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Hello guys
Please I want to know if I overeacted to this.

Weeks ago, I had a serious disagreement with my girlfriend that led to her elder brother calling me(We are kind of serious with the relationship, like we have plans). We talked and sorted things out.

So today I was on a call with her and I spoke with one of her other brothers, after talking to him, I was like "Is this A or B(I'm using A and B to represent the brothers now). So she told me it's A and not B and was like " B" was the one that called and "talked sense" into me the time we had a quarrel. I really found the statement offensive, like saying her brother talked sense into me, I got angry and replied her quite harshly. She was like "It's a normal talk" and it's not enough to get someone angry. She got sad and angry I think.

So ladies and gentlemen, please do u think I overreacted?. Is that enough to get someone angry?. I want to know so I can apologize


Thank you!.

how can she say her brother talk some sense into you
you be pikin oga?
no to carry am serious sha

Nothing wey romancelanders no go see for the hands of these relationship people.

Oga, this is your relationship not "ours". If you are not looking for an excuse it end it, then "talk some sense into her" and let peace reign abeg.

Potential simp in the making.

Undilutedme:
Hello guys
Please I want to know if I overeacted to this.

Weeks ago, I had a serious disagreement with my girlfriend that led to her elder brother calling me(We are kind of serious with the relationship, like we have plans). We talked and sorted things out.

So today I was on a call with her and I spoke with one of her other brothers, after talking to him, I was like "Is this A or B(I'm using A and B to represent the brothers now). So she told me it's A and not B and was like " B" was the one that called and "talked sense" into me the time we had a quarrel. I really found the statement offensive, like saying her brother talked sense into me, I got angry and replied her quite harshly. She was like "It's a normal talk" and it's not enough to get someone angry. She got sad and angry I think.

So ladies and gentlemen, please do u think I overreacted?. Is that enough to get someone angry?. I want to know so I can apologize


Thank you!.

Talked Sense Into U. If U Were At Fault, Den She Might Be Right.

You have serious anger issues, and you have no one to tell you.
It shows in majority of your nairaland posts here.
Work on your anger so you won't lose a good girl.
Grow up.

post=97901300:
You have serious anger issues, and you have no one to tell you.
It shows in majority of your nairaland posts here.
Work on your anger so you won't lose a good girl.
Grow up.

How many comments have I made on nairaland that would make u feel I have anger issues?. Saying her brother talked sense into my head was belittling even though it was a joke!. There are things you joke with.

If I have reacted to your comments angrily, then pardon me, I only find your hypocritical nature annoying at times. See ya!

One thing you must learn if you want to have a successful relationship is to learn how to be calm in the face of oppression. If you fail to attain maturity in this area, women will reduce you to their level and beat you with experience by naturally trying to hurt you with words, most especially if you're the type that reacts and gets unnecessarily angry a lot over nothing.

The best is to ignore certain things like this one you posted. It's not necessary that you confront her as it will lead to more quarrels and emotional pains which can eventually destory your relationship.

Like back to default settings she meant.
just passing biko