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|Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Smartford: 6:11pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Good day fam, I newly got married in (April 2022) and my wife is now 2 months pregnant.
I live in my own house of 2 bedroom apartment with another 1 bedroom apartment attached. I am a fresh graduate (have not gone for nysc.) Lost my job weeks to by wedding.
Now the problem is that I have an out standing debts to the tone of 2.3mill. it includes a police bond which is due for payment last month, a couple of due loans from loan apps that are already unlishing all manner of treths,
my in-law gave me 200k during my wedding and she is about to take a title in the village and needs money to run around (she have not asked for it but I can read the handwriting on the wall), and many unpleasant debts adding to the fact that I have no help from any family member as I am the first son, my parents are all retired and are using their pension to train younger ones.
Uncle's are all making sure that no one in the family surpass their kids so have never and not ready to give 1kobo.
it happens that almost all needs their money and some (police and loan app) may take legal actions against me anytime also to avoid my in-law from making unpleasant side talks.
We bearly eat 3 square meal and there haven't been any income since April.
I have nothing doing, and my wife have nothing doing too. Depression pushed me into Yahoo but I am not seeing any light.
I am also very fluent in programing Bitc0in investmeint websites, etc and as a result flooded both Facebook and nairaland with my ads which got by accounts banned.
I have waited on the Lord and have submitted my application letter to several offices even to filling station, gas plants and at a point, I even applied at a bread factory all to no avail.
All I have is my humble self with a bright future and a house at okpanam, asaba Delta State.
Note: I am ready to take any action even if it requires to start from scratch all over again as I am still young.
My house is valued at about 10mill. Should I sell the house, use the proceed to
1, repay the loan, ..........2.3mill
2, rent another apartment,..........500k
3, buy an empty plot and............4mill
4, start a business I can manage?........3mill
I need your advice,
What do you advice me to do.
Please help a brother.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Onucs(m): 6:18pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Dem go tell una to cut una coat according to your size, but una no go hear. Now u don go do lavish wedding and money no dey to pay your debts.
Which kain advice u want make I give you now.
But I go help u sha, cos I like helping the less privileged.
Why not collect a loan from the bank and use the house as collateral instead of just selling it like that, u still gonna need a place to sleep u know.
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|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by nrexzy: 6:18pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Stay strong brother..... Don't give up hope
Keep thriving u got a baby on d way... It would get better in the end..
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Chizzyjforce: 6:24pm On Sep 16, 2022|
May be you should use paragraphs so your content can be readable first.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Boogyman557: 6:26pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Holly Gram Use the house take collect LOAN from bank..
PEACE BE UNTO U..
LITE UP my WEED in peace
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Romanoff(f): 6:29pm On Sep 16, 2022|
A fresh graduate with a wife who doesn't have a source of income decided to do big wedding, if it was from your pocket, na different thing.
You borrowed to do wedding. Is wedding an investment?
Wo, all the best.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by ahnie: 6:35pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Eleyin gidi gan!
May Helpers come thru for you.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by TheWorldNearEnd(f): 6:38pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Like someone has said, cut your write up into paragraphs for easy reading.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Mom007(f): 6:54pm On Sep 16, 2022|
How did you in cure a debt of 2.3m at this your tender age? Una no dey fear o! Anyway, pray about it. No one here can state categorically what you should do, only God.
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|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by 2Radii: 6:56pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Smartford:Am sorry for this but I will still say it.
How was Ur life before u met Ur wife, and how was Ur life after u met her??
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|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Bornbiafra: 6:58pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Bro don't sell your house ooo..... almost every one is on debt....na who open tell you go know...
All debt owed settle itself with time....just resort to what ever makes you happy and watch as things unfolds.......
Nigeria is currently China using me and you as collateral....yet China has not taken over Nigeria...
The biggest mistake you will make is to sell your property to pay loan
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by slan87(m): 7:24pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Your response to this question is very important, then you examine yourself very well.
Check your zodiac sign n your wife to be sure of your compatibility
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by 2Radii: 7:32pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Bro I never believed it until I had first hand experience
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by slan87(m): 7:34pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Everyone as his or her share one way or the other bro, make God just help us all.
Those zodiac signs are really important, believe it or not.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by ahnie: 8:02pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Hello @ imustreturn I sincerely do hope all's well with you.its bn long I heard from you.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Imustreturn(m): 8:39pm On Sep 16, 2022|
ahnie:been good oh. How far
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by fman(m): 8:41pm On Sep 16, 2022|
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Lonestar124: 8:58pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Sell it and pay your debt...
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Fahvvy: 9:19pm On Sep 16, 2022|
No matter what you do OP, DO NOT SELL YOUR HOUSE ....
Instead collect a loan from the bank using your house as a collateral, then pay off the pressing debt and use the left over cash for a business that can help you repay back the bank ...
But in all your doings, DO NOT SELL THAT HOUSE ....
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|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by 2Radii: 9:22pm On Sep 16, 2022|
fman:Allow op talk na, na u be the op??
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by DontBullshitMe: 9:52pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Lease it out (long term preferably). Do not sell.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by ogashman(m): 10:06pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Bro, can u explain this in details for me? Wanna learn
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by 2Radii: 10:22pm On Sep 16, 2022|
ogashman:Nothing much, just that if u have a responsive spirit, then know that not all women out there are meant for you to climb. Some will render u useless why some will add betterment to Ur life, some wont add value and won't deter u.
Those ones who render u useless are not necessarily evil, they are good women, just that Ur spirit beings are not in agreement. Believe me or not, those women will be the perfect fit for another man.
Those who add good luck into Ur life are not necessarily good women, infact many of them are found of exhibiting bad behaviour like cheating, and all other vices, but since Ur spirit beings are on agreement beliv me all what u touches during the course of Ur relationship turns gold. Reason why u find some people who will rather forgive their cheating partners than to divorce them, it goes both ways.
Forgiving their cheating partners does not mean they will forget the pain, but Wen they tink of how the partner have impacted them emotionally and spiritually, den breaking up become wahala. But they won't tell u cus there is no how they will say it that it won't sound stupid to people's hearing, only the knowledgeable will understand.
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|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by AgentGoat: 10:44pm On Sep 16, 2022|
How person go take know if our spirit are compatible?
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by 2Radii: 10:57pm On Sep 16, 2022|
AgentGoat:Aahh, a no be God na
Enter na!! Enter the relationship first, if dem tell u, u go argue that nothing of such exist, so enter first, as u might be lucky to find Ur solemate
There are some ladies that even from the very first day u meet them u start losing valuables, contracts and others.. but enter first
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by ogashman(m): 10:59pm On Sep 16, 2022|
Wow...thanks. Learnt something new today
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Generalwoodz(m): 11:01pm On Sep 16, 2022|
AgentGoat:if you two could finish 10 raps of eba under 10 mins
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by henrimoto(m): 12:13am On Sep 17, 2022|
@2radii. you have deep understanding of certain issues of life that goes beyond the common physical reasoning. More grace to you.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by 2Radii: 12:41am On Sep 17, 2022|
henrimoto:U know, experience they say is the best teacher.
When u tell people outside there, they will say u re victimising someone else for ur own laziness, and the next tin u will hear is that u should double Ur hustle.
Well, I use to shake head weneva I see comment like that, all I know is that everyone will chop breakfast soon or later in one way or the other.
Many many tins wey a don experience, but Wen u voice out no one will take u serious .
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|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by Vision101(m): 2:17am On Sep 17, 2022|
Don't attempt to borrow from the bank unless the money that you borrowed can pay off your debt and there will be a reasonable amount left to invest in a business that you understand very well.
The return from the business should be capable of servicing the loan from bank as well as meet your recurrent needs.
What is the size of the land on which the building is built? Can some part of it be sold without selling the building? How much can you realise from this? Can it solve your problem?
On the spiritual side... what was the source of money that you used to build the house because you mentioned Yahoo? Proverbs 20:17 (KJV) "bread of deceit is sweet to a man but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel"
Finally if the source of the money is illegal, sell off the house, pay off your debt and be a free man. Repent and start a clean life all over.
|Re: Should I Sell My House? I Am In Debt Of 2.3million Pls Advice by socialmediaman: 2:48am On Sep 17, 2022|
OP Smartford you don't need to sell your house if you're just going to invest it in a business you're not experienced in. You need to reorganize your life first.
Get some advise from a competent lawyer on what to do about the police bond. Also, get legal advice on what to do about the loan sharks.
Loan sharks are somewhat illegal in many countries possibly including Nigeria, though they still operate. You should get advise from a lawyer on how to best handle the situation
If you can't afford a lawyer, visit the Legal Aid Council office in your state, they're a government organization run with tax payers money to offer free legal services to Nigerians who can't afford those. They have offices in every state in Nigeria. https://legalaidcouncil.gov.ng/
Communicate with your sister-in-law about your inability to pay her back the money at this time. This is important so that she can begin to make alternative arrangements in time. A lot of Nigerians take trust building for granted. You give them something on trust then they ghost you or start lying to you, then burn bridges and end up stranded because there’s nobody they can run to in time of need. Initiate a conversation and let her know you can't pay her money now and possibly in the next one year, but let her know it’s top priority for you, and ask for her understanding. Figure it out with her
Finally, look for a job. If you can't afford to live in your house, rent it out if it's in a good location, and move back in with your parents or to a cheaper apartment. If you can't feed yourself, there's no reason you shouldn't be able to swallow your pride temporarily. Lastly, train yourself in some skill to increase your chances of financial success.
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