of paper and list their various qualities and compare with mine.

The one who has more in common with me will be my choice. I'll know I can grow old with that one.

pray....

that they both don't find out... otherwise you won't be the "last man standing"..

Pls do not double date.

Well, it's either you let them both know the truth. Engage in a conversation with both of them (that is, all three of you together), and work things out. You may decide to marry them both (tho, this might cause more problems later).
Or, you will have to choose one over the other. You'd probably go for the one who you think would give you less trouble, and that kind of thing.

It's generally not a good idea to keep both of them in oblivion. Just let them know.

A friend once found herself in that situation and I had to take up the job of a counsellor. Let me say she was a little bit stupid cos she went in for the richer guy. At the end of the day she was dumped by both of them.

dats not love, i mean, u can't fall in love with 2 people contemporarily.
u can only have a special place in ur heart 4 one special person.

Anugirl, you're very correct.
I give you gbosa 7 times.

anugirl:

dats not love, I mean, you can't fall in love with 2 people contemporarily.
you can only have a special place in your heart 4 one special person.

Said earlier I took up the job of a counsellor. You are very right anugirl. It was so difficult to make her see she was only infatuated with the richer guy cos of his wealth and the fact that he was handsome. She asked me a question one day. The question was: Is it possible to fall in love with two men at the same time?

The answer was No. I knew she was truly in love with the first guy. But the richer guy lured her into a relationship with his wealth. But their relationship did not even last a week. She tried going back to her first boyfriend, but it was too late.

it is better you follow your heart and make sure that there is no tracies of infactution.

Maybe it's just sitting on the horn of dilemma. Nevertheless, one must go on. So one has got to be strong and take a bold step.

I can't "accidentally" fall in love with 2 people at the same time....we all have to make choices. Choose one and move on....it may not be easy but it can be done.

how can falling in love be accidental? I wonder

The torns between two lovers may be because the oder person is cheating on the order person or the order person don't have character, so there most be something that will make both of them to torn.but the only thing that i believe that can make two lovers to torn apart is just charter.

princeabely2k4:

The torns between two lovers may be because the oder person is cheating on the order person or the order person don't have character, so there most be something that will make both of them to torn.but the only thing that i believe that can make two lovers to torn apart is just charter.

well,that's right

Oh PLEASE STORRRY ,

please it is better to go with the rich guy WHAT IS LOVE , there is no love again this same thing has happened to me before this guy was bastardly rich and i had my sall boyfriend doing is petty job , i was like i willl stick with my petty man because he was the one i loved most , what was the result . Firstly , he drove the rich guy away and dealt with me by cheating on me like mad , the other guy still tellls me he wanted to marry me that it was supposed to be me that will be his wife if i agreed then now he has a fiancee ( i am so jealous but i dont show it to him) while my pettey man has not even mentioned engagement not to talk of marriage. #

HAD I KNOWN

im in that situation right now. im kind@ clueless as to who i want more

Are you getting married? No. Don't take relationships so seriously when it's really just for fun. Just make friends!

lol ye i guess

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i would like to know some suggestions. i dated a guy that was dating someone else at the time about 14 years ago. we could never be together because he was hispanic & my parents wouldn't allow me (caucasian) to date him. so i got married to the guy they liked, divorced him after 3 years & the whole time i was married i still talked on the phone & in person with the other guy (never sex though). this hispanic guy got an apartment & asked me to leave my husband & be with him. i wasn't brave enough. he ended up getting his girlfriend pregnant (she told him she was on the pill but she wasn't). after they had their baby & my husband & i a year later had a baby. somewhere in there we started talking again. she found out & told him, that if he was to be with me, she would never let him see his daughter again. another year went by and we starting talking on the phone again. i was in an abusive relationship & he was there for me to talk to. i divorced my husband after 3 years & was seeing this guy on the side. he was not married, but we had to be a secret for his daughters sake. She found out again & threatened him with the daughter issue again! he called me & told me that he couldn't talk to me anymore. i finally left him alone. i remarried a second time & after a year he & his daughter's mother married. we had not spoke to over 9 years. i got the nerve to call him today. he was home alone & we talked for about an hour, until he had to go pick up his kids.
i love my husband now & we have 2 boys together, but I will always love this guy. my husband now is hispanic & my parents are fine with this. sticky at first, but fine now!
should i tell this guy tomorrow when i call him if he feels the same. he told me that he has always told me to call him, if i ever need to talk & he would always be there. he has 2 daughters now & is very attached to them,

what if you love one so much and the other one just seems to fit in so perfectly and compliments you in every aspect? what do you do?
you like the second one and infact u are already loving her cos she compliments you but you still love the first one.
guess what!!!! the first one is your chic and the second one is your friend and a friend of your chic too.
WHAT WILL YOU DO

i have been in this situation b4 so what i did i tested both waters and i found out none was actually for me, from far it was like love but it was pure lust and obsession

I THINK SEUN HAS SAID IT ALL
U CAN'T LOVE TWO PEOPLE
THE SAME TIME

torn between two lovers: again??

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i won't refer it as being in love with two people.

Torn between 2 women --- me lai, lai !!! I'D JUST KEEP 'EM BOTH --- no time 4 drama abeg

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If u think u are in love with two people. choose the second person because if the first person was all u really wanted u won't be Having a second option.