Some women when they put to bed and start having stretch marks they become insecure. What they don't know is that their husbands hardly notice it. Some husbands do see the stretch marks before they got married and yet their spouse will think he might leave her for a lady who has a smooth arms or laps.

It might not be stretch marks, what are the things that causes insecurities in a relationship?

nony43:
Some women when they put to bed and start having stretch marks they become insecure. What they don't know is that their husbands hardly notice it. Some husbands do see the stretch marks before they got married and yet their spouse will think he might leave her for a lady who has a smooth arms or laps.

It might not be stretch marks, what are the things that causes insecurities in a relationship?

Lack of trust.

Most married ladies don't take care of themselves. They don't freshen up. They tie wrapper upandan

Nigerian Girls Are Nitwits...All Of Them

Whether stretch mark or no stretch mark, a man that will love his wife, will love his wife no matter what.

Marriage is a whole different ball game.

There is no woman that gives birth to a child and everything goes back the same way it was before childbirth.

It would take nothing for the make folks to assure the wife of their love despite these changes.

When a man continually puts a woman down, it causes insecurities. E.g


This your belle don dey big oh
See your big nose
Iya akapati despite you married her as an Agbani

There are ways to construct criticism that the person you are talking to will even be smiling without realising it.

newoffer:
Most married ladies don't take care of themselves. They don't freshen up. They tie wrapper upandan

As a man, I believe you can change this if you don't like it.

Buy her easy wears, they tie wrapper because it's easy to pick and wrap over the body. Tell her you want her to look fresh for you everyday when you get back, tell her to leave whatever chores that are left when she knows you'll be back soon and freshen up.


Hail her when she does so. Infact promise and fulfil your promise when she does same.

I personally feel that women are easy to manipulate sha.

marriage is too complicated abeg, sometimes im scared of it

Women should still try and take care of their bodies after marriage or giving birth....

Because yhure married doesn't mean yhull be looking like a grand mother...slay for yhur husband biko...

nony43:
Some women when they put to bed and start having stretch marks they become insecure. What they don't know is that their husbands hardly notice it. Some husbands do see the stretch marks before they got married and yet their spouse will think he might leave her for a lady who has a smooth arms or laps.

It might not be stretch marks, what are the things that causes insecurities in a relationship?

stretch marks NI, stretch marks KO..

beauty/handsome fade NI, beauty/handsome fade KO..
thick /thin lap NI, thick /thin lap KO..
big /small belly NI, big /small belly KO...
body changes NI, body changes KO..
increase in fat NI, increase in fat KO..
changes in LIFE NI, changes in LIFE KO....
challenges in LIFE NI, challenges in LIFE KO..




A PARTNER THAT WILL BE FAITHFUL AND STAY WITH YOU FOREVER, WILL BE FAITHFUL AND STAY NO MATTER WHAT......

fati2001:



stretch marks NI, stretch marks KO..

beauty fade NI, beauty fade KO..
body changes NI, body changes KO..
increase in fat NI, increase in fat KO..
challenges in LIFE NI, challenges in LIFE KO..




A PARTNER THAT WILL BE FAITHFUL, WILL BE FAITHFUL NO MATTER WHAT......

Lmao don't mind these men!!

Goldp5988:




Lack of trust.

This LACk of TRUST is a statement Nigeria use to hold some of our boys hostage and be doing what they are doing, anyone that mentions trust me on my face is a suspect immediately

okirewaju:
As a man, I believe you can change this if you don't like it.

Buy her easy wears, they tie wrapper because it's easy to pick and wrap over the body. Tell her you want her to look fresh for you everyday when you get back, tell her to leave whatever chores that are left when she knows you'll be back soon and freshen up.


Hail her when she does so. Infact promise and fulfil your promise when she does same.

I personally feel that women are easy to manipulate sha.

If you buy clothes , are you going to tell her to control what she eat that make her too much weight?

Debzempire:
Women should still try and take care of their bodies after marriage or giving birth....

Because yhure married doesn't mean yhull be looking like a grand mother...slay for yhur husband biko...

You really understand it all, that weight most them add is the problem most marriage faced

Queenslander:
Lmao don't mind these men!!

Control your body excess weight will make a man like me to cheat , though from the beginning my wife know it so she is very careful of what she eat and she control her body perfectly

Bennysam:

You really understand it all, that weight most them add is the problem most marriage faced

My dear I do...some women become so dirty and neglect their appearance cause they feel they're hooked already..

Tying wrapper up and down...I look at neighbors behaving like that ....I just smh..