how true is this?

ishilove
pocohantas

how many independent ladies do we have on nairaland? click like.

Problem they this world sha

Nothing but the truth... just that you tend to benefit aswell from them unlike the leechs.

Of course all women are pussy sellers , they must get paid hoes will be hoes.

The spending wont be same.when dating a greedy,self centered hungry lioness.who doubles,as an ambassador of entitlement.

She's right

Zzor:
She's right

Hi pls reply my pm

Godoverevery:
Nothing but the truth... just that you tend to benefit aswell from them unlike the leechs.

I dey laff you. Nothing for man wey no stand well

This vagina people and their self entitlement mentality no be here. all that goes in their fish brain is what they will receive from men.

ashewoboy:
how true is this?


ishilove

pocohantas

True. We have needs

Most times when an independent lady you're dating requests for such huge amount it's for business. Either she wants to expand her business or she wants to invest...etc. it's not to buy wig, hand bag, clothes... etc as she can easily sort out those stuffs since she's financially independent. And supporting her can always come in handy cos you can easily fall back to her for assistance if things become rough with you.

Unlike the urgent 10k girl who is completely dumb with zero IQ, all she thinks of is how to buy iPhone, bone straight hair cream, soap, clothes...etc. then snap upload pics for social media to pepper her haters. She's not industrious and can't add any value to your life aside sex.

True...

The more spending you do does not depend on whether or not the woman is indepent, it depends on how greedy and entitled the woman is..

Wonder why rich female folks don't marry an average guy; it's because even though they have their money, they still want a man richer than them to spend on them.

Ishilove:

True. We have needs

thought you guys were independent? nor be una suppose dey give the guy money? even if you don't give him money, you shouldn't bother him for money na.

ashewoboy:




thought you guys were independent? nor be una suppose dey give the guy money? even if you don't give him money, you shouldn't bother him for money na.

Relationships are mutual. If he asks me for money, I will give him and vice versa. They did not born him well not to give me when I ask.

Zzor:
She's right

this woman. I usually have a feeling that it's a guy behind your moniker. can you do a verification photo? write your username in a paper, hold it, then take a picture with it, upload it as your dp. do all that and I will take you seriously.

Ishilove:

Relationships are mutual. If he asks me for money, I will give him and vice versa. They did not born him well not to give me when I ask.

what is your take? should a jobless lady enter into a relationship? you must have seen the trending topic of how a lady must have 500,000 in her account before entering into a relationship. we are not talking 500,000 now. a jobless lady that is just a student, should she enter into a relationship?

ashewoboy:



what is your take? should a jobless lady enter into a relationship? you must have seen the trending topic of how a lady must have 500,000 in her account before entering into a relationship. we are not talking 500,000 now. a jobless lady that is just a student, should she enter into a relationship?

People enter relationships for different reasons. Some for nacks, some for money, some for companionship, some with marriage in view, some are looking for who to use for rituals etc. A jobless lady has her own reasons for going into a relationship.

Ishilove:

People enter relationships for different reasons. Some for nacks, some for money, some for companionship, some with marriage in view, some are looking for who to use for rituals etc. A jobless lady has her own reasons for going into a relationship.

I don't like it when a person can not provide yes or no to a question. state yes or no then give your reason. you are staying in the middle like daddy freeze. he doesn't like providing a yes or no to a question.


should a jobless lady enter into a relationship?

Ishilove:

True. We have needs

Hmmm true that everyone has needs but giving independent woman money isn't the same thing. She can always reciprocate when it's her turn.

Broke women will always tell you it's the *thought* behind every gift that counts, then she proceeds to buy you boxers and singlet.

Funny thing Men like dependent women more because the are easy to sleep with. Everything is just backward in this Nigeria.

Problem thy say,no dey finish


Na dis tin make marriage better

"Independent woman," whatever that means aside, doesn't automatically make a self-absorbing or opportunistic woman, or person regardless of gender, a conscientious woman. So, a self-absorbing or opportunistic woman, regardless of her financial standing, who doesn't have an altruistic interest in you will always drain you financially directly or indirectly; if not immediate; it'll be in the long run. It's the same way a megalomaniac woman, due to her inordinate desire for power/control, will drain you psychologically wittingly or unwittingly, if not nip in the bud.

As a man, you'll always achieve more in all forms with a conscientious woman who has an altruistic interest in you, regardless of her financial standing, compare to a self-absorbing or opportunistic woman.

Summarily, the financial standing of a woman isn't the standard to judge whether or not she'll drain you financially, emotionally, and psychologically; rather, her ethical leaning is the standard. In all you gain as a man, gain grit, discernment, and resourcefulness, because that's the surest way to be the master of your fate and territory and all around it.

where are the moderators?

crazyclown:

Hi pls reply my pm

SIMP spotted.

how many independent ladies do we have on nairaland? click like.

Then she's not independent.

Google the definition of Alpha female, Boss lady or and independent woman.

This one na bambiala forming independent