My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 11:26am On Dec 31, 2020 |
So i was seated in hotel waiting patiently for someone. Then suddenly i saw some of the hotel staffs laughing, i looked to see what was amusing them and i saw someone with a masculine appearance and the person putting on a T-shirt and a mini skirt. Yes, the facial appearance is exactly like that of a male, looked at the chest, completely flat, the shape too looked masculine with very flat ass. The legs were so skinny but could pass for a female leg. I was like ''is this another Bobriksy? A man who wants to become a woman or likes dressing like woman'' He didn't even apply any makeup on the face or wore any wig or hairstyle. I just felt this person could be transgender and me also gender nonconforming person, i hate it when i see people who laugh at others who are different like this. So i walked politely to him and introduced myself and wanted to be friends with him. Everyone was just looking at us but i didn't care. He was talking so low but the voice sounded masculine. So i told him let us sit over there and talk, he noticed am quite different from the others and how friendly i seem with him. He followed me, we sat. I asked if he want to order for anything, he said no. I started asking politely about him, why he was wearing a skirt. He wasn't comfortable talking about it, so i told him about myself and am intersex and he should feel free with me and i completely understand these things.. I think he started trusting me afterwards then he told me he is also intersex and he was born with a vagina and raised up as a girl and his body didn't turn out to be like girl's body but instead a man's body. I was like ''wow! So this person has a vagina! This person that look and sound exactly like a man. I even thought it was a man wearing a skirt''.. It was a wonderful experience for me meeting another intersex person.. Ya we exist, so better be informed about us.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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No be small tins |
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Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Fahdiga1: 11:38am On Dec 31, 2020 |
What then should we do with this trashy news. That we men should all be wearing skirts abi 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by blazepascal(m): 11:38am On Dec 31, 2020 |
this intersex of a thing still dey amaze me |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 11:49am On Dec 31, 2020 |
Fahdiga1: What then should we do with this trashy news. That we men should all be wearing skirts abi did i say that? He doesn't wear skirt anymore. He now lives fully as a man with a vagina 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by dawnomike(m): 11:58am On Dec 31, 2020 |
IntersexSherry: So i was seated in hotel waiting patiently for someone. Then suddenly i saw some of the hotel staffs laughing, i looked to see what was amusing them and i saw someone with a masculine appearance and the person putting on a T-shirt and a mini skirt. Yes, the facial appearance is exactly like that of a male, looked at the chest, completely flat, the shape too looked masculine with very flat ass. The legs were so skinny but could pass for a female leg. I was like ''is this another Bobriksy? A man who wants to become a woman or likes dressing like woman'' He didn't even apply any makeup on the face or wore any wig or hairstyle. I just felt this person could be transgender and me also gender nonconforming person, i hate it when i see people who laugh at others who are different like this. So i walked politely to him and introduced myself and wanted to be friends with him. Everyone was just looking at us but i didn't care. He was talking so low but the voice sounded masculine. So i told him let us sit over there and talk, he noticed am quite different from the others and how friendly i seem with him. He followed me, we sat. I asked if he want to order for anything, he said no. I started asking politely about him, why he was wearing a skirt. He wasn't comfortable talking about it, so i told him about myself and am intersex and he should feel free with me and i completely understand these things.. I think he started trusting me afterwards then he told me he is also intersex and he was born with a vagina and raised up as a girl and his body didn't turn out to be like girl's body but instead a man's body. I was like ''wow! So this person has a vagina! This person that look and sound exactly like a man. I even thought it was a man wearing a skirt''.. It was a wonderful experience for me meeting another intersex person.. Ya we exist, so better be informed about us.. It is well.. I have learnt never to judge intersex people after I watched the live interview of a guy on Funmi Iyanda's show about 15yrs ago. When I was a student in U.I, we had a guy in U.I then that resided in Bello hall. He was extremely feminine and he was nicknamed Miss Bello. He really went through a lot of stigma back then.. he later deferred a session and came back later on as a beautiful girl to complete her education. NB: Do not judge people because you do not know the demons they wake up to fight everyday within them.... A demon you may never survive an encounter with for a day. @intersexsherry, I wonder what you might have gone through all these years... But keep a positive attitude at all times. #HappyHolliday 6 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 12:03pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
dawnomike: It is well.. I have learnt never to judge intersex people after I watched the live interview of a guy on Funmi Iyanda's about 15yrs ago. When I was a student in U.I, we had a guy in U.I then that resided in Bello hall. He was extremely feminine and he was nicknamed Miss Bello. He really went through a lot of stigma back then.. he later deferred a session and came back later on as a beautiful girl to complete her education.
NB: Do not judge people because you do not know the demons they wake up to fight everyday within them.... A demon you may never survive an encounter with for a day.
@intersexsherry, I wonder what you might have gone through all these years... But keep a positive attitude at all times.
#HappyHolliday you mean Ella. She is now a very beautiful woman. I never knew her before |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by StormInc: 12:08pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Sherry can we chat |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 12:09pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
dawnomike: It is well.. I have learnt never to judge intersex people after I watched the live interview of a guy on Funmi Iyanda's about 15yrs ago. When I was a student in U.I, we had a guy in U.I then that resided in Bello hall. He was extremely feminine and he was nicknamed Miss Bello. He really went through a lot of stigma back then.. he later deferred a session and came back later on as a beautiful girl to complete her education.
NB: Do not judge people because you do not know the demons they wake up to fight everyday within them.... A demon you may never survive an encounter with for a day.
@intersexsherry, I wonder what you might have gone through all these years... But keep a positive attitude at all times.
#HappyHolliday very hard to believe she was ever a guy. She looks and sounds so much like a girl 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 12:21pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
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Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Saintmary(f): 12:30pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
IntersexSherry: So i was seated in hotel waiting patiently for someone. Then suddenly i saw some of the hotel staffs laughing, i looked to see what was amusing them and i saw someone with a masculine appearance and the person putting on a T-shirt and a mini skirt. Yes, the facial appearance is exactly like that of a male, looked at the chest, completely flat, the shape too looked masculine with very flat ass. The legs were so skinny but could pass for a female leg. I was like ''is this another Bobriksy? A man who wants to become a woman or likes dressing like woman'' He didn't even apply any makeup on the face or wore any wig or hairstyle. I just felt this person could be transgender and me also gender nonconforming person, i hate it when i see people who laugh at others who are different like this. So i walked politely to him and introduced myself and wanted to be friends with him. Everyone was just looking at us but i didn't care. He was talking so low but the voice sounded masculine. So i told him let us sit over there and talk, he noticed am quite different from the others and how friendly i seem with him. He followed me, we sat. I asked if he want to order for anything, he said no. I started asking politely about him, why he was wearing a skirt. He wasn't comfortable talking about it, so i told him about myself and am intersex and he should feel free with me and i completely understand these things.. I think he started trusting me afterwards then he told me he is also intersex and he was born with a vagina and raised up as a girl and his body didn't turn out to be like girl's body but instead a man's body. I was like ''wow! So this person has a vagina! This person that look and sound exactly like a man. I even thought it was a man wearing a skirt''.. It was a wonderful experience for me meeting another intersex person.. Ya we exist, so better be informed about us.. I'm glad you could find people to relate with. Nigerians can be brutal bullies, both offline and online. 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 12:52pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Saintmary:
I'm glad you could find people to relate with. Nigerians can be brutal bullies, both offline and online. i'm glad too |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Hi Sherry, I've been following you for a while and I believe you are awesome. Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. All the best 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Karleb(m): 1:12pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Even for non-intersex people, naija is hard.
This is why women are advised to birth early and diet properly during pregnancy. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by JOACHINpedro: 1:35pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Fahdiga1: What then should we do with this trashy news. That we men should all be wearing skirts abi Alaye calm down and learn 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by JOACHINpedro: 1:37pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
IntersexSherry: So i was seated in hotel waiting patiently for someone. Then suddenly i saw some of the hotel staffs laughing, i looked to see what was amusing them and i saw someone with a masculine appearance and the person putting on a T-shirt and a mini skirt. Yes, the facial appearance is exactly like that of a male, looked at the chest, completely flat, the shape too looked masculine with very flat ass. The legs were so skinny but could pass for a female leg. I was like ''is this another Bobriksy? A man who wants to become a woman or likes dressing like woman'' He didn't even apply any makeup on the face or wore any wig or hairstyle. I just felt this person could be transgender and me also gender nonconforming person, i hate it when i see people who laugh at others who are different like this. So i walked politely to him and introduced myself and wanted to be friends with him. Everyone was just looking at us but i didn't care. He was talking so low but the voice sounded masculine. So i told him let us sit over there and talk, he noticed am quite different from the others and how friendly i seem with him. He followed me, we sat. I asked if he want to order for anything, he said no. I started asking politely about him, why he was wearing a skirt. He wasn't comfortable talking about it, so i told him about myself and am intersex and he should feel free with me and i completely understand these things.. I think he started trusting me afterwards then he told me he is also intersex and he was born with a vagina and raised up as a girl and his body didn't turn out to be like girl's body but instead a man's body. I was like ''wow! So this person has a vagina! This person that look and sound exactly like a man. I even thought it was a man wearing a skirt''.. It was a wonderful experience for me meeting another intersex person.. Ya we exist, so better be informed about us.. This is really an interesting story. People needs closure for this we country. Merry Christmas and prosperous New Year dear 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by dawnomike(m): 1:42pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
IntersexSherry: you mean Ella. She is now a very beautiful woman. I never knew her before I can't really remember her name... I only knew her from afar. She was a member of BLW campus fellowship and most of them really stood by her back then including my Class Rep. I admired her resilience every time I saw her cos I understood how hard it was for her. Guys made fun of her back then and taunt her with rape even as a guy. If she is the Ella, which I think she is... She is a role model for resilience and courage in the face of stigma 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by MeekySmudger(m): 1:49pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
IntersexSherry: So i was seated in hotel waiting patiently for someone. Then suddenly i saw some of the hotel staffs laughing, i looked to see what was amusing them and i saw someone with a masculine appearance and the person putting on a T-shirt and a mini skirt. Yes, the facial appearance is exactly like that of a male, looked at the chest, completely flat, the shape too looked masculine with very flat ass. The legs were so skinny but could pass for a female leg. I was like ''is this another Bobriksy? A man who wants to become a woman or likes dressing like woman'' He didn't even apply any makeup on the face or wore any wig or hairstyle. I just felt this person could be transgender and me also gender nonconforming person, i hate it when i see people who laugh at others who are different like this. So i walked politely to him and introduced myself and wanted to be friends with him. Everyone was just looking at us but i didn't care. He was talking so low but the voice sounded masculine. So i told him let us sit over there and talk, he noticed am quite different from the others and how friendly i seem with him. He followed me, we sat. I asked if he want to order for anything, he said no. I started asking politely about him, why he was wearing a skirt. He wasn't comfortable talking about it, so i told him about myself and am intersex and he should feel free with me and i completely understand these things.. I think he started trusting me afterwards then he told me he is also intersex and he was born with a vagina and raised up as a girl and his body didn't turn out to be like girl's body but instead a man's body. I was like ''wow! So this person has a vagina! This person that look and sound exactly like a man. I even thought it was a man wearing a skirt''.. It was a wonderful experience for me meeting another intersex person.. Ya we exist, so better be informed about us.. .......So you get preeq as you dey so? |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Dreadlock69(m): 2:08pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
I got a virginal I'm gonna explore that right now Holy shit I got a virginal I'm gonna learn I'm gonna learn to understand the things of a woman |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by meobizy(f): 2:27pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
At least you found a friend. Don’t come here again claiming you’re lonely. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Legendarytonyy: 2:38pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
IntersexSherry: did i say that? He doesn't wear skirt anymore. He now lives fully as a man with a vagina Does he menstruate? |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by tobechi74: 2:42pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Congratulations 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 3:04pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro:
This is really an interesting story. People needs closure for this we country.
Merry Christmas and prosperous New Year dear same to you |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 3:08pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
dawnomike: I can't really remember her name... I only knew her from afar. She was a member of BLW campus fellowship and most of them really stood by her back then including my Class Rep.
I admired her resilience every time I saw her cos I understood how hard it was for her. Guys made fun of her back then and taunt her with rape even as a guy.
If she is the Ella, which I think she is... She is a role model for resilience and courage in the face of stigma she is really a strong woman and extremely beautiful |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 3:11pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
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Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Liposure: 3:16pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
dawnomike: It is well.. I have learnt never to judge intersex people after I watched the live interview of a guy on Funmi Iyanda's show about 15yrs ago. When I was a student in U.I, we had a guy in U.I then that resided in Bello hall. He was extremely feminine and he was nicknamed Miss Bello. He really went through a lot of stigma back then.. he later deferred a session and came back later on as a beautiful girl to complete her education.
NB: Do not judge people because you do not know the demons they wake up to fight everyday within them.... A demon you may never survive an encounter with for a day.
@intersexsherry, I wonder what you might have gone through all these years... But keep a positive attitude at all times.
#HappyHolliday i know that guy. Infact he finished from my department 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Nobody: 3:20pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Liposure: i know that guy. Infact he finished from my department stop referring to her as a guy. She is a girl o. She was only raised up as a guy. Mistake and she fixed it. She was never a guy, only lived as a guy. |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Phraences: 3:21pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
This world is a crazy place. Though i am a Christian, things like this is why i believe some homosexuals when they say they were born that way. Things are happening in this life.
In India, you see so many deformities and you ask yourself why was this person born this way?
It is easy to say nobody is ugly and we are all beautiful inside. It is easy to say when you are not the one suffering the issue.
So much suffering in this world. It's like life is a roll of dice. Sometimes it falls in your favour and sometimes it doesn't. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Fmghewzy(m): 3:23pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Fahdiga1: What then should we do with this trashy news. That we men should all be wearing skirts abi Use your brain |
Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by Fmghewzy(m): 3:23pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Fahdiga1: What then should we do with this trashy news. That we men should all be wearing skirts abi Jesus, how can someone be this stupid. 3 Likes |