Good day Family,
i have some questions to ask and i want sincere answers and reason for the answers
is it normal for your boyfriend mum to always call and check on you like once a week or twice a week, i see it as chocking and it is not comfortable for me so most times i don't pick her calls and she will immediately report me to my boyfriend.
is it compulsory for me to go to any occasion from my boyfriend side because i don't like parties and i don't
is it normal for your boyfriend to depend on you for house rent and when you refuse to pay about 600k, he started giving attitude and stop calling
is it normal for your boyfriend and his family to be so close that they don't have any secret, i mean it any secret but to his girlfriend he does not open up as he does with his family so his family also expect his girlfriend to open up.
is it normal for a younger boyfriend that does not have a source of income sometimes depends on his girlfriend and on tutor money to always give his elder brother money for feeding, for school fees for three kids, for recharge card and data and this elder brothers has a source of income but uses his money to buy clothes, phones and laptop and look good but depend on his younger brother to feed his family and take care of his basis need, also his younger sister does the same thing too, she depends on him my boyfriend to take care of her and her three kids needs.
after much thinking and dating him for about 5 years i decided to put an end to the relationship because i don't think the future is bright with this kind of family because he does not want to change people are blaming me that i am wicked but i am really wicked to jilt him.

So why are you telling us? Do you want us to prescribe to you a new boyfriend or what?

My dear. . You are their pers0nal mugu. Japa. Run for ur life

That’s it...they know you are dating him..but they never knew what you are passing through...You can know my name And not my story.
Wat kind of family does that...what the girlfriend is supposed to Ben doing now the Boyfriend mother is displaying....
Maybe you should talk to him about it!!!

How can a man st0op so l0w to depend on a girl. . Wey b say she fit yab u with that any where. . If my gal is rich, i w0uld neva depend 0n her. . Its insulting to 0ne's pers0nalty a swear

is it compulsory for me to go to any occasion from my boyfriend side because i don't like parties and i don't usually go so he is always not comfortable with my ideas and he thinks i don't like his family
so one day his younger sister gave birth and i did not greet her because i felt it was not necessary and i was disappointed in her not my own concern but you can't take care of two kids and you till went to have more kids, i feel it does not make sense so i did not greet her, it actually cause alot of fight between her brother and i. was i wrong.
he also have a parasitic friend that takes and never gives so i told him, if he wants us to till be together and he wants me to rent a house for him, i told him i don't want his friendship with the parasite and i won't allow his family members coming to stay in my house for more than a week, after a week they should go.
i mistakenly pressed enter before finishing up this line that was why i continued on another page. i want to know where am wrong and why

My dear borrow antelope leg

Am single and searching sha. . Only matured and cultured gal should buzz my number. NO M0NEY U FIT C SCAM ME OR TAKE ME AS MUGU. Slayers. .stay away

Draslo:
So why are you telling us? Do you want us to prescribe to you a new boyfriend or what?

no sir, i don't need you to prescribe a boyfriend for me, am not bad look, i can easily get one when i need, just wanted to know if i was wrong in any way so that i wont make the same mistake again, you need to learn from your mistakes sometimes to be a better person

How old are you?

Well... It's not advisable to date such a guy because he's clearly after what he can get from you and not you as a person.

It's better to run for your life. No future in your relationship if what you typed is the real fact about your relationship.

Akin4sure:

no sir, i don't need you to prescribe a boyfriend for me, am not bad look, i can easily get one when i need, just wanted to know if i was wrong in any way so that i wont make the same mistake again, you need to learn from your mistakes sometimes to be a better person

Ok. Maybe your boyfriend...now ex isn't as matured as he should be considering you're the one paying the rent and whatnot. He's unemployed but also supporting his siblings with your money, I'm guessing, otherwise why else would you be pissed? Nobody's perfect. Tell him what is bothering you. If he cannot adjust or both of you coming to a mid point, then you'll know you tried, at the very least. From your write up, you're tired of him and despise his family already. Anyway, make good choices. Good luck.

You aren't wrong.

This life is easy. Don't let anybody make you feel guilty over choosing what's best for you.

Teach people how to treat you, if they can't adjust, let them go in peace.

Draslo:

Ok. Maybe your boyfriend...now ex isn't as matured as he should be considering you're the one paying the rent and whatnot. He's unemployed but also supporting his siblings with your money, I'm guessing, otherwise why else would you be pissed? Nobody's perfect. Tell him what is bothering you. If he cannot adjust or both of you coming to a mid point, then you'll know you tried, at the very least. From your write up, you're tired of him and despise his family already. Anyway, make good choices. Good luck.

Thanks, have discussed it with him several times but he sees it as life is simple always give and help, i would not be annoyed if he was rich like dangote and gives but the way i was brought up if i am not wrong was to eat, save and give out if you have extra but eating and saving was the main key my parents taught me

CalliDora1:
How old are you?

Well... It's not advisable to date such a guy because he's clearly after what he can get from you and not you as a person.

late 20s

Akin4sure:

late 20s

Ok.

If you can, find your way.

If you want to get an unbiased advise you shouldn't have said your boyfriend rather your girlfriend.

Akin4sure:
Good day Family,
i have some questions to ask and i want sincere answers and reason for the answers
is it normal for your boyfriend mum to always call and check on you like once a week or twice a week, i see it as chocking and it is not comfortable for me so most times i don't pick her calls and she will immediately report me to my boyfriend.
is it compulsory for me to go to any occasion from my boyfriend side because i don't like parties and i don't
is it normal for your boyfriend to depend on you for house rent and when you refuse to pay about 600k, he started giving attitude and stop calling
is it normal for your boyfriend and his family to be so close that they don't have any secret, i mean it any secret but to his girlfriend he does not open up as he does with his family so his family also expect his girlfriend to open up.
is it normal for a younger boyfriend that does not have a source of income sometimes depends on his girlfriend and on tutor money to always give his elder brother money for feeding, for school fees for three kids, for recharge card and data and this elder brothers has a source of income but uses his money to buy clothes, phones and laptop and look good but depend on his younger brother to feed his family and take care of his basis need, also his younger sister does the same thing too, she depends on him my boyfriend to take care of her and her three kids needs.
after much thinking and dating him for about 5 years i decided to put an end to the relationship because i don't think the future is bright with this kind of family because he does not want to change people are blaming me that i am wicked but i am really wicked to jilt him.

Amen! Good call!

It's better to run for your life. No future in your relationship if what you typed is the real fact about your relationship.

Pls run o,dont end up like someone i know

Akin4sure:
Good day Family,
i have some questions to ask and i want sincere answers and reason for the answers
is it normal for your boyfriend mum to always call and check on you like once a week or twice a week, i see it as chocking and it is not comfortable for me so most times i don't pick her calls and she will immediately report me to my boyfriend.
is it compulsory for me to go to any occasion from my boyfriend side because i don't like parties and i don't
is it normal for your boyfriend to depend on you for house rent and when you refuse to pay about 600k, he started giving attitude and stop calling
is it normal for your boyfriend and his family to be so close that they don't have any secret, i mean it any secret but to his girlfriend he does not open up as he does with his family so his family also expect his girlfriend to open up.
is it normal for a younger boyfriend that does not have a source of income sometimes depends on his girlfriend and on tutor money to always give his elder brother money for feeding, for school fees for three kids, for recharge card and data and this elder brothers has a source of income but uses his money to buy clothes, phones and laptop and look good but depend on his younger brother to feed his family and take care of his basis need, also his younger sister does the same thing too, she depends on him my boyfriend to take care of her and her three kids needs.
after much thinking and dating him for about 5 years i decided to put an end to the relationship because i don't think the future is bright with this kind of family because he does not want to change people are blaming me that i am wicked but i am really wicked to jilt him.

pls,this is not a healthy relationship.What kind of mentality is this?too bad

Your boy friend is with you because you pay his bills and his family. Pack your bag and look for someone else that is responsible