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Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by SweetCunt97(f): 3:47pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
kosi2018:Ordinary how many years una wan bring wahala spoil family union untop rubbish. Eheen!? If he says so can't you simply play along with him? Abi senior wife wan put money for ur account? Women and petty things. That's how rivalry will start because of nonsense. Abi who senior wife eep? And yes she is because she got married to first. Being senior wife in Igbo land has nothing to do with Age or d fact that ur husband is d first one. 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by kodix(m): 4:02pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
In Igbo tradition she is the most Senior wife in the family bcs she came first,it has nothing to do the way your husband and his brothers rank,so she is your elder now you take instructions from her as the eldest wife,she and your mother inland will be the one that will introduce u to village meetings and other family affairs. |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by jesmond3945: 4:26pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
kosi2018:see he is trying to stair up serious strife which would pitch you against the family. Your brother has made it known that you are the senior, so if their is any issue his younger brother raises is none of your biz |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by jesmond3945: 4:30pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
kosi2018:is just a bit of narcissm. |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by JustCruise(m): 4:32pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
Honestly, I won't advise you to ignore him,have your husband trash the matter with him once and for all or this may cause problem in future. |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by Liposure: 4:56pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
Who senior wife epp? Your brother in law is just trying to stir conflict by being pettty |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by ststyreal(f): 6:38pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
kosi2018:It's ok then, it then means say, e get wetin your brother in law dey find be that. Just ignore and behave as if you aren't seeing him. Greet him and pass when next you all are together ... Dohhh... Take care.... |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by Jesslove(f): 7:17pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
This is unnecessary,but since it came out ,we will discuss it.The first son in Igbo land is d okpara of the family and no condition changes that.Weather the second or fourth son got married before him, nothing changes his position in the family.Same goes to his wife.The fact that the second son married before him does not give his(second) wife the first position.The first son's wife is the first wife of that family. |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by Sharonstone7719: 7:18pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
The younger brother's wife is the head wife... Cos she was married into the family first. |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by bukatyne(f): 7:19pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
kosi2018: Maybe I just have no tolerance for all this 'he said, she said' and drama with people I neither live nor work with. Whether your BIL and his wife claim to be the first wife or not, how does it affect you? Do you live together? Do they pay your salary into her account because she is your senior wife? Your husband has told you not to bother yourself so what is the problem? Why don't you save this energy for when REAL issues come up (if they do)? Abeg, leave this pettiness for 2020. It is because you greet your BIL more than one sentence that's why he is telling you his wife is the senior one. 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by bukatyne(f): 7:20pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
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Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by Sexyliciousbri: 7:23pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
Na poverty dey make some people loose focus wahlai... God please bless everyone with wealth and wisdom... Who senior epp abeg |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by angelfallz(m): 8:16pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
bukatyne: i wonder when men became petty. If the BIL has issues with seniority he should discuss it with his elder brother, not going around and making side comments to his elder brother's wife. |
Re: Igbo's In The House, I Need Your Opinion by NoToPile: 8:26pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
bukatyne: Exactly @ the bolded. |
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